198: Sovereign Births: The Transformative Power of Birth Doulas

05/13/24 • 69 min

Future Generations Podcast with Dr. Stanton Hom

In this episode, Dr. Stanton Hom interviews Eyla Cuenca, a seasoned birth doula, educator, and birth trauma alchemist. The discussion explores the transformative power of birth and Eyla's comprehensive doula training program. Eyla shares insights into the evolution of birth practices, the critical role of doulas in navigating the cultural, legal, and technological dimensions of childbirth, and the importance of sovereignty and informed consent in the birthing process. The conversation highlights the challenges and rewards of doula work, including the entrepreneurial aspects and the impact of personal beliefs and societal shifts on birth.

Eyla emphasizes the pivotal role of doulas in advocating for women's autonomy and supporting them through the journey of childbirth, specifically as it relates to the healing of birth trauma. The episode underscores the significance of creating a safe, empowered space for birth, regardless of the setting, and the transformative effect of doula work on individuals and communities. Eyla also addresses the importance of confronting and integrating personal and collective narratives around birth to foster a more authentic, informed, and compassionate approach to childbirth.

Timestamps:

00:00 Welcome to the Future Generations Podcast

01:03 Introducing Eyla: A Birth Doula's Journey and Mission

01:19 The Evolution of Birth Practices and Doula Roles

02:13 Navigating the Challenges of Modern Birth Choices

03:42 The Impact of Societal Shifts on Birth Work and Choices

05:15 The Importance of Sovereignty and Informed Consent in Birth

07:45 Healing and Integration: The Role of Doulas in Modern Birth

09:02 Facing the Realities of Birth Work in Today's World

09:33 The Doula Training Experience: Empowering Birth Workers

14:22 Transforming Birth Trauma Through Education and Support

17:39 Creating a New Paradigm for Doulas and Birth Work

27:00 The Vision Behind the Doula Training Program

31:16 The Importance of Informed Consent in Birth

31:40 Bridging the Gap: Informed Consent and Birth Choices

33:05 Redefining Safety and Success in Birth

34:55 The Doula Training Experience: A Global Perspective

37:25 Empowerment Through Doula Work: Beyond Birth

40:21 Navigating Cultural Differences in Doula Practices

46:13 The Entrepreneurial Journey of a Doula

52:35 The Transformative Power of Doula Training

Key Takeaways:

The episode discusses the importance and transformative power of doulas in the birth process.

Eyla Cuenca shares her experiences and insights as a birth doula, emphasizing the shift towards more personalized, empowered, and informed birth practices.

The discussion highlights the intricate connection between birth, personal sovereignty, and the challenges faced by doulas and parents in navigating birth choices amidst societal pressures and expectations.

The episode explores themes of personal growth, healing, and the impact of birth experiences on both women and men, suggesting that understanding one's birth is a key to addressing broader personal and societal issues.

Eyla Cuenca's doula training program is detailed, emphasizing its comprehensive nature, including addressing birth interventions, informed consent, and integrating personal healing and professional development for doulas.

The program also aims at building community and providing continuous support for its participants, emphasizing the role of doulas in advocating for informed choices and aligning with clients' values.

The conversation underscores the need for both women and men to explore and reconcile their birth experiences and perceptions, highlighting birth as a critical initiation into understanding and healing of deeper personal traumas.

The episode encourages listeners to reevaluate their understanding of birth, safety, and success, and to consider the profound impact of doula work on families and communities.

