Girls Gone Deep

Elle and Vee

Two sex-positive ladies in the ethically non-monogamous lifestyle chatting about how we use dating and sex as a space for personal development and growth, and creating the most joyous life possible. A podcast for the open-minded, curious and naughty. @girlsgonedeeppod www.girlsgonedeep.com

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017: Guys Gone Deep on Approaching Women: Body Language, Turn Offs, and Panty Droppers

Girls Gone Deep

04/27/23 • 61 min

Elle and Vee continue their conversation with Chet about how to approach women in the lifetsyle, including:

Body Language: how can you figure out if someone is into you based on nonverbal signals? The importance of verbal communication. Should you ask for consent before touching someone (even non-sexually)? (1:46)

Organic Connections: Chemistry, and how does an initial “no” turn into a “yes”? (12:02)

Single vs partnered men: as a man, is it easier to play when a women is involved in the interaction? The dynamics of playing with partners. Aggressive men. (19:20)

Making Assumptions: The boundaries when playing with couples. Taking liberties based on signals. (29:16)

Panty Droppers! (33:32)

Turn-offs: how substances affect your ability to make connections, men taking liberties, asking for consent every time, aggresive dominance, and being creepy. (41:27)

How to hit on a woman in the lifestyle: using your partner as a wing woman or wing man, using activities as a way to break the ice, and being vulnerable. (53:30)

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014: Hedonism Swing Breakers: Being Naked in Public, Prioritizing Your Partner, and Orgy Highlights

Girls Gone Deep

04/06/23 • 77 min

In this episode, Elle and Vee record both during and after their week at Hedonism II Resort in Negril, Jamaica for the theme week Hedonism Swing Breakers. First, they set intentions and afterwards, they reflect on their experience - all the highlights, learning moments and dirty details, including:

Hedonism: What is it like being nude in public, and how does it affect your interactions? How do you know what a couple’s boundaries and interests are? Theme nights and entertainment. (00:24)

Setting non-sexual intentions for the week. (9:44)

Sexual intentions and “Fuckit List” items: double penetration (DP) and gang bangs. (14:31)

Prioritizing time with your partner at swinger resorts, and how to deal with FOMO on group trips. (17:51)

Sexual mantras, sexual female connections and impact play sessions. (20:26)

Overall assessments of Hedo: does being nude in public get easier throughout the week? Comparing past Hedonism experiences and HSB 2023. Tip for newbies: get off the resort and go to Lobster Island! (24:16)

Using a banana as a sex toy: crazy silly memories with friends AKA the “Barnarnar” story. (34:46)

Major takeaway: friends in the lifestyle, the sense of community at HSB, and picking up where you left off the year before. (37:30)

What is Nuru, and why is it a highlight for Elle? (38:48)

Did Vee fulfill her DP intention? (43:10)

Vee’s first MFM: what’s the secret ingredient to enjoying and thriving in an MFM? (47:12)

What it’s like to have the party room. (51:15)

Triggers: How Elle worked through a triggering moment, and how she grew from it, the importance of speaking up and doing fears desires boundaries, and making everything about us. (53:44)

What is the Fetish Night show at Hedonism like? (1:02:57)

Re-learning the same lessons with your partner until they sink in: how do you deal when two partners have different libidos and aren’t on the same page at a lifestyle event? How women lead a lot of the interactions in the lifestyle, and the challenges for men when their partner isn’t in the mood. (1:04:27)

053: Butt Stuff: Anal Sex, Pegging, DP, Butt Plugs, Rimjobs, Douching, and Everything In Between!

Girls Gone Deep

01/11/24 • 68 min

In the episode you've all been waiting for ;), Elle and Vee dive deep into all things BUTT STUFF, including (drumroll please)... Vee's play by play of her first DP!
New Years Eve: Vee does DP (double pentration)! (2:23)

Butt plugs: tails and inflatable butt plugs - the pros and cons and what to watch out for! Douching, and butt plugs falling out. (12:45)

Lubes: types of lube (silicone vs water based), coconut oil and lube shooters. What Elle learned from the Reddit thread Ask Gay Bros. (26:01)

Rimjobs aka rimming. (30:41)

Nail hygiene and the snag test. (32:12)

