F*ck The Rules
The Sweary Therapist
Please join your host The Sweary Therapist, Susan Roggendorf, LMHC LCPC NCC, as she chats up these folx to find out why and how they did it, and how you fucking can, too.
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🔒 Extra Fucking Special Series! Women and Their Tattoos "Being A Survivor Warrior" Guest: Erika Hansen
F*ck The Rules
12/07/23 • 32 min
Extra Fucking Special Series
Women & Their Tattoos
Episode 6
Erika Hansen, The Rebel Therapist and owner of Hobein Counseling Services, joins me on this episode to talk about the importance of what her tattoos symbolize for her and her experiences - about being a therapist a SASS (Screening, Assessment and Support Services) crisis therapist, and a crisis clinician in the ER Crisis Stabilization Unit, community mental health and law enforcement/mobile crisis, as well as her work now in private practice. Erika also talks about some of her personal religious trauma experiences.
PLEASE NOTE: We discuss multiple topics and some may be distressing to listeners: discussion includes the subject of trauma.
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You can find Erika here:
https://www.hobeincounseling.com/
Instagram: @the_rebel_therapist
TikTok: @wildmoonrebelsoul
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F*ck The Rules Podcast is produced by Evil Bambina Productions, LLC.
You can find our podcast on Amazon Music/Podcasts, Apple Podcasts, Spotify and many more!
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Social media/podcast episodes are not intended to replace therapy with a qualified mental health professional. All posts/episodes are for educational purposes only.
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Susan Roggendorf is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in Illinois and a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Iowa. In addition to hosting and producing her podcast, she's a volunteer mentor and a supervisor to new therapists, as well as running a private practice as an independent provider full-time. A National Certified Counselor through the NBCC as well as an Emergency Responder & Public Safety Certified Clinician through NERPSC. Main populations Susan works with are folx living with anxiety and trauma experiences in the LGBTQIA community as well as First Responders, Law Enforcement, hospital staff, urgent care and Emergency Department personnel. When she's not busy with all those things, as a GenX elder, she's usually busy annoying her adult children with 70's and 80's pop culture references and music or she's busy in her garden.
🔒 Extra Fucking Special Series! Women and Their Tattoos: "Who Am I and Where's My Tribe?" Guest: Kristie Fuller
F*ck The Rules
09/21/23 • 43 min
Extra Fucking Special Series
Women & Their Tattoos
Episode 1
The first in multiple episodes of Women And Their Tattoos. Kristie Fuller returns to chat about her body art, being authentic, and finding our tribe.
PLEASE NOTE: We discuss multiple topics and some may be distressing to listeners: discussion includes the subject of trauma.
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Kristie Fuller is a practicing LMHC via telehealth for clients in Florida, by being her sweary genuine self: " I help people who are intimidated by stuffy, bored, tired, and traditional style therapy. It's just fuckin' therapy, right? Why can't it be more direct, more brash, real, down to earth, and genuine without all the bullshit?
I specialize in working with adults who are ready to deepen their awareness of their internal landscape, so that they can understand who they are, what they are thinking and feeling, and how those interact to create behaviors.
My practice is welcoming to everyone looking for someone who is dedicated to creating an enviroment that is inclusive, diverse, LGBT friendly, sex-positive and neurodivergent-affirming. My clients enjoy working with me because I create a safe space for them to be truly their authentic self. "
You can find Kristie here:
Website https://www.swearytherapy.com/
Instagram https://www.instagram.com/swearytherapy/
Podcast - "If The Couch Could Speak" https://www.swearytherapy.com/podcast.html
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F*ck The Rules Podcast is produced by Evil Bambina Productions, LLC.
You can find our podcast on Amazon Music/Podcasts, Apple Podcasts, Spotify and many more!
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Social media/podcast episodes are not intended to replace therapy with a qualified mental health professional. All posts/episodes are for educational purposes only.
