
The Life-Changing Magic of Actually Doing Stuff - Start 2025 Right
01/03/25 โข 22 min
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Stop Dreaming, Start Doing - Action is more important than planning.
We are increasingly addicted to planning yet more and more allergic to doing.
Get your ducks in a row this year as we learn about the psychology behind our goals and dreams and what it takes to knuckle down, make some hard decisions and start taking action.
We discuss some key concepts:
- What is our real work
- The problem with motivation and aspirations
- Waiting for life to blow us in the right direction
- 4 Burners theory
Sam also shares his own results, including the failures and successes behind taking bigger leaps and focusing on your main goals.
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Growth Mindset Psychology:
Sam Webster explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement.
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Chapters:
00:00 Amateur vs Professional goal-seeking
00:38 Growth Minded ambition vs Fixed Minded
01:07 The trap of 'find your calling'
02:29 The real work behind your calling
03:21 "When I feel like it" - means "never"
04:36 Writing as a hobby or a profession
06:16 Podcasting at professional quality
08:12 Making your own path
10:26 Sam's results and reflections
14:40 4 Burners Hypothesis
16:26 Questions to stop dreaming and start doing
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Stop Dreaming, Start Doing - Action is more important than planning.
We are increasingly addicted to planning yet more and more allergic to doing.
Get your ducks in a row this year as we learn about the psychology behind our goals and dreams and what it takes to knuckle down, make some hard decisions and start taking action.
We discuss some key concepts:
- What is our real work
- The problem with motivation and aspirations
- Waiting for life to blow us in the right direction
- 4 Burners theory
Sam also shares his own results, including the failures and successes behind taking bigger leaps and focusing on your main goals.
Upgrade to Premium:
๐๏ธ Ad-free listening
๐ค Support the show
๐ Exclusive AMAs and bonus content
๐ฌ Community Discord
Sponsors:
๐ Constant Wonder - The podcast for questioning why
- Explorations of wonder and awe in science, art, & history
๐ Unbound Merino - Highest quality Merino wool clothing
- 10% off with code 'PSYCHOLOGY'
- UnboundMerino.com
Get in Touch
๐ Free Call - Schedule Link - https://cal.com/samwebster/mindset
๐ง Email - GrowthMindsetPodcast (@) gmail,com
Growth Mindset Psychology:
Sam Webster explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement.
๐บ Watch - YouTube (Growth Mindset)
๐ Website - Growth Mindset
Chapters:
00:00 Amateur vs Professional goal-seeking
00:38 Growth Minded ambition vs Fixed Minded
01:07 The trap of 'find your calling'
02:29 The real work behind your calling
03:21 "When I feel like it" - means "never"
04:36 Writing as a hobby or a profession
06:16 Podcasting at professional quality
08:12 Making your own path
10:26 Sam's results and reflections
14:40 4 Burners Hypothesis
16:26 Questions to stop dreaming and start doing
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Previous Episode

10 Powerful Stoic Questions: Review Your Year and Refocus your Life
What does it mean to live a good life?
The Stoics were the masters of asking the right questions to focus the mind on what's important.
At the year's end, it's a perfect time to reflect on who you've been this year and who you want to be going forward.
We juggle multiple priorities and hectic demands, so it's easy to get lost in the day-to-day. Today's episode will combine Psychology with Stoicism as we ask the most important questions we can of ourselves to help direct our lives in the direction we want them to take.
Topics include:
- Turning obstacles into opportunity
- Overcoming the fears that hold us back
- Simplifying our life
- Walking the walk
- Taking control of our responsibilities.
Nowhere can man find a quieter or more untroubled retreat than in his own soul: Inner peace comes from self-awareness and reflection"
Upgrade to Premium:
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๐ค Support the show
๐ Exclusive AMAs and bonus content
๐ฌ Community Discord
Sponsors:
๐ Constant Wonder - The podcast for questioning why
- Explorations of wonder and awe in science, art, & history
๐ Unbound Merino - Highest quality Merino wool clothing
- 10% off with code 'PSYCHOLOGY'
- UnboundMerino.com
Get in Touch
๐ Free Call - Schedule Link - https://cal.com/samwebster/mindset
๐ง Email - GrowthMindsetPodcast (@) gmail,com
Growth Mindset Psychology:
Sam Webster explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement.
๐บ Watch - YouTube (Growth Mindset)
๐ Website - Growth Mindset
Chapters:
00:00 Connecting Stoic wisdom and growth mindsets
02:36 Am I Practicing What I Preach?
03:59 How can I simplify my life to focus on what's important?
06:02 Will this matter in one year or five years time?
08:20 What is within my control?
10:18 How can I turn obstacles into opportunities?
14:17 What fears are holding me back?
15:32 How am I contributing to my own dissatisfaction?
17:01 To be or to do?
18:34 Are you doing your job?
19:41 What would it mean to live a good life today?
21:13 Send off
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What Are The Top 5 Reasons People Fail To Achieve Their Goals
The psychology of beating procrastination, inaction, and confusion that lets you systematically work towards any goal.
Goal setting is easy - Goal achieving is a very different thing.
We dig into the main causes and the often small but subtle tweaks we can make that keep us in check.
Using ideas from psychology and ancient wisdom we see how humans have dealt with the big hairy ambitious goals over history and how you can too:
- Task Initiation Paralysis - Shows us how Charles Darwin overcame the most complex tasks in history.
- Ulysses Contracts - Teaches us how Victor Hugo wrote the timeless Hunchback of Notre Dame ahead of schedule by engineering his environment.
- Effective vs Fluffy Intentions - How psychologists helped heart surgery patients double their success rates through a simple sentence change.
Sam also lists some of the most effective resources and tools you can access to stay on track to beat the common problems we face.
This episode carries on the mini-series on goals and achievement:
- Journey vs Destination - Choosing the right goals
- Stop dreaming, start doing - The magic of actually doing stuff
Upgrade to Premium:
๐๏ธ Ad-free listening
๐ค Support the show
๐ Exclusive AMAs and bonus content
๐ฌ Community Discord
Sponsors:
๐ Constant Wonder - The podcast for questioning why
- Explorations of wonder and awe in science, art, & history
Get in Touch
๐ Free Call - Schedule Link - https://cal.com/samwebster/mindset
๐ง Email - GrowthMindsetPodcast (@) gmail,com
Growth Mindset Psychology:
Sam Webster explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement.
๐บ Watch - YouTube (Growth Mindset)
๐ Website - Growth Mindset
Chapters:
00:00 How we lose track of reality and where to find it
01:21 Unrealistic expectations
02:07 Not ready for the moment
05:36 Time to adjust to new habit
06:11 Personal responsibility - No external help - No momentum
07:49 Charles Darwin and Task Initiation Paralysis
10:02 Beating Motivation with "when - Then" contracts
13:06 Ulysses contracts and Victor Hugo's writing strategy
16:47 Get it out of your head
17:43 Cohort learning
19:10 Coaching
20:02 Accountability Groups
21:45 Future letters
23:02 Bonus tips
24:07 Temporal discounting and the real Marshmallow study
26:18 Keeping promises to ourselves
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