First Experiences: how bad ones scar us; experimenting and opening our minds to butt stuff. (34:00)

Anal training. (36:01)

Diet: psyllium husk, fiber, acacia, water! (38:18)

First time receiving anal vs first time enjoying it; synesthesia and seeing visions during orgasms and anal. (42:40)
Pegging: communication and should you stimulate the person being pegged? (48:45)
Positions: comparing anal on top, missionary, and doggy style. (53:24)
Golden Rule of Ass Play: no cross-contamination, and cleanliness - gloves, peeing, and washing after. (54:35)
“It’s gay for a guy to like butt stuff.” (1:00:00)
“My asshole doesn’t look like a porn asshole.” (1:02:04)
Set and setting: going into butt play with the right headspace. (1:03:32)
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054: From Cam Girl to Dominatrix with Sasha Silver: Financial Domination, Small Penis Humiliation, Giantess Fantasy and Healing Through Kink

Girls Gone Deep

01/18/24 • 79 min

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Femdom Sasha Silver. The girls talk about her journey from webcamming to dominatrix to self discovery to the psychology behind many kinks and fetishes. This conversation has so many good nuggets! We're excited for you take a deep dive with us!
Who is Sasha Silver and how she got into webcamming on Chaturbate, and online Sex Work. (1:38)
What is a cam girl? (4:30)
Sasha shares web cam tips that helped her success. (5:38)
What was on Sasha’s cam girl menu? (9:18)
What is a day of work like and what are the challenges? (11:10)
How did Sasha transition from webcam girl to Femdom? Uncovering her authentic self in the process. (12:36)
How do we women channel our confidence and assertiveness? (16:30)
What is an interaction like with clients? (18:26)
Small penis humiliation story, and the psychology and healing behind fetish and dom work. (20:52)
How does being a dom and embodying various different role plays change Sasha's personal desires and kink? (27:08)
Masculine and feminine energy and the misunderstanding of alpha males and beta males. (28:57)
Which requests does Sasha turn down and does she meet clients in person? (33:17)
How did Sasha learn to become a Femdom? (40:44)
Role-playing as a creative outlet and practicing instant forgiveness. (43:10)
What are the latest fetishes? Giantess fantasy, pregnancy, paraphilic infantilism (ageplay). (47:28)
What about domming women? (54:51)
What is financial domination? How does it work? Is there aftercare? What does it do for the sub? (56:17)
Sasha's transformation to be the woman she is today, letting go of shame (1:07:01)
Quick questions: What does she wear for sessions? Impact play tools during virtual sessions? (1:12:02)
You can find Sasha Silver on Twitter / X HERE

055: The Beauty of Sex as Play: Deep Throating, “Caving”, Double-ended Dildos, and “Who’s in My Mouth?”

Girls Gone Deep

01/25/24 • 60 min

In this episode, Elle and Vee catch up after their separate slutty adventures. Elle gives all the naughty details of her trip to Nicaragua with a group of ENM friends, and Vee shares her sexy stories and takeaways from the Naughty Snowball, an annual sexy party thrown by Brandi and the DJ.
Through detailing their experiences, you get an inside look at all the ways in which Elle, Vee and their friends get intimate and playful one-on-one with their primary partners, and in group sex situations...some things might surprise you!
Elle and M’s playful night: Hand jobs, VR porn and dildos. (3:52)

Deep throating: to do it or not to do it? (10:09)

Pregnancy sexuality updates. (16:15)

Being drawn to your partner at parties. (18:47)

Vee recaps the Naughty Snowball party. (22:52)

Getting day orgies started: Who’s in my mouth? (23:24)

Masturbating to get sex started. (29:23)

Choking and consent. (31:16)

Nicaragua: caving. (38:55)

Sex is the way we play as adults. The beauty of play. (47:35)

Sensory deprivation cave game: who’s going down on me? (50:49)

Double sided dildo, and the need to play with new toys in a more intimate setting. (53:21)

What makes a sexy weekend successful: starting with group play, and doing fear/desires/boundaries. (57:05)

058: “Help! My Ass Swallowed my Butt Plug!”, Golden Shower Pee Play, Fisting, and Staying Focused in Group Play

Girls Gone Deep

02/15/24 • 49 min

In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back guest Jess from Episode 37: Edging, to play the game WHOREible Life together!

