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I'm not gay, you are - Exploring Identity Through Science: Featuring Tom

Exploring Identity Through Science: Featuring Tom

03/05/25 • 47 min

I'm not gay, you are

Message Joey!

Ever found yourself questioning the roots of your identity? In our latest episode, we dive deep into the thought-provoking intersection of genetics and sexual orientation with Tom, a molecular genetics expert. From childhood crushes to the science of ‘gay genes’, Tom shares his personal narrative, offering a unique lens through which to examine the nature vs. nurture debate. We unravel how individual experiences shape our identities against the backdrop of evolving scientific understanding. Throughout our conversation, we tackle profound questions about the genetics of queerness, touching on studies involving twins and the implications of designer babies. Tom provides critical insights into the ethics surrounding genetic modifications and what it means for future generations, especially within the LGBTQ+ community. We'll explore not just the science, but also the societal attitudes that have historically framed our understanding of queer identities. Our discussion aims to illuminate the complexities surrounding sexual orientation while fostering open dialogue about acceptance and diversity in today’s world. As we share personal stories along with scientific insights, we encourage you to reflect on your thoughts and engage with us in the conversation. Join us on this enlightening journey, and don’t forget to subscribe for more enriching discussions!

Follow the show on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/imnotgayyouarepodcast/
Stay tuned bi weekly (Wednesday) for a new episode from I'm not gay, you are

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Message Joey!

Ever found yourself questioning the roots of your identity? In our latest episode, we dive deep into the thought-provoking intersection of genetics and sexual orientation with Tom, a molecular genetics expert. From childhood crushes to the science of ‘gay genes’, Tom shares his personal narrative, offering a unique lens through which to examine the nature vs. nurture debate. We unravel how individual experiences shape our identities against the backdrop of evolving scientific understanding. Throughout our conversation, we tackle profound questions about the genetics of queerness, touching on studies involving twins and the implications of designer babies. Tom provides critical insights into the ethics surrounding genetic modifications and what it means for future generations, especially within the LGBTQ+ community. We'll explore not just the science, but also the societal attitudes that have historically framed our understanding of queer identities. Our discussion aims to illuminate the complexities surrounding sexual orientation while fostering open dialogue about acceptance and diversity in today’s world. As we share personal stories along with scientific insights, we encourage you to reflect on your thoughts and engage with us in the conversation. Join us on this enlightening journey, and don’t forget to subscribe for more enriching discussions!

Follow the show on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/imnotgayyouarepodcast/
Stay tuned bi weekly (Wednesday) for a new episode from I'm not gay, you are

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Follow the show on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/imnotgayyouarepodcast/
Stay tuned bi weekly (Wednesday) for a new episode from I'm not gay, you are

I'm not gay, you are - Exploring Identity Through Science: Featuring Tom

Transcript

Joey

Welcome back to another episode of I'm Not Gay you Are . Today we have Tom here to talk to us about genetics and listen to his journey and his story hello , hello .

Tom

How's everybody doing ?

Joey

I'm really excited to share the wealth of knowledge that you bring on like genetics and talk to you about , like

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