Resources:

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Learn more about Eyla Cuenca:

Sign-up for Doula Training Beginning May 15th, 2024: https://www.uncoveringbirth.com/a/2147833041/FDJDBmFn

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eyla_cuenca_birth/

Learn more about Dr. Stanton Hom on:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drstantonhom

Website: https://futuregenerationssd.com/

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Timestamps:

00:00 Welcome to the Future Generations Podcast

01:03 Introducing Eyla: A Birth Doula's Journey and Mission

01:19 The Evolution of Birth Practices and Doula Roles

02:13 Navigating the Challenges of Modern Birth Choices

03:42 The Impact of Societal Shifts on Birth Work and Choices

05:15 The Importance of Sovereignty and Informed Consent in Birth

07:45 Healing and Integration: The Role of Doulas in Modern Birth

09:02 Facing the Realities of Birth Work in Today's World

09:33 The Doula Training Experience: Empowering Birth Workers

14:22 Transforming Birth Trauma Through Education and Support

17:39 Creating a New Paradigm for Doulas and Birth Work

27:00 The Vision Behind the Doula Training Program

31:16 The Importance of Informed Consent in Birth

31:40 Bridging the Gap: Informed Consent and Birth Choices

33:05 Redefining Safety and Success in Birth

34:55 The Doula Training Experience: A Global Perspective

37:25 Empowerment Through Doula Work: Beyond Birth

40:21 Navigating Cultural Differences in Doula Practices

46:13 The Entrepreneurial Journey of a Doula

52:35 The Transformative Power of Doula Training

Key Takeaways:

The episode discusses the importance and transformative power of doulas in the birth process.

Eyla Cuenca shares her experiences and insights as a birth doula, emphasizing the shift towards more personalized, empowered, and informed birth practices.

The program also aims at building community and providing continuous support for its participants, emphasizing the role of doulas in advocating for informed choices and aligning with clients' values.

The episode encourages listeners to reevaluate their understanding of birth, safety, and success, and to consider the profound impact of doula work on families and communities.

Resources:

Remember to Rate, Review, and Subscribe on iTunes and Follow us on Spotify!

Learn more about Eyla Cuenca:

Sign-up for Doula Training Beginning May 15th, 2024: https://www.uncoveringbirth.com/a/2147833041/FDJDBmFn

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eyla_cuenca_birth/

Learn more about Dr. Stanton Hom on:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drstantonhom

Website: https://futuregenerationssd.com/

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197: The War on Children: A Deep Dive with Landon Starbuck

In this episode, Dr. Stanton Hom interviews a special guest, Landon Starbuck. She is a mom of three, and a former billboard charting artist. Landon sits down to share her journey from Hollywood to starting a nonprofit aimed at fighting child exploitation. This conversation covers Landon and her husband's efforts to raise awareness about the exploitation and sexualization of children through their film, “The War on Children”, which has received over 50 million downloads without any advertising due to social media bans. Landon highlights the importance of protecting children's innocence, strengthening families, and the critical role of informed consent and awareness in the face of systemic issues within education, the legal system, and healthcare. The episode concludes with a discussion on the power of families and communities for resisting oppression and control to ensure a better future for coming generations.

Timestamps:

00:00 Introduction to the Future Generations Podcast

00:21 The War on Children: A Landmark Film

00:55 From Hollywood to Child Advocacy: A Personal Journey

03:28 Exposing the Exploitation: The Battle Against Child Trafficking

04:04 The Cultural Shift: Normalizing Exploitation and the Loss of Morality

08:27 The Fight for Medical Freedom and Protecting the Next Generation

09:26 The Move to Tennessee: A New Front in the Battle

25:38 The Importance of Strengthening Families and Defending Children

28:42 Closing Thoughts and Gratitude

Key Takeaways:

-The discussion revolves around the topic of child exploitation, particularly focusing on issues like child trafficking, sexualization of children, the transgender movement, and the cultural acceptance of exploiting children.

-Dr. Stanton Hom and Landon Starbuck, share personal stories and insights related to their advocacy work against child exploitation and the challenges faced in standing up for family values and children's well-being.

-They emphasize the importance of defending children's innocence, strengthening families, and taking a stand against harmful societal norms and influences.

-The conversation highlights the need for informed consent, critical thinking, and standing up for moral values to combat the normalization of exploitation and protect future generations.

-There is a shared belief in the spiritual aspect of the mission, seeking to inspire others to become warriors in defending children and families' rights and values.

-Dr. Stan and Landon stress the significance of individual empowerment, community involvement, and unity in resisting oppressive forces and maintaining freedom and moral integrity.

