
🔒 Extra Fucking Special Series! Women and Their Tattoos "Being A Survivor Warrior" Guest: Erika Hansen
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12/07/23 • 32 min
Extra Fucking Special Series
Women & Their Tattoos
Episode 6
Erika Hansen, The Rebel Therapist and owner of Hobein Counseling Services, joins me on this episode to talk about the importance of what her tattoos symbolize for her and her experiences - about being a therapist a SASS (Screening, Assessment and Support Services) crisis therapist, and a crisis clinician in the ER Crisis Stabilization Unit, community mental health and law enforcement/mobile crisis, as well as her work now in private practice. Erika also talks about some of her personal religious trauma experiences.
PLEASE NOTE: We discuss multiple topics and some may be distressing to listeners: discussion includes the subject of trauma.
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You can find Erika here:
https://www.hobeincounseling.com/
Instagram: @the_rebel_therapist
TikTok: @wildmoonrebelsoul
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F*ck The Rules Podcast is produced by Evil Bambina Productions, LLC.
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Social media/podcast episodes are not intended to replace therapy with a qualified mental health professional. All posts/episodes are for educational purposes only.
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Susan Roggendorf is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in Illinois and a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Iowa. In addition to hosting and producing her podcast, she's a volunteer mentor and a supervisor to new therapists, as well as running a private practice as an independent provider full-time. A National Certified Counselor through the NBCC as well as an Emergency Responder & Public Safety Certified Clinician through NERPSC. Main populations Susan works with are folx living with anxiety and trauma experiences in the LGBTQIA community as well as First Responders, Law Enforcement, hospital staff, urgent care and Emergency Department personnel. When she's not busy with all those things, as a GenX elder, she's usually busy annoying her adult children with 70's and 80's pop culture references and music or she's busy in her garden.
Extra Fucking Special Series
Women & Their Tattoos
Episode 6
Erika Hansen, The Rebel Therapist and owner of Hobein Counseling Services, joins me on this episode to talk about the importance of what her tattoos symbolize for her and her experiences - about being a therapist a SASS (Screening, Assessment and Support Services) crisis therapist, and a crisis clinician in the ER Crisis Stabilization Unit, community mental health and law enforcement/mobile crisis, as well as her work now in private practice. Erika also talks about some of her personal religious trauma experiences.
PLEASE NOTE: We discuss multiple topics and some may be distressing to listeners: discussion includes the subject of trauma.
* * *
You can find Erika here:
https://www.hobeincounseling.com/
Instagram: @the_rebel_therapist
TikTok: @wildmoonrebelsoul
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Want more sweary goodness? There's now the availability of Premium Subscription for $3 a month! Click the "Support The Show" link and find out more info.
* * *
F*ck The Rules Podcast is produced by Evil Bambina Productions, LLC.
You can find our podcast on Amazon Music/Podcasts, Apple Podcasts, Spotify and many more!
***
Social media/podcast episodes are not intended to replace therapy with a qualified mental health professional. All posts/episodes are for educational purposes only.
*****
Susan Roggendorf is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in Illinois and a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Iowa. In addition to hosting and producing her podcast, she's a volunteer mentor and a supervisor to new therapists, as well as running a private practice as an independent provider full-time. A National Certified Counselor through the NBCC as well as an Emergency Responder & Public Safety Certified Clinician through NERPSC. Main populations Susan works with are folx living with anxiety and trauma experiences in the LGBTQIA community as well as First Responders, Law Enforcement, hospital staff, urgent care and Emergency Department personnel. When she's not busy with all those things, as a GenX elder, she's usually busy annoying her adult children with 70's and 80's pop culture references and music or she's busy in her garden.
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WTF Is Sex Therapy? Clearing Up Myths & Misconceptions
Fuck The Rules Podcast
Season 4 Episode 11
When you think about a sex therapist, do y'all bring to mind multiple films or shows that have the therapist sleeping with their clients? That's not a certified sex therapist. It's a work of storytelling that's not true to that specific therapy.
I'm grateful to Michele that she gave me some of her free time to discuss what her experiences have been in the journey to being a certified sex therapist, work with clients and what she feels how this type of therapy helps clients.
PLEASE NOTE: there are multiple topics discussed including frank sexual discussion.