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Susan Roggendorf is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in Illinois and a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Iowa. In addition to hosting and producing her podcast, she's a volunteer mentor and a supervisor to new therapists, as well as running a private practice as an independent provider full-time. A National Certified Counselor through the NBCC as well as an Emergency Responder & Public Safety Certified Clinician through NERPSC. Main populations Susan works with are folx living with anxiety and trauma experiences in the LGBTQIA community as well as First Responders, Law Enforcement, hospital staff, urgent care and Emergency Department personnel. When she's not busy with all those things, as a GenX elder, she's usually busy annoying her adult children with 70's and 80's pop culture references and music or she's busy in her garden.
🔒 More F*cking Science About Glass And Honey!
F*ck The Rules
02/21/23 • 30 min
Fuck The Rules Podcast
Season 3 Episode 6
My guest, Steven Kmiec, PhD, is back for part two of the discussion regarding science behind glass and honey.
So much of what we discuss comes from passion to know more about how things work, what happens if we try to change it, and what do we learn when it doesn't work out. Much like how we as humans move through our lives, society, cultures, and how we negotiate our way in and out of relationships. Which path do we take? How passionate are we about what we want? Will it work out?
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F*ck The Rules Podcast is produced by Evil Bambina Productions, LLC.
You can find our podcast on Amazon Music/Podcasts, Apple Podcasts, Spotify and many more!
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Social media/podcast episodes are not intended to replace therapy with a qualified mental health professional. All posts/episodes are for educational purposes only.
*****
Susan Roggendorf is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in Illinois and a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Iowa. In addition to hosting and producing her podcast, she's a volunteer mentor and a supervisor to new therapists, as well as running a private practice as an independent provider full-time. A National Certified Counselor through the NBCC as well as an Emergency Responder & Public Safety Certified Clinician through NERPSC. Main populations Susan works with are folx living with anxiety and trauma experiences in the LGBTQIA community as well as First Responders, Law Enforcement, hospital staff, urgent care and Emergency Department personnel. When she's not busy with all those things, as a GenX elder, she's usually busy annoying her adult children with 70's and 80's pop culture references and music or she's busy in her garden.
08/09/22 • 31 min
Fuck The Rules Podcast
Season 2 Episode 5
Erika Hansen, The Rebel Therapist and owner of Hobein Counseling Services, joins me this episode to talk about what grad school likely didn't teach people - and certainly didn't teach us - about being a therapist in the real world outside of a clinic setting. We also chat about her experience as a SASS (Screening, Assessment and Support Services) crisis therapist, getting supervision, community mental health and law enforcement/mobile crisis, as well as her work now in private practice.
You can find Erika here:
https://www.hobeincounseling.com/
https://www.instagram.com/the_rebel_therapist/
For more information on SASS in the state of Illinois:
https://www.dhs.state.il.us/page.aspx?item=92597
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Want more sweary goodness? There's now the availability of Premium Subscription for $3 a month! Click the "Support The Show" link and find out more info.
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F*ck The Rules Podcast is produced by Evil Bambina Productions, LLC.
You can find our podcast on Amazon Music/Podcasts, Apple Podcasts, Spotify and many more!
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Social media/podcast episodes are not intended to replace therapy with a qualified mental health professional. All posts/episodes are for educational purposes only.
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Susan Roggendorf is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in Illinois and a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Iowa. In addition to hosting and producing her podcast, she's a volunteer mentor and a supervisor to new therapists, as well as running a private practice as an independent provider full-time. A National Certified Counselor through the NBCC as well as an Emergency Responder & Public Safety Certified Clinician through NERPSC. Main populations Susan works with are folx living with anxiety and trauma experiences in the LGBTQIA community as well as First Responders, Law Enforcement, hospital staff, urgent care and Emergency Department personnel. When she's not busy with all those things, as a GenX elder, she's usually busy annoying her adult children with 70's and 80's pop culture references and music or she's busy in her garden.
