
108. Greatest Hits: Molly Millwood on Motherhood, Marriage, and the Modern Dilemma
12/27/21 • 75 min
We brought back Molly Millwood’s episode this week! Molly was our first author to join the podcast and our first book club author for HERself. Her message is an important one for any stage of motherhood and is one of our most listened to episodes to date.
If you have read her incredible book To Have and To Hold: Motherhood, Marriage, and the Modern Dilemma...you know how powerful her words are. It is both freeing and validating for women in the throes of one of life’s biggest transitions: motherhood.
Special takeaways:
- Resentment for our partners is generally formed around unrealistic expectations
- The goal of being a “good enough” mother
- The inequities between men and women when it comes to parenting are real
- Giving voice around fear, depletion, longing and hunger will win over passive aggressive communication every time
- A man’s ability to accept influence from their partner is directly related to marital stability
- Seeking professional therapy should be normalized and we could all benefit from it
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Resources:
Molly’s book: To Have and to Hold
Molly’s Website: www.MollyMillwood.com
Let’s connect!
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We brought back Molly Millwood’s episode this week! Molly was our first author to join the podcast and our first book club author for HERself. Her message is an important one for any stage of motherhood and is one of our most listened to episodes to date.
If you have read her incredible book To Have and To Hold: Motherhood, Marriage, and the Modern Dilemma...you know how powerful her words are. It is both freeing and validating for women in the throes of one of life’s biggest transitions: motherhood.
Special takeaways:
- Resentment for our partners is generally formed around unrealistic expectations
- The goal of being a “good enough” mother
- The inequities between men and women when it comes to parenting are real
- Giving voice around fear, depletion, longing and hunger will win over passive aggressive communication every time
- A man’s ability to accept influence from their partner is directly related to marital stability
- Seeking professional therapy should be normalized and we could all benefit from it
20% off at HUZZAH with code ‘herself’: http://drinkhuzzah.com
Resources:
Molly’s book: To Have and to Hold
Molly’s Website: www.MollyMillwood.com
Let’s connect!
HERSELF INSTAGRAM: instagram.com/herselfpodcast
MEET MOLLY: instagram.com/molly.millwood.phd/
MEET AMY: instagram.com/ameskiefer
MEET ABBY: instagram.com/abbyrosegreen
HERSELF SHOWNOTES: www.herselfpodcast.com
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107. Greatest Hits: Mental Health Therapist Kate Borsato on Postpartum Anxiety and Finding Your Identity Outside of Motherhood
Mental health therapist Kate Borsato joins us on the podcast as we bring back her episode from late 2020. Different year, same struggles for many as we dive into pandemic stress, postpartum anxiety and the identity shift that motherhood brings. These conversations need to happen and this podcast is the perfect platform for them.
So in today's episode, you can expect vulnerability, honesty, and help navigating through your own motherhood challenges. All the while, this amazing expert will lead the way. @kateborsato, you are a light in this world. Thank you SO much for what you do for mamas and thank you for having this conversation with us.
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109. Reframe Your Year
Happy New Year HERself listeners! We start this year with some inspiration and prompts to help you reframe your thoughts around some of life’s biggest stressors. Whether it’s a last minute change of plans, the demands from everyone everywhere, the tiny tasks that add up to big overwhelm, or feeling the monotony of life... this episode will help you process.
Let’s start this year with grace and realistic expectations. And we will be right by your side through it all!
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