For more info on Michele:
Michele LaReau-Alves is an LMHC, and AASECT certified sex therapist, working in private practice with couples and sexual issues. She worked in community mental health for 20 years where she started out addressing the complex struggles of children and families in the social services system. This led to a passion for working with the core unit of the family system, couples, and parents, who are instrumental in breaking the cycles of intergenerational trauma. Over the years she has cultivated an approach that reinforces the need for joy, pleasure, and a sense of wellbeing in life; and where mindfulness and wellness are foundational. Her work as a relationship and sex therapist invites the many expressions of relationship, identity, and sexuality into the process of finding healing and reconnection, while also identifying and shifting the cycles and narratives that keep us stuck and hurting.
You can find her on Psychology Today:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/michele-lareau-alves-holliston-ma/323511
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Resources
Emily Nagoski , author:
Come as You Are
https://a.co/d/8kPJwFY
Burnout
https://a.co/d/1YqIOOT
Laurie Mintz, author
Becoming Cliterate
https://a.co/d/2TqGT0m
Lori Brotto, author
Better Sex Through Mindfulness
https://a.co/d/fKel7EU
Jessica Fern, author
PolySecure
https://a.co/d/iOoXG6R
David Schnarch
Passionate Marriage
https://a.co/d/8gx3PqT
Dr. Ruth Westheimer
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ruth_Westheimer
Dr. Faith Harper - her boo
Want more sweary goodness? There's now the availability of Premium Subscription for $3 a month! Click the "Support The Show" link and find out more info.
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F*ck The Rules Podcast is produced by Evil Bambina Productions, LLC.
You can find our podcast on Amazon Music/Podcasts, Apple Podcasts, Spotify and many more!
***
Social media/podcast episodes are not intended to replace therapy with a qualified mental health professional. All posts/episodes are for educational purposes only.
*****
Susan Roggendorf is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in Illinois and a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Iowa. In addition to hosting and producing her podcast, she's a volunteer mentor and a supervisor to new therapists, as well as running a private practice as an independent provider full-time. A National Certified Counselor through the NBCC as well as an Emergency Responder & Public Safety Certified Clinician through NERPSC. Main populations Susan works with are folx living with anxiety and trauma experiences in the LGBTQIA community as well as First Responders, Law Enforcement, hospital staff, urgent care and Emergency Department personnel. When she's not busy with all those things, as a GenX elder, she's usually busy annoying her adult children with 70's and 80's pop culture references and music or she's busy in her garden.
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Effective Leadership Makes More Leaders
Fuck The Rules Podcast
Season 4 Episode 12
Being a leader isn't all about groovy hidden lair of power, minions and an evil scientist on retainer. It's about developing your own insight into how you want to lead, why you want to lead, and how do you get there.
Alexandra Skinner Walsh, CEO and owner as well as a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, discusses her ecourse in leadership and how she wants to get it out to folx who may be struggling as she has done.
More info about Alex:
Alexandra Skinner Walsh is a licensed mental health counselor, speaker, The M.A.D. Beyond ecourse & merch creator, and owner of The M.A.D. Therapy in Bettendorf, Iowa. She is a strong advocate for mental health awareness. From local new stations to USA Today, she strives to educate and empower. Alex has focused her career on challenging the scripts of those who have been told they are not enough as they are with the mission of helping people find, own and share their authentic, M.A.D. self. You can learn more about Alexandra and her mental health practice at TheMADBeyond.com and TheMADTherapy.com
TMT - https://www.themadtherapy.com/
Merch - https://www.themadbeyond.com/shop
Courses - https://www.themadbeyond.com/courses
Leadership course specifically - https://www.themadbeyond.com/insightful-leadership
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F*ck The Rules Podcast is produced by Evil Bambina Productions, LLC.
You can find our podcast on Amazon Music/Podcasts, Apple Podcasts, Spotify and many more!
***
Social media/podcast episodes are not intended to replace therapy with a qualified mental health professional. All posts/episodes are for educational purposes only.
*****
Susan Roggendorf is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in Illinois and a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Iowa. In addition to hosting and producing her podcast, she's a volunteer mentor and a supervisor to new therapists, as well as running a private practice as an independent provider full-time. A National Certified Counselor through the NBCC as well as an Emergency Responder & Public Safety Certified Clinician through NERPSC. Main populations Susan works with are folx living with anxiety and trauma experiences in the LGBTQIA community as well as First Responders, Law Enforcement, hospital staff, urgent care and Emergency Department personnel. When she's not busy with all those things, as a GenX elder, she's usually busy annoying her adult children with 70's and 80's pop culture references and music or she's busy in her garden.
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