This conversation perfectly displays how WHOREible Life the game facilitates a little bit of the naughty chat with a little bit of the DEEP!

When we pulled a card, each of us responded with Done it, Fantasy or No Thank you.

1 Done it —with story sharing

2 Fantasy —-with desire share

3 No thank you --and why not

Ass swallowing butt plug experience. (1:00)

Toy Review: Amovibe Pro+G Spot Flapping Vibrator with Kissing Function & Vibrating Tongue. (6:15)

NEW with GGD: New Episode series launch: Why WHOREible Life? (12:55)

First WL card: “Take a sip for every person you have peed on.” Thoughts are shared around the psychology of what brings on the kink of pee play. (15:19)

Second WL Card: “Been Fisted” and overcoming the idea of, “yeah right, a hand won’t fit in there” (24:34)

How to stay focused on your current partner(s) without getting distracted in a group play situation. (28:42)

No pressure to perform leading to organic sexual play. (33:53)

How Jess and Ace evolved into separate play. (36:12)

Vee shares her first fisting experience. (37:15)

Looser pussy with DVP and solving the triple penetration logistical problem. (42:50)

EXCITING NEW UPDATES WITH GGD: A website, merch shop, & Slutstakes. (45:54)

089: Unicorning in ENM: Navigating Couples’ Dynamics, Self Awareness, Communication and Safety feat. Summer

Girls Gone Deep

09/19/24 • 66 min

Elle and Vee have Summer back for an encore episode after she shared her experiences as a trained submissive under two doms in Episode 088: Inside the Mind of a Sub. This time, she discusses her experiences and the lessons she's learned from being a unicorn for an array of couples with lots of different dynamics, and the girls put in their two cents from their own experiences.
How do you become a unicorn in the ethically non monogamous lifestyle? (1:46)

Navigating couples’ dynamics as a unicorn and establishing your boundaries. Why you should keep texting in the group chat. (9:12)

Deferring to the wife/girlfriend, and holding their feelings in high regard. Feeling thankful for being invited in. (16:07)

As a husband/wife or girlfriend/boyfriend: the benefits of playing separately as a unicorn. (22:20)

Playing with a couple when you’re more attracted to one person than the other. (27:01)

BDSM vs ENM: rough sex vs vanilla sex. (32:30)

Questions to ask as the couple, and as the unicorn, before playing. (34:23)

Best threesome positions. (42:50)

Meeting couples on apps. Overcoming past experiences and being a couples’ first. (46:42)

Listener question: tips to stay safe when meeting new people as a single unicorn. (49:59)
What does this lifestyle (ethical non monogamy) bring to your life in the absence of having your own primary partner? (1:00:26)

062: Sugar Daddy Fantasies, Orgasm Control, Foot Worship and Sex Dungeon Experiences

Girls Gone Deep

03/14/24 • 59 min

In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back two sexy friends to play WHOREible Life the game!
Leia (@vibrantbyleia) from Episode 41: Transformational Experiences in ENM and Episode 42: Sexual Somatic Healing and Sasha Silver (@Sashasilverxo) from Episode 54: From Cam Girl to Dominatrix.

With Leia, the way we played the game was by answering “Done It, Fantasy, No Thank you” and with Sasha, we had to guess if the person who drew the card had done it or not.

Plan B use in college and IUDs. (2:28)

Have you ever had a sugar daddy or sugar mommy and seeking.com discussed. (07:29)

Orgasm control, edging, cumming on demand. (12:50)

Impact play with a crop. (20:37)

Dominatrix Masterclass details shared. (22:13)

Been choked during sex, passing out, fingerprint marks, where pressure is applied and hand placement on the neck/chest. (28:06)

Using WHOREibe Life the game for tips on chaturbate. (36:05)

Massage with a happy ending and surprise rub and tug experience. (37:13)

Received foot worship and toe sucking and double dom experience shared. (43:23)

Sex dungeon experiences shared. (49:34)

Not being a voyeur creep in the sex cub and double standard of women watching others. (55:32)

067: Overcoming Challenges and Exploring Dynamics in Ethical Non-Monogamy: Stag and Vixen, Playing Separately vs Together, and Alcohol's Effects

