Ep. #23: Benny "The Jet" Urquidez - Embracing the Martial Artist Mindset

10/17/23 • 83 min

Let's welcome the trailblazing Sensei Benny the Jet, a former professional kickboxer, martial artist, and an original mixed martial artist. His astounding career spans decades, with an unparalleled winning record that's truly a testament to his grit, determination, and unwavering self-belief. Listen as Benny takes us on an exhilarating journey, from his pivotal decision to go full-contact in 1974, to the challenges he faced in international matches and the pressures of fighting for money. Explore the birth of his unique kickboxing style, Yukitokon, designed to handle pressure and defend against threats.
We delve deeper into the psyche of a martial artist as Benny shares his insights on the profound differences between training in martial arts and self-defense for the street. Revealing how emotions can either be an asset or a liability when faced with threats, Benny emphasizes the significance of mental preparation. He also highlights the instrumental role of mentorship in his journey and the need for emotional understanding for one's self and others. Tune in as we discuss the vital role of a mentor who can reflect our truths and guide us towards our goals.
Finally, we unravel the fascinating process behind Benny's creation of his unique martial arts and kickboxing style. Think of the dedication and innovation it took to develop a system that would handle pressure and defend against threats, truly embodying the spirit of resilience and adaptability. From an unexpected fight offer on national television to an unfamiliar fight night experience, Sensei Benny's journey is packed with thrilling twists and turns that you won't want to miss. Get ready for an episode that's a true testament to the transformative power of martial arts and self-defense training, and be intrigued by how Benny emerged victorious from every challenge.
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Get Real Self Defense Podcast - Ep. #23: Benny "The Jet" Urquidez - Embracing the Martial Artist Mindset

Transcript

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Hey guys , I hope you're doing well . Today I have a super special interview for you to take on in this episode of the Get Real Self-Event podcast . The person I am interviewing today is Benny the Jet or Kitas . Born in 1952 , benny the Jet or Kitas is a former professional kickboxer fighter , martial artist and true original mixed martial arts fighter before mixed martial arts wa