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Welcome to the 1st episode of Get Sex’d, where we're breaking down barriers and having an open conversation about a topic that's often whispered about but rarely discussed openly – masturbation. I'm your host, Marissa Austin, also known as the Queen of Sensuality, a certified Sex Therapist, and an Intimacy & Relationship Coach.

Masturbation is a natural and healthy part of human sexuality, yet it's often shrouded in stigma and shame, which can stem from childhood. But today, we're debunking those myths and embracing self-pleasure as an essential aspect of sexual health and well-being.

Studies show that the average person masturbates around 3-4 times per week, yet many people still feel embarrassed or ashamed to talk about it. But I'm here to tell you that there's nothing to be ashamed of – masturbation is normal, natural, and can even have numerous benefits for both physical and mental health.

For starters, masturbation is a powerful form of self-exploration and self-expression. It allows individuals to get to know their own bodies, desires, and preferences, which can lead to increased confidence and sexual satisfaction. Plus, it's a great way to relieve stress and tension, promoting relaxation and overall well-being.

But masturbation isn't just about solo pleasure – it can also be a form of intimacy, especially when practiced with a partner through mutual masturbation. By sharing this intimate act with a partner, couples can deepen their trust, communication, and connection, leading to more satisfying sexual experiences.

So, how do you incorporate mutual masturbation into your sexy time? It's all about setting the mood and creating a safe, comfortable space for exploration. Whether you're in the bedroom or the living room, dim the lights, put on some soft music, and let yourselves relax into the experience.

And for couples who live apart or spend extended periods away from each other, there's still a way to enjoy mutual masturbation – over FaceTime or video chat. While it may not be the same as being together in person, it can still be a fun and intimate way to connect with your partner and explore your desires together.

Of course, like anything else, it's essential to strike a balance. While moderate masturbation has many benefits, excessive masturbation can have negative effects, such as desensitization and decreased sexual satisfaction. So, listen to your body and pay attention to how you're feeling – and don't be afraid to mix things up and try new techniques from time to time.

In conclusion, masturbation is a natural, normal, and healthy part of human sexuality. It's time to shed the shame and embrace self-pleasure as a vital aspect of sexual health and well-being. So, whether you're flying solo or enjoying a shared experience with a partner, remember to embrace your desires, explore your pleasure, and above all, enjoy the journey.

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Miss M gets real about why sex has become more about performance and less about connection. From societal pressures to orgasm targets, we’ve turned intimacy into a to-do list instead of something fun, free, and full of connection.

This episode challenges the myths that sex needs to last hours, include 50 positions, or look like a movie scene. Instead, Miss M invites you to reconnect with your partner, let go of the pressure, and enjoy the moment without expectations. Because no one is holding up a scorecard after sex—so why are we acting like it’s a competition?

If you’re ready to ditch the performance mindset and rediscover intimacy, hit play now! Want to take things even further? Work with me to transform your relationship, build your confidence, and bring pleasure back into your life. Book a session or check out my workshops at www.thequeenofsensuality.com.au.

And don’t forget—share this episode with someone who needs to hear it. Let’s start a conversation about how to bring real connection and pleasure back into our intimate lives.

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💋 Liked what you heard? Babe, this is just the beginning.
If you’re tired of disconnected sex, “fine” relationships and burying your desires under laundry and resentment — you’re in the right place.

👠 Follow Get Sex’d for weekly real-talk episodes that shake the bed and your beliefs.
💌 Wanna dive deeper? Book a private session or workshop with me, Miss M — your go-to girl for sensuality, confidence, and relationship realness.
🌐 www.thequeenofsensuality.com.au
📲 Follow me on Insta & Tiktok: @thequeenofsensuality

💥 Because “fine” is no longer f*cking fine — and you deserve a life (and sex life) that turns you on.

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Hey you... yeah, you. Come a little closer.

Let’s have a real talk — just you and me.

You keep saying you want more sex and trust me, I hear that all the time. But before we go pointing fingers or blaming stress, the schedule, or the kids... I want to ask you something a little uncomfortable (but important): Are you actually sexy to be around?

And no, I’m not talking about your abs, your job title, or whether you’ve booked a fancy date night lately.

I’m talking about the kind of sexy that isn’t about looks — it’s about energy.

It’s the emotional presence. The small moments of connection. The way you hold her when she’s not okay. The way you listen, really listen, without trying to fix or judge. The way you check in — not just for a shag — but because you genuinely want to know how she is.

In this episode, I’m not here to shame or scold you. I’m here because I’ve seen too many good men lose the intimacy they crave simply because no one ever taught them how to be intimate — outside the bedroom.

So we’re unpacking what sexy really means in long-term relationships.

