115: The Undervalued Art of Fingering: The Best Techniques, Squirting, G Spots, and Prostate Play

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03/27/25 • 59 min

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This week, the girls go deep on an often (in their experience) overlooked and underused play option: fingering! Pulling from listener polls, friends, research and their own experience, Elle and Vee share all the juicy details of every aspect of fingering that they could come up with. Did they miss anything?

Fingering: yay or nay?

Foreplay: Stimulating around the hole before insertion.

How many fingers at first?

Self-pleasure: Do you use fingers during masturbation?

The Technique: in and out vs in and using the come hither fingers?

Which fingers? Spiderman technique or pointer and middle?

Fingers as the main event vs as foreplay, and formative sexual experiences with fingering.

Squirting: the technique, and what makes it pleasurable.

Using fingering to orgasm after penetration.

Looking at potential partners’ fingers and nails. Using gloves, and lube with gloves.

Fingering an asshole: during doggy style, and prostate play.

Fingering poll results and final nuggets!

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Contact: [email protected]

Fingering: yay or nay?

Foreplay: Stimulating around the hole before insertion.

How many fingers at first?

Self-pleasure: Do you use fingers during masturbation?

The Technique: in and out vs in and using the come hither fingers?

Which fingers? Spiderman technique or pointer and middle?

Fingers as the main event vs as foreplay, and formative sexual experiences with fingering.

Squirting: the technique, and what makes it pleasurable.

Using fingering to orgasm after penetration.

Looking at potential partners’ fingers and nails. Using gloves, and lube with gloves.

Fingering an asshole: during doggy style, and prostate play.

Fingering poll results and final nuggets!

Where to find us, and how you can support us:
Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod
Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop

Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com
Instagram: @wlthegame
Contact: [email protected]

Previous Episode

114: Elle’s ISTA Retreat Experience: Tantra, Triggers & Transformation

What Is ISTA SSSex Level 1 Retreat? (00:00)

The Intensity of Emotional Processing. (07:25)

The Importance of Slowing Down. (13:38)

Elle’s Reasons for Going to ISTA. (21:07)

Masculine and Feminine. (27:00)

No Expectation of Tantra and Sexuality as a Sacred Experience. (28:55)

People Pleasing vs Listening to Your Body's Signals. (33:44)

Shadow Work: Elle’s Revelations Around Social Anxiety. (37:00)

Triggers as Gifts: Feminine Connection. (40:08)

How Elle will take her takeaways into her relationship with Her Partner Going Forward. (48:47)

Embodied Practices: Dancing into Femininity. (52:03)

Working through Feeling Disconnected at a Play Party. (55:00)

Tantric Latihan. (1:00:54)

Final nugget. (1:17:46)

50 Shades of Gold:

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Where to find us, and how you can support us:
Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod
Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop

Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com
Instagram: @wlthegame
Contact: [email protected]

Next Episode

116: Talk Tantra to Me: Sex Magic and Shadow Work with Sacred Sex Ed Author Leola Watkins

This week the girls go deep with Leola Watkins, Pleasure Priestess and the best-selling author of Sacred Sex Ed. Answering listeners' questions, they dig into a number of concepts under the tantric umbrella from shadow work and Golden Shadows, to sex magic and creating through orgasm, to yoni and lingum gazing. They also cover how all of this applies to men, when often tantric conversations can feel very feminine-energy-focused, AND how we can apply living tantrically to everyday life! This is a conversation for people who are new to the concepts of tantra, as well as people who have done 15 retreats. Get ready to get turned on by life!

Leola's story. Tantra and overcoming sexual shame. (3:51)

How to apply tantra to the real world: how can I be librated and expansive in this work environment and my home environment? (8:27)

What it means to be a Pleasure Priestess. (13:29)

What is shadow, and shadow work? Analyzing an old trigger of male-male play. (18:37)

What does sexual liberation mean when it comes to shadow work? (26:28)

Analyzing one of Vee’s triggers: Sex without condoms. (28:27)

Golden Shadow, and Elle’s integrated shadow. (33:28)

What’s in it for men? (38:07)

Eye Gazing: Tantra 101. What’s the point of this exercise? (42:36)

Vulnerability: “the cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek.” (46:19)

Sex magic: what is it? Manifesting through orgasm. (48:00)

Making your life juicier: the tantric principle that every moment is sacred. (53:25)

How to stay grounded at Hedonism Swing Breakers. (58:07)

Leola’s offerings and the final nugget: yoni and lingum gazing with your partner! (1:02:20)

Connect with Leola:

Website: talktantratome.com

Instagram: @talktantratome

Ladies!

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Where to find us, and how you can support us:
Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod
Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop

Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com
Instagram: @wlthegame
Contact: [email protected]

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