Have You Told Him You’re Faking It Yet?

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Hey you... yeah, you. Come a little closer.

Let’s have a real talk — just you and me.

You keep saying you want more sex and trust me, I hear that all the time. But before we go pointing fingers or blaming stress, the schedule, or the kids... I want to ask you something a little uncomfortable (but important): Are you actually sexy to be around?

And no, I’m not talking about your abs, your job title, or whether you’ve booked a fancy date night lately.

I’m talking about the kind of sexy that isn’t about looks — it’s about energy.

It’s the emotional presence. The small moments of connection. The way you hold her when she’s not okay. The way you listen, really listen, without trying to fix or judge. The way you check in — not just for a shag — but because you genuinely want to know how she is.

In this episode, I’m not here to shame or scold you. I’m here because I’ve seen too many good men lose the intimacy they crave simply because no one ever taught them how to be intimate — outside the bedroom.

So we’re unpacking what sexy really means in long-term relationships.

We’ll talk about:

• Why emotional safety is hotter than any six-pack.
• How women’s desire actually works (hint: it’s not a light switch).
• The real reason your one-liner foreplay isn’t landing anymore.
• What to do when she says she’s “tired” — and why it might not be what you think.
• And how to become the kind of partner she wants to rip the clothes off of again.

Because here's the truth, mate: You don’t need to be a sex god. You just need to be a better human in her presence. That’s what gets her wet. That’s what makes her want you — not just love you.

So pour yourself a drink, get comfy and let’s chat like mates who actually care about getting this right.

I’ve got you. And if you’re willing to meet her there — emotionally, mentally, energetically — she’ll meet you there too.

Let’s go.

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