We’ll talk about:

• Why emotional safety is hotter than any six-pack.
• How women’s desire actually works (hint: it’s not a light switch).
• The real reason your one-liner foreplay isn’t landing anymore.
• What to do when she says she’s “tired” — and why it might not be what you think.
• And how to become the kind of partner she wants to rip the clothes off of again.

Because here's the truth, mate: You don’t need to be a sex god. You just need to be a better human in her presence. That’s what gets her wet. That’s what makes her want you — not just love you.

So pour yourself a drink, get comfy and let’s chat like mates who actually care about getting this right.

I’ve got you. And if you’re willing to meet her there — emotionally, mentally, energetically — she’ll meet you there too.

Let’s go.

💋 Liked what you heard? Babe, this is just the beginning.
If you’re tired of disconnected sex, “fine” relationships and burying your desires under laundry and resentment — you’re in the right place.

👠 Follow Get Sex’d for weekly real-talk episodes that shake the bed and your beliefs.
💌 Wanna dive deeper? Book a private session or workshop with me, Miss M — your go-to girl for sensuality, confidence, and relationship realness.
🌐 www.thequeenofsensuality.com.au
📲 Follow me on Insta & Tiktok: @thequeenofsensuality

💥 Because “fine” is no longer f*cking fine — and you deserve a life (and sex life) that turns you on.

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Alright babe, let’s not dance around it — have you told him you’re faking it? Or are you still rolling out your Oscar-worthy moan, counting ceiling cracks and hoping this pelvic pounding ends before cramp hits?

In this raw and ridiculously relatable episode, I’m diving deep into the secret so many women carry — and why it’s time to stop lying to your body and start speaking up for your pleasure.

We’re talking about:

• Why women fake orgasms (and it’s not just about his ego)
• How faking it actually teaches him to repeat the wrong things
• The very real orgasm gap between men and women
• Why your pleasure isn’t a performance or a nice-to-have — it’s the whole damn point
• How to start having honest, non-blaming convos about sex (without it turning into conflict)

And let me be clear — this episode isn’t about shaming you for faking it. It’s about freeing you from it. Because I’ve been there. I faked it. For way too long. And I lost a marriage because I kept pretending things were “fine.”

Not anymore.

If you’re ready for real connection, real orgasms and real empowerment in the bedroom — this episode is your permission slip to stop settling and start feeling.

So pour a drink, kick off the bra and let’s talk. Because pretending to be satisfied is out — and owning your pleasure is in.

💋 Liked what you heard? Babe, this is just the beginning.
If you’re tired of disconnected sex, “fine” relationships and burying your desires under laundry and resentment — you’re in the right place.

👠 Follow Get Sex’d for weekly real-talk episodes that shake the bed and your beliefs.
💌 Wanna dive deeper? Book a private session or workshop with me, Miss M — your go-to girl for sensuality, confidence, and relationship realness.
🌐 www.thequeenofsensuality.com.au
📲 Follow me on Insta & Tiktok: @thequeenofsensuality

💥 Because “fine” is no longer f*cking fine — and you deserve a life (and sex life) that turns you on.

Got A Question? Send me a text message

In this episode of Get Sex’d, we’re diving into the seven-year itch—a stage many couples encounter where restlessness, disconnection, or even doubt can creep into the relationship. But here’s the good news: this isn’t the end. It’s an invitation to grow, reconnect, and reignite the spark.

Join me as we explore:

• What the seven-year itch really means and why it happens.
• Eye-opening divorce statistics (and what they reveal about unaddressed relationship issues).
• The two common responses to the itch—breaking out or distracting—and why neither is the answer.
• Practical strategies to upgrade your relationship, from reassessing your needs to reigniting intimacy.
• The power of vulnerability, communication, and redefining routines to strengthen your bond.

Whether you’re feeling the itch, navigating a bump in the road, or simply looking for ways to deepen your connection, this episode is packed with insights and actionable tips to help you build a relationship that’s more fulfilling than ever.

Ready to transform your relationship and turn challenges into opportunities? Hit play now and let’s get started!

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Let’s transform intimacy, one orgasm at a time.

💋 Liked what you heard? Babe, this is just the beginning.
If you’re tired of disconnected sex, “fine” relationships and burying your desires under laundry and resentment — you’re in the right place.

👠 Follow Get Sex’d for weekly real-talk episodes that shake the bed and your beliefs.
💌 Wanna dive deeper? Book a private session or workshop with me, Miss M — your go-to girl for sensuality, confidence, and relationship realness.
🌐 www.thequeenofsensuality.com.au
📲 Follow me on Insta & Tiktok: @thequeenofsensuality

💥 Because “fine” is no longer f*cking fine — and you deserve a life (and sex life) that turns you on.