Hot Girl's Theory - Am I The Asshole? #8 ... Catching Cheaters, Sugar Babies & Former Escorts

Am I The Asshole? #8 ... Catching Cheaters, Sugar Babies & Former Escorts

06/29/22 • 52 min

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AM I THE ASSHOLE? #8 ... CATCHING CHEATERS, SUGAR BABIES & FORMER ESCORTS | The Hot Girls are back to take the judge stand on the case of Reddit's infamous forum: Am I The Asshole!? From people who lurk on Tinder to allegedly catch out cheaters to asking if it's okay to force two drunk girls to walk home alone because they were being drunk and annoying, Ash (@ashleighxorose) & Indi (@fueledbyindi) don't keep their opinions to themselves as they find the verdict.
In an extra layer of juicy, The Hot Girls question if it's morally okay to not tell your partner that you were/was a sex worker, as well asking why must one be ashamed to be referred to as a sugar baby for enjoying the gifts and cashola from an older man? Get into your Lana Del Rey sugar lolita fantasy!
Article Read: Reproduction regulation, abortion and Indigenous women since the 1970s by Cassandra Byrne
Further resources can be found here.

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Artwork by Kaila, @whinemum on Instagram
Music in this episode from Epidemic Sound:
Ballpoint - In The Dash
Damma Beatz - Crazy 8s
Damma Beatz - Was Never Ready
Dreem - Cherish Me
Dreem - Let's Leave
Sum Wave - Get Right
Tigerblood Jewel - Tiger Beat
West & Zander - Haga
Theme Music:
King Sis - My/Your Place
Chapters:
0:00 - We want your ex-files!
0:47 - Intro & Acknowledgment of Country
2:05: News: Abortion Rights In Australia + Accessibility, Class & Race Dynamics
18.15: Life Updates
22:50: Plugs
24:10: Intro for AITA!?
25:08: Am I the asshole if I told my best friend that his girlfriend is unstable because she has a tinder account to lurk on cheaters?
32:30: Am I the asshole for telling my best friend she is a SWer?
38.30: Am I the asshole for throwing two drunks girls out of my car in the middle of the night?
45:18: Am I the asshole for not telling my fiance that I was a SWer?
52.04: Outro

Previous Episode

Celebrating Pride Month: Yeah I Was A Fruity Kid! With Bee

CELEBRATING PRIDE MONTH WITH BEE | For this years annual pride month episode, the hotties are joined by Bee - she/they (@_gossipgoth_) to discuss all things queer, polyamory and existing outside the norm.
From the first feelings of fruitiness as a kid whilst watching 'The L Word' to stolen kisses from the girl next door, Bee has been so open and honest with us about their journey and experiences of queerness throughout their life. We also discussed Bee's life as a polyamorous person and the intersection of their queer/poly identities, dating apps and how body modifications impact her.
Finally, we also acknowledge that pride month is a time to recognise our roots and queer history and to celebrate the gender non-conforming people of colour who paved the way for our rights.
Find Bee on Instagram @_gossipgoth_
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Artwork by Kaila, @whinemum on Instagram
Music in this episode from Epidemic Sound:
Harvio - Mambo
DJ Mayson - Pretty People
spring gang - Steam
DAJANA - Douche
LeDorean ft. King Sis - Rendezvous
King Sis - All Love
King Sis - Big Moody
DJ DENZ The Rooster - JOYFUL VS HAPPINESS
Sarah, the Illstrumentalist - Cotton Candy Flavored
Sarah, the Illustrumentalist - Golden Skin
Theme Music:
King Sis - My/Your Place
Chapters:
0:00 - Bee's Intro
0:30 - Intro & Acknowledgment of Country
1:20 - Life updates
6:00 - Bee & her journey with queerness
13:00 - Pronouns and what they mean for us
23:20 - Polyamory and what that means for Bee
31:00 - How being poly and queer intersects for Bee
33:40 - Using dating apps whilst poly & queer
43:40 - How body modifications impact Bee
52:00 - What does pride month mean for Bee?
56:50 - Bee's info
57:50 - Outro

Next Episode

Autism & ADHD Explained With Dr Joey Lawrence

AUTISM & ADHD EXPLAINED WITH DR JOEY LAWRENCE | This week we are joined by fellow neurodivergent and clinical psychologist, the wonderful Dr Joey Lawrence. Joey strongly believes in advocating for neurodivergent people, which is shown through her online presence. Her TikTok content speaks volumes to her desire and ability to break down misconceptions and reduce harm that may face the autistic community.
Our conversations ranged from self diagnosing autism, to co-occurring diagnoses, hyperfixations, autistic burnout, dating whilst autistic and more. You won't wanna miss this interview!
Find more resources that Joey has recommended us here.
Follow Dr Joey:
Instagram: @drjoeylawrence
TikTok: @nd_psych
Donate to Joey's ADHD Autism Fundraiser via Godfundme!
Follow us on socials:
HGT Instagram: @hotgirlstheory
HGT Twitter: /hotgirlstheory
HGT TikTok: @hgtpodcast
Ash's Instagram: @ashleighxorose
Indi's Instagram: @fueledbyindi
Check out our brand new website HERE!
Support the show:
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Artwork by Kaila, @whinemum on Instagram
Music in this episode from Epidemic Sound:
_91nova - Dusk To Dawn
Cushy - Laughing
Ran the Man - Lakehouse
A P O L L O - Lights Bright
Love Beans - Love To Be Around You
BLUE STEEL - Offshore
Nbhd Nick - Staircase
Theme Music:
King Sis - My/Your Place
Chapters:
0:00 - Joey's Intro
0:18 - Intro & Acknowledgment of Country
1:06 - Life Updates
6:22 - Plugs
7:35 - Welcome to the show Dr Joey Lawrence
8:40 - Diagnosing autism, shame, women & autism
12:10 - Hyperfixation
15:30 - Co-occurring diagnoses with autism, stigma, self diagnosing
23:30 - Trauma and neurodivergence, social cues & interaction
32:00 - The double empathy problem
35:45 - Is everyone actually on the spectrum?
39:30 - Autistic burnout and surviving university
52:20 - Dating whilst autistic
55:50 - Joey's fundraiser & plugs
58:47 - Outro