-The dialogue reflects a deep sense of purpose, commitment, and hope for a future where families are empowered, children are protected, and societal values are aligned with righteousness and truth.

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199: The Reclaimed Woman: Dismantling the Lie of Militant Feminism

In this episode, Dr. Stanton Hom engages in a profound conversation with Dr. Kelly Brogan, an inspiring public figure who has undergone a significant personal and professional transformation. Dr. Kelly, initially known for her role as a renegade psychiatrist and vocal critic of pharmaceutical practices, discusses her evolution towards reclaiming her sovereignty, freedom, health, and femininity. She shares insights from her new book, 'The Reclaimed Woman,' emphasizing the importance of moving beyond victim consciousness, healing internal conflicts, and fostering genuine safety and self-ownership. Dr. Kelly's journey highlights the need for ending wars within oneself and restoring balance and respect in relationships, including the dynamic between men and women. The discussion also touches on the impact of this inner work on parenting and the broader implications for societal change, advocating for a deep understanding of one's motives and the courage to embrace transformation.

Timestamps:

00:00 Welcome to the Future Generations Podcast

01:17 Journey of Transformation: From Renegade Psychiatrist to Reclaimed Woman

01:59 Challenging the Pharma Narrative and Embracing Sovereignty

04:24 The Pitfalls of Activism and the Quest for Emotional Self-Mastery

05:19 Exploring Victim Consciousness and the Power of Choice

08:58 The Healing Power of Embracing Shame and Vulnerability

11:18 Redefining Success and the Importance of Inner Work

15:41 Navigating the Victim Triangle: From Rescuer to Sovereign Self

25:24 The Impact of Readiness and Permission in Personal Transformation

29:37 Raising Conscious Children: Lessons in Love and Letting Go

37:07 Embracing Vulnerability and Parenting Insights

38:16 Joyful Connections with Daughters

38:38 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Parental Influence

39:24 Softening Rigidity: A Parent's Learning Curve

40:23 Questioning Conventional Wisdom: A Parental Dilemma

42:01 Redefining Success and the College Debate

43:10 Healing the Mother Wound and Embracing Safety

46:51 The Power of No: Reclaiming Autonomy

51:11 Exploring the Reclaimed Woman: A New Perspective

51:50 The Feminist Bargain and Its Impact

56:10 Creating Safety and Reclaiming Desire

58:28 The Journey Towards Sovereignty and Understanding Masculinity

01:04:24 Restoring the Sacred Contract: A New Understanding of Gender Dynamics

01:07:05 The Importance of Authentic Expression and the Power of Observation

Key Takeaways:

Dr. Kelly Brogan shares her journey of transformation from a renegade psychiatrist to embracing a more holistic understanding of personal health, sovereignty, and freedom.

Both Dr. Stanton Hom and Dr. Kelly Brogan discuss the importance of questioning mainstream narratives around health, pharmaceuticals, and societal norms, particularly around mental health and the use of SSRIs.

-Dr. Brogan emphasizes the necessity of inner work, self-reflection, and understanding one's own motivations to truly reclaim personal power and health.

There's a strong focus on reclaiming one's health from the medical system, emphasizing the power of the individual in achieving wellness through holistic practices.

Through her journey, Dr. Brogan critiques the activist mindset, suggesting that sometimes it perpetuates the very issues it intends to solve. She presents an alternative perspective on achieving systemic change starting with personal transformation.

The dialogue touches on how personal transformation impacts parenting and relationships, advocating for a compassionate, understanding, and self-responsible approach towards nurturing one’s children and engaging in romantic partnerships.

Dr. Brogan discusses her views on feminism, expressing concerns about its direction and offering an alternative vision for empowering women that is rooted in self-safety, reclaiming the feminine, and fostering mutual respect between genders.

Dr. Brogan’s upcoming book, "The Reclaimed Woman," aims to provide a pathway beyond traditional feminist narratives towards a more enriching understanding of femininity, individuality, and personal power.

Resources:

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Learn more about Dr. Kelly Brogan:

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