Do’s & Don’ts of Dating Again: Jumping back in the Dating World

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10/04/24 • 31 min

After navigating the emotional rollercoaster of a breakup, stepping back into the dating scene can feel incredibly overwhelming. I share my personal struggles and victories in this new chapter. Whether it's a swift return to dating apps or a deliberate pause for self-healing, there's no universal path to moving on.
It's about more than just finding someone; it's about finding someone who enriches your life and shares your vision for the future.
With stories of unexpectedly joyful dates and reminders that dating can be an enlightening experience, I encourage approaching each opportunity with an open mind and a “we’ll see” mentality. Amidst navigating breakups, I underline the importance of leaning on friends and family for support, turning to them for shared laughter and healing.

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In Our Dating Era - Do’s & Don’ts of Dating Again: Jumping back in the Dating World

Transcript

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Good morning and welcome to episode two of In Our Dating Era .

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It is a little gloomy here in Southern California right now and it has me in a mood . I'm in a bit of a funk , I'm not going to lie . I'm feeling a little tired , a little drowsy

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and , yeah , this weather is just not givin