Episode 10- Why sometimes you have sit in darkness, silence and, rock bottom.

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02/01/23 • 91 min

In this episode, I talk about why it is that sometimes we have to sit in darkness, silence, and rock-bottom in order for us to learn from our failures, and mistakes from my past. We also need to do this, because we need to once we do learn from these things take the time to heal from the trauma, pain, suffering, illnesses, diseases, and other health issues that we suffer from due to these situations, actions, behavior, and choices that we made and deal with every day. A lot of people when they go through things they never want to sit still, and will learn, grow, and evolve from the situation that they've been through in the past. They will continue to do the same things over and over and over again. And still continuously, making the same mistakes, and associated with the same type of people. So sometimes it is good to sit into that darkness, failures, rock, bottom, dark hole, and negativity that has happened to you in order to learn and heal from it

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Episode 9-Part 2-Why should not follow the crowds, groups, or trends?

In this episode, I talked about why people should not follow the trends as far as what other people are doing. Instead of doing that, they need to be focused on creating their own trends and doing what's best for them. Too many people are too worried about what everybody else has going on. People always are trying to look, think, act, and behave like other people because they are the popular crowd. People do a lot of things because they want to be accepted, love, liked, appreciate it, value, once said, needed, approved of, validated, and being a part of something that may or may not be good for them. So I don't really understand why people have such a problem with themselves. Just because people say negative things about you doesn't mean you have to be defined by these negative people.

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Episode 13 - Finding Your Way Out Of The Rabbit Hole When It Comes to Not Being Chosen and Rejected.

In this episode, I’m going to be discussing how to find your way out the rabbit hole, when it comes to rejection, and not being chosen. That it is truly OK, not to be chosen, except it, valued, wanted, liked, loved, appreciated, a part of something, validated, or approved. A lot of people based their whole entire existence on those things. And it only gets you into a ton of trouble. The things that people are willing to do to be chosen and not be rejected is ridiculous and insane. Sometimes we have to realize that being rejected and not chosen can be a good thing. It just means that those people in those things are not meant for you. Your people, places, and things that are meant for you or out there. You just gotta be patient and wait for those things to come along for you. Is it easy, no? But I have learned that Patience is a virtue. And sometimes the things that we want or not the things that we actually need, or are good for us. So, hopefully by listening to this podcast, it will help you as far as understanding why being rejected and nachos and it’s not a bad thing.