Episode 9-Part 2-Why should not follow the crowds, groups, or trends?

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01/26/23 • 55 min

In this episode, I talked about why people should not follow the trends as far as what other people are doing. Instead of doing that, they need to be focused on creating their own trends and doing what's best for them. Too many people are too worried about what everybody else has going on. People always are trying to look, think, act, and behave like other people because they are the popular crowd. People do a lot of things because they want to be accepted, love, liked, appreciate it, value, once said, needed, approved of, validated, and being a part of something that may or may not be good for them. So I don't really understand why people have such a problem with themselves. Just because people say negative things about you doesn't mean you have to be defined by these negative people.

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Episode 10- Why sometimes you have sit in darkness, silence and, rock bottom.

In this episode, I talk about why it is that sometimes we have to sit in darkness, silence, and rock-bottom in order for us to learn from our failures, and mistakes from my past. We also need to do this, because we need to once we do learn from these things take the time to heal from the trauma, pain, suffering, illnesses, diseases, and other health issues that we suffer from due to these situations, actions, behavior, and choices that we made and deal with every day. A lot of people when they go through things they never want to sit still, and will learn, grow, and evolve from the situation that they've been through in the past. They will continue to do the same things over and over and over again. And still continuously, making the same mistakes, and associated with the same type of people. So sometimes it is good to sit into that darkness, failures, rock, bottom, dark hole, and negativity that has happened to you in order to learn and heal from it