Public Safety Preservation with Grayson Reed
F*ck The Rules
04/05/22 • 25 min
Fuck The Rules Podcast
Season 1 Episode 10
This week's guest is my friend and colleague, Grayson Reed. He created a nonprofit Public Safety Preservation, trying to keep First Responders alive.
Please join us to hear about our experiences working to reach folx who are under immense pressures and stress, and offering them support and hope.
PLEASE NOTE: We discuss multiple topics and some may be distressing to listeners: discussion of trauma, PTSD and complex PTSD.
Website:
https://publicsafetypreservation.org/
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Want more sweary goodness? There's now the availability of Premium Subscription for $3 a month! Click the "Support The Show" link and find out more info.
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F*ck The Rules Podcast is produced by Evil Bambina Productions, LLC.
You can find our podcast on Amazon Music/Podcasts, Apple Podcasts, Spotify and many more!
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Social media/podcast episodes are not intended to replace therapy with a qualified mental health professional. All posts/episodes are for educational purposes only.
*****
Susan Roggendorf is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in Illinois and a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Iowa. In addition to hosting and producing her podcast, she's a volunteer mentor and a supervisor to new therapists, as well as running a private practice as an independent provider full-time. A National Certified Counselor through the NBCC as well as an Emergency Responder & Public Safety Certified Clinician through NERPSC. Main populations Susan works with are folx living with anxiety and trauma experiences in the LGBTQIA community as well as First Responders, Law Enforcement, hospital staff, urgent care and Emergency Department personnel. When she's not busy with all those things, as a GenX elder, she's usually busy annoying her adult children with 70's and 80's pop culture references and music or she's busy in her garden.
🔒 Extra Fucking Special Series! Women and Their Tattoos: "Remembering My People" Guest: Seneca, No. 1 Child
F*ck The Rules
10/25/23 • 22 min
Extra Fucking Special Series
Women & Their Tattoos
Episode 3
The sassy No. 1 Child is back, and chatting about her body art!
PLEASE NOTE: We discuss multiple topics and some may be distressing to listeners: discussion includes the subject of trauma.
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When Seneca isn't being sassy Number One Child co-host, she's employed with an international risk management company.
Outside of work, Seneca is a licensed cosmetologist and makeup artist.
Seneca’s hobbies include studying latest fashion trends, going hiking and fishing as well as baking and cooking.
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Want more sweary goodness? There's now the availability of Premium Subscription for $3 a month! Click the "Support The Show" link and find out more info.
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F*ck The Rules Podcast is produced by Evil Bambina Productions, LLC.
You can find our podcast on Amazon Music/Podcasts, Apple Podcasts, Spotify and many more!
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Social media/podcast episodes are not intended to replace therapy with a qualified mental health professional. All posts/episodes are for educational purposes only.
*****
Susan Roggendorf is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in Illinois and a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Iowa. In addition to hosting and producing her podcast, she's a volunteer mentor and a supervisor to new therapists, as well as running a private practice as an independent provider full-time. A National Certified Counselor through the NBCC as well as an Emergency Responder & Public Safety Certified Clinician through NERPSC. Main populations Susan works with are folx living with anxiety and trauma experiences in the LGBTQIA community as well as First Responders, Law Enforcement, hospital staff, urgent care and Emergency Department personnel. When she's not busy with all those things, as a GenX elder, she's usually busy annoying her adult children with 70's and 80's pop culture references and music or she's busy in her garden.
🔒 Extra Fucking Special Series! Women and Their Tattoos: "The Map To Where I'm Going" Guest: Crystal Bessler
F*ck The Rules
10/12/23 • 27 min
Extra Fucking Special Series
Women & Their Tattoos
Episode 2
My friend and colleague, Crystal is back and this time in this subscriber access series discussing her tattoos and what they mean to her, and how body art reflects who she is as a person.
PLEASE NOTE: We discuss multiple topics and some may be distressing to listeners: discussion includes the subject of trauma.
