
Is your body telling you its unhappy?
09/13/20 • 36 min
The simplest way to measure happiness and self love is your body.
Dude you'll spin your wheels forever trying to fix side effects and you'll never ever solve the root problem. It's like having termites and obsessing over cleaning up those little balls they make, but never doing anything about the damn termites. Eventually your house comes down. The body only has 1 master and that's the mind. Nothing is random. Not acne, not insomnia, not disease, nothing. Your body is telling you that your feelings of worthlessness are what's making you sick. The actual sickness is just a side effect. Like the termite ball thingys. Of course we always want the easy way out, we always want the path of least resistance, we always want to blame something else for our physical manifestations. It's such a blow to the ego to admit "I have dog shit standards, no boundaries, and no self worth." You're not alone, we all hate admitting that haha. But you do have a choice. You can choose to accept your body's alarm and learn HOW to freaking love yourself. Self love equals a healthy strong body that feels really freaking amazing. Alarms only go off when self hatred is trespassing.The simplest way to measure happiness and self love is your body.
Dude you'll spin your wheels forever trying to fix side effects and you'll never ever solve the root problem. It's like having termites and obsessing over cleaning up those little balls they make, but never doing anything about the damn termites. Eventually your house comes down. The body only has 1 master and that's the mind. Nothing is random. Not acne, not insomnia, not disease, nothing. Your body is telling you that your feelings of worthlessness are what's making you sick. The actual sickness is just a side effect. Like the termite ball thingys. Of course we always want the easy way out, we always want the path of least resistance, we always want to blame something else for our physical manifestations. It's such a blow to the ego to admit "I have dog shit standards, no boundaries, and no self worth." You're not alone, we all hate admitting that haha. But you do have a choice. You can choose to accept your body's alarm and learn HOW to freaking love yourself. Self love equals a healthy strong body that feels really freaking amazing. Alarms only go off when self hatred is trespassing.Previous Episode

How to make a move (change your life)
Dude this is my favorite episode so far!
Which is epic because it confirms I am always growing and I have so much more love and energy to share every week. And I'm talking about something so close to my heart. Get ready to be inspired AF! I know everyone's ego thinks it's easier for me because I'm with my soul mate King Chris, we're rich, and our business is thriving and growing every month. It's definitely not easier for me sis. I can literally chalk up my success to the fact that I MAKE A FUCKING MOVE. I don't talk about doing shit and never do it. I don't do something until I get bored and then quit. I'm not secretly waiting for someone to save me. Last week I launched a fundraiser in honour of my soul sis Rosie who passed away in a car accident at 37 years young. My original goal was to raise $12,000 to save a child's life from sex slavery through Operation Underground Railroad. We raised $9,000 in 2 days so my new goal is to save as many children as possible. Here's the link to donate https://my.ourrescue.org/fundraisers/lani-nalu-fundraiser-in-rosies-memory Have you ever donated a substantial amount that actually makes a difference? Have you ever saved a child's life from being brutally raped 10 times a day? Most are sold by their parents btw, so even if they do get rescued they have no parents to keep them safe. The problem is... everyone is waiting for someone else to donate. Waiting for someone else to volunteer, waiting for someone else to help these children. I got news for you sis. If you are not helping these kids you are hurting them. Chris and I are so rich and successful because we share so much kindness, we donate so much money, and we gift so much of our time. If you refuse to donate $5 right now, there's no way if you do happen to get rich you'll donate $3,000 with ease, or use your energy to help save kids' lives. The moment to make a move is right now. The brilliant part is you are in charge of that. To me this is the definition of EMPOWERING. If you are ready to make a move your first step is to come to my FREE online workshop so I can teach you HOW. Click the link and sign up now! I believe in you.Next Episode

The secret behind attraction
I always get... "Lani how do I know if I'm being a judgemental bitch and picking on my partner or if I'm settling for a crappy relationship?" It sounds so crazy that grown ass women don't know how to answer this for themselves, but I was there too. I used to cry in the shower and ask God to just tell me what to do. My prayers also included... "If I'm meant to be with him forever and be miserable then I'll stay." I don't know how much clearer it could have been to me Jesus! I'm miserable. Should I stay? What the actual fuck. When did our collective consciousness as women drop so low that we need someone else to tell us to leave an unfulfilling relationship? Women truly think that if someone just told them the answer their life would be great. Which is total BS because the problem is not your man sis, the problem is your low level of consciousness. Your romantic relationship or lack thereof, is a direct reflection of your consciousness. You have exactly what you're attracted to. If you didn't get something out of it, you wouldn't be in it. Women love to tell me "But Lani he's a good man." And they freaking complain about him. I speak so highly of Chris behind his back. I don't question if he's the one. I don't make excuses for him. I don't put him down and I definitely don't complain about him holding me back. Instead of asking... Why are all these things wrong with him? Focus on why you're attracted to someone you complain about and judge. Focus on your level of consciousness because this is the root sis. I believe in you!
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