TOXIC PEOPLE AND HOW TO DEAL WITH THEM - Episode 24

04/14/19 • 23 min

Today I’m tackling a subject which I think every one of us faces at least every now and again. It’s one of a series of episodes where I TELL IT LIKE IT IS. The SERIES 1 TIMEWASTERS episode was in the same vein and hugely popular and generated a lot of activity on social media and I suspect that my episode of a few weeks ago – COLLABO-HATERS will go down just as well. Today I will be talking about all different forms of TOXIC people, advising you how to SPOT them, how to AVOID them and how to get rid of them.
For a full transcript of this episode please go to the official website https://www.filmproproductivity.com/
Quotes:
“Toxic people attach themselves like cinder blocks tied to your ankles, and then invite you for a swim in their poisoned waters.” I found that quote on Tumblr and it’s by John Mark Green.
“An energy vampire can never “steal” energy from us unless we consciously or unconsciously permit them to.” ― Mateo Sol
“Just because some people are fuelled by drama doesn't mean you have to attend the performance.” - Personal coach Cheryl Richardson
“Manipulators use diversion tactics such as, not giving a straight answer or steering the conversation to another topic.” - Author, Sarah Nielsen
"Watch out for those types who deliberately tear other people down. One day, they will tear you down too," cautions writer Nurjean Chaneco.
“It’s amazing how quickly things can turn around when you remove toxic people from your life.” - Robert Tew
You can find out more about the show on these links.
OFFICIAL WEBSITE: https://www.filmproproductivity.com/
TWITTER: @filmproprodpod
FACEBOOK: @filmproproductivity
CONTACT: https://www.filmproproductivity.com/contact
Sources:
https://www.scienceofpeople.com/toxic-people/
https://list25.com/25-types-of-toxic-people-you-should-avoid/
https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/the-truisms-wellness/201611/the-5-types-people-you-need-get-out-your-life
https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/communication-success/201406/how-spot-and-stop-manipulators
https://thepowerofsilence.co/5-manipulative-tactics-toxic-people-use-to-defeat-you-and-shut-you-up/
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KILLING THE MICROWAVE MINDSET - Episode 23

Today’s show is all about KILLING THE MICROWAVE MINDSET and replacing it with something much more realistic. If you can understand the concepts I raise here and apply them to your life and work, and particularly to your skillset and long term goals then somewhere down the line, they will deliver massive and impactful results.
For a full transcript of this episode please go to the official website https://www.filmproproductivity.com/
Quotes:
“having the attitude that if something can't be done in 5 minutes or less, it's not worth doing.” Urbandictionary.com. Microwave Mentality
"Don’t live in 'No Man’s Land,” - Tony Robbins, life coach
The first step toward change is awareness. The best way to become aware is to measure. Writing it all down is key. - Darren Hardy
“Give me six hours to chop down a tree and I will spend the first four sharpening the axe.”- Abraham Lincoln
“You must take action now that will move you towards your goals. Develop a sense of urgency in your life.” - American author H Jackson Brown Jr
“Everyone should have a sense of urgency – it is getting a lot done in a short period of time in a calm and confident manner.” - Bob Proctor
“We have to live life with a sense of urgency so not a minute is wasted.” - Les Brown
“Success requires both urgency and patience. Be urgent about making the effort, and patient about seeing the results.” - Ralph Marston
Izey Victoria Odiase - “Our need for instant gratification is the reason we’re drawn to liars and hot air blowers.”
You can find out more about the show on these links.
OFFICIAL WEBSITE: https://www.filmproproductivity.com/
TWITTER: @filmproprodpod
FACEBOOK: @filmproproductivity
CONTACT: https://www.filmproproductivity.com/contact
Sources:
https://www.incredibleoneenterprises.com/4-strategic-ways-to-avoid-developing-a-microwave-mindset-when-building-your-business/
https://www.yourdictionary.com/front-load
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cumulative_learning
https://www.business2community.com/sales-management/time-management-for-sales-the-front-loading-technique-01332415
https://www.inc.com/adam-vaccaro/frontload-weekly-work-schedule.html
http://meaningring.com/2014/10/18/the-compound-effect-in-action-by-darren-hardy/
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6 FREE PRODUCTIVITY EXTENSIONS FOR GOOGLE CHROME - Episode 25

As last season’s 5 FREE APPS TO MAKE YOU MORE PRODUCTIVE episode was so incredibly popular, I thought that I’d continue with a couple of episodes this season on similar themes. Today I will present 6 awesome FREE extensions for Google Chrome.
For a full transcript of this episode please go to the official website https://www.filmproproductivity.com/
Quotes:
“The ability to simplify means to eliminate the unnecessary so that the necessary may speak.” - Hans Hofmann
New York Times Bestselling author and teacher of Buddhist meditation practices, Sharon Salzberg said Distraction wastes our energy, concentration restores it.
“Simplicity is the soul of efficiency.” - Austin Freeman
“Out of clutter, find simplicity.” - Albert Einstein
“Calm mind brings inner strength and self-confidence - that's very important for good health.” - Dalai Lama
“...good grammar is instrumental in conveying ideas with clarity professionalism, and precision...Good grammar is simply good business.” - The Harvard Business Review
“We are stuck with technology when what we really want is just stuff that works.” - Douglas Adams
“Computers are useless. They can only give you answers.” - Pablo Picasso
You can find out more about the show on these links.
OFFICIAL WEBSITE: https://www.filmproproductivity.com/
TWITTER: @filmproprodpod
FACEBOOK: @filmproproductivity
CONTACT: https://www.filmproproductivity.com/contact
Sources:
Forest: stay focused, be present.
https://chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/forest-stay-focused-be-pr/kjacjjdnoddnpbbcjilcajfhhbdhkpgk
Just Read
https://chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/just-read/dgmanlpmmkibanfdgjocnabmcaclkmod
Pocket
https://chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/save-to-pocket/niloccemoadcdkdjlinkgdfekeahmflj
MOMENT.
https://chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/moment-1-personal-dashboa/lgecddhfcfhlmllljooldkbbijdcnlpe
Grammarly.
https://chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/grammarly-for-chrome/kbfnbcaeplbcioakkpcpgfkobkghlhen
Additional Sources:
https://support.google.com/chrome_webstore/answer/2664769?hl=en-GB
https://awakenthegreatnesswithin.com/35-inspirational-quotes-on-simplicity/
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