Jodi's Story of Love, Loss, and Lifelong Resilience
03/13/24 • 72 min
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When faced with the kind of adversity that could cripple even the strongest spirit, how does one not only survive but thrive? We are honored to have Jodi, author of "Choosing My Tomorrow," as our guest, who shares her poignant narrative that weaves through the tragic loss of her first husband, to finding strength in her role as a single parent and resilient partner to a fellow officer grappling with PTSD. Her deeply touching memoir is a powerful reminder of the human capacity for resilience and hope in the midst of life's most unforgiving storms.
As we listen to Jodi’s story, it's clear that grief and trauma play no favorites, striking with a heavy hand whether one is in the public eye or not. Through her experiences, Jodi exposes the raw realities of mourning a spouse as a police widow, contending with the criminal justice system, and the solidarity found within the network of first responders. The conversation reveals how the act of storytelling, and the communal sharing of these stories, is not just cathartic but vital for emotional healing and growth. Jodi’s journey is a testament to the power of community support and the courage it takes to keep moving forward.
Culminating in lessons on fostering joy and mental wellness, this episode traverses the complex terrain of trauma recovery. Jodi's insights into resilience coaching for first responders underscore the importance of non-verbal connection and provide practical advice for supporting a partner with mental health challenges. Her narrative culminates in an empowering call to break the stigma surrounding mental health, as she underscores the significance of seeking help and the personal nature of the healing journey. Join us for this exploration of loss, love, and the enduring power of choice.
Coaching: https://www.jodiebaulkham.com/
Book: https://www.jodiebaulkham.com/books
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jodiebaulkham/
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Disclaimer: The information shared on this podcast is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only and should not be taken as a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The hosts are not licensed mental health professionals and do not provide therapy or counseling services. If you are in need of mental...
When faced with the kind of adversity that could cripple even the strongest spirit, how does one not only survive but thrive? We are honored to have Jodi, author of "Choosing My Tomorrow," as our guest, who shares her poignant narrative that weaves through the tragic loss of her first husband, to finding strength in her role as a single parent and resilient partner to a fellow officer grappling with PTSD. Her deeply touching memoir is a powerful reminder of the human capacity for resilience and hope in the midst of life's most unforgiving storms.
As we listen to Jodi’s story, it's clear that grief and trauma play no favorites, striking with a heavy hand whether one is in the public eye or not. Through her experiences, Jodi exposes the raw realities of mourning a spouse as a police widow, contending with the criminal justice system, and the solidarity found within the network of first responders. The conversation reveals how the act of storytelling, and the communal sharing of these stories, is not just cathartic but vital for emotional healing and growth. Jodi’s journey is a testament to the power of community support and the courage it takes to keep moving forward.
Culminating in lessons on fostering joy and mental wellness, this episode traverses the complex terrain of trauma recovery. Jodi's insights into resilience coaching for first responders underscore the importance of non-verbal connection and provide practical advice for supporting a partner with mental health challenges. Her narrative culminates in an empowering call to break the stigma surrounding mental health, as she underscores the significance of seeking help and the personal nature of the healing journey. Join us for this exploration of loss, love, and the enduring power of choice.
Coaching: https://www.jodiebaulkham.com/
Book: https://www.jodiebaulkham.com/books
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jodiebaulkham/
#1 Book for First Responders
Breaking the Blue Wall
Need to get fit on a Budget? Join my Budget Fit Blueprint
Free Stress Guide:
Stress Survival
Free Metabolic Quiz:
Take Short Quiz
Free Fat Loss & Wellness Guide:
Fit & Resilient
Social:
Podcast Instagram- @fitfordutypodcast
Youtube: Gilbert Rios III
Facebook Group: The Debrief
Gilbert's Instagram- @gilbert_fitnesscoach
Disclaimer: The information shared on this podcast is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only and should not be taken as a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The hosts are not licensed mental health professionals and do not provide therapy or counseling services. If you are in need of mental...
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Free Stress Guide:
Stress Survival
Free Metabolic Quiz:
Take Short Quiz
Free Fat Loss & Wellness Guide:
Fit & Resilient
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Podcast Instagram- @fitfordutypodcast
Youtube: Gilbert Rios III
Facebook Group: The Debrief
Gilbert's Instagram- @gilbert_fitnesscoach
Disclaimer: The information shared on this podcast is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only and should not be taken as a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The hosts are not licensed mental health professionals and do not provide therapy or counseling services. If you are in need of mental...
Fit For Duty Podcast - Jodi's Story of Love, Loss, and Lifelong Resilience
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He had come home from his regular shift but was on call until seven Phone had rang . He got called out and never came home ,
Speaker 1and he was shot by a drug dealer and killed on October 6 , 2007 .
Speaker 1And so I was home on maternity leave with Alexis , who was eight months old ,
Speaker 1If you like this episode you’ll love
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