Girls Gone Deep

04/18/24 • 47 min

In this episode, Vee chats with two couples at Hedonism Swing Breakers about their tools and takeaways for making a vacation at an all-inclusive lifestyle resort a success. Superslut and The Turk chat about how therapy helped set them up for success, while Josie and Evan share how Evan cutting out alcohol changed their relationship for the better. Additionally, they cover: What are some communication techniques to mitigate the effects of the free-flowing alcohol? Why keep doing it if it's so much work? ...And what are some hot experiences they've had along the way?
First Hedo experience: a big challenge. Going through a polyamorous breakup. (3:55)
Tools from both solo and couples therapy. People pleasing. No "taking one for the team". (8:42)
Safety Tool: No record-counting. Setting desires not goals. (12:30)
Safety Tool: Move at the pace of the slowest person. Playing separately vs. playing together. (15:34)
Safety Tool: limiting alcohol consumption to help manage emotions. (17:51)
Safety Tool: Only argue for two minutes. Keep the mindset that you're a team. (19:01)

Spicy story: being a couple's first ENM experience. Enthusiastic consent. (20:01)
Spicy Story: Superslut's first double penetration (DP). (21:31)

Stag and Vixen: what is it? Why a woman might not enjoy watching her partner with someone else. Finding your dynamic through trial and error. Why Hedonism is not the ideal place to figure out what works for you. (22:50)
Drinking and the lifestyle: how drinking affects your ability to respect boundaries and agreements. Getting sober to save your relationship. How stopping drinking can enrich your experience with your partner. Getting used to being at an all-inclusive resort without alcohol. Discovering we are braver than we thought. What do you do with your hands? (28:29)

Why swing? Dressing sexy for your partner. Vaginal hook harnesses. (35:49)
Why be in the open lifestyle? Sense of community. "Hedo people are the best people." Icebreakers. (38:13)

Major takeaway: don’t have a checklist. Release expectations. There’s always next time. (41:01)
Squirting and exhibitionism. (43:20)

038: How to Keep it Sexy in a Long Term Relationship: Esther Perel’s 4 Things to Foster Erotic Desire

Girls Gone Deep

09/21/23 • 42 min

Elle and Vee dive into the work of Esther Perel, a relationship expert, on relationship dynamics, how to keep things sexy and how to foster erotic desire:

When your partner is in their element and confident.
Surprise.
Seeing your partner though the eyes of another.
Longing and absence.

Who is Esther Perel and what is she about? (0:38)

When you ‘have’ something it takes away the wanting, and how the lifestyle helps with this. (2:47)

When do you feel most drawn to your partner? (6:46)

Desire requires focusing on your own pleasure. (9:15)

The balance of neediness in a relationship. (10:24)

In relationships, certain behaviors bring out contrasting behaviors in the other. (11:51)

Two types of people in a relationship: one with the fear of losing the other and one with the fear of losing themselves. (13:50)

Relationship dynamics develop around security and freedom and also self reliance and interdependence. (16:19)

How the lifestyle supports admiration and surprise. (20:30)

When you see your partner through the eyes of someone else. (23:54)

How absence and longing helps with desire yet sometimes has a paradoxical effect in the lifestyle group of friends. (25:15)

Sameness kills desire: Elle and Vee share how they keep it spicy. (29:05)

Forget 1-on-1 First Dates: Try this alternative first date scenario and learn why! (33:32)

PSA: We’re taking a break next week! See you in October!

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How many episodes does Girls Gone Deep have?

Girls Gone Deep currently has 94 episodes available.

What topics does Girls Gone Deep cover?

The podcast is about Health & Fitness, Swinger, Society & Culture, Sex, Kink, Polyamory, Podcasts, Relationships, Sexuality and Self Growth.

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The episode title '048: Freaksgiving Revisit: Sex Party Hosting Checklist, Sub/Dom and Impact Play, and Prioritizing Your Partner' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on Girls Gone Deep?

The average episode length on Girls Gone Deep is 57 minutes.

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Episodes of Girls Gone Deep are typically released every 7 days.

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The first episode of Girls Gone Deep was released on Jan 18, 2023.

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