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Crystal Besseler, BSN R N, works in Behavioral Health with children through geriatric populations, as well as having experience with Crisis/Emergency
Behavioral Health, Drug and Alcohol Detox/Addiction Recovery, and Corrections populations. Crystal is also a qualified Sexual Assault Nurse Examiner. She's currently working in the ever expanding field of medical health technology as a digital health nurse, taking care of hospital patients in their own homes.
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Shout out to my tattoo artist! Ink-Magination Tattoos by Brittany
https://www.facebook.com/inkingeve90/
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Want more sweary goodness? There's now the availability of Premium Subscription for $3 a month! Click the "Support The Show" link and find out more info.
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F*ck The Rules Podcast is produced by Evil Bambina Productions, LLC.
You can find our podcast on Amazon Music/Podcasts, Apple Podcasts, Spotify and many more!
***
Social media/podcast episodes are not intended to replace therapy with a qualified mental health professional. All posts/episodes are for educational purposes only.
*****
Susan Roggendorf is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in Illinois and a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Iowa. In addition to hosting and producing her podcast, she's a volunteer mentor and a supervisor to new therapists, as well as running a private practice as an independent provider full-time. A National Certified Counselor through the NBCC as well as an Emergency Responder & Public Safety Certified Clinician through NERPSC. Main populations Susan works with are folx living with anxiety and trauma experiences in the LGBTQIA community as well as First Responders, Law Enforcement, hospital staff, urgent care and Emergency Department personnel. When she's not busy with all those things, as a GenX elder, she's usually busy annoying her adult children with 70's and 80's pop culture references and music or she's busy in her garden.
🔒 The Sweary Therapist Reveals A Lot! But not all...
F*ck The Rules
07/12/22 • 47 min
Fuck The Rules Podcast
Season 2 Episode 1
And I'm back for Season 2!
Child No. 1 (aka Seneca) asked to interview me, and I agreed. We talk about the difference between being seen in an ER setting and in private practice. I talk about working with patients or client that may have suicidal ideation. We discuss what it's like to have therapists that were not the best for us and what you can do about it if you're not grooving with your therapist. How I went into seeing First Responders, Law Enforcement and hospital staff in addition to those in the LGBTQ+ community. And finally, how the fuck I ended up with seven kids when I had planned on being childless when I was younger.
PLEASE NOTE: We discuss multiple topics and some may be distressing to listeners: discussion of mental health evaluations in an ER setting, suicide/suicidal ideation, and negative therapy experiences.
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Want more sweary goodness? There's now the availability of Premium Subscription for $3 a month! Click the "Support The Show" link and find out more info.
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F*ck The Rules Podcast is produced by Evil Bambina Productions, LLC.
You can find our podcast on Amazon Music/Podcasts, Apple Podcasts, Spotify and many more!
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Social media/podcast episodes are not intended to replace therapy with a qualified mental health professional. All posts/episodes are for educational purposes only.
*****
Susan Roggendorf is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in Illinois and a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Iowa. In addition to hosting and producing her podcast, she's a volunteer mentor and a supervisor to new therapists, as well as running a private practice as an independent provider full-time. A National Certified Counselor through the NBCC as well as an Emergency Responder & Public Safety Certified Clinician through NERPSC. Main populations Susan works with are folx living with anxiety and trauma experiences in the LGBTQIA community as well as First Responders, Law Enforcement, hospital staff, urgent care and Emergency Department personnel. When she's not busy with all those things, as a GenX elder, she's usually busy annoying her adult children with 70's and 80's pop culture references and music or she's busy in her garden.
02/28/22 • 38 min
Fuck The Rules Podcast
Season 1 Episode 5
This week my guest is my other daughter, Jenn Piatak!
We chat about knitting and the apocalypse, not out running zombie hordes, talking openly about her Mental Health Wellness journey, and the joy in creating the family we have.
PLEASE NOTE: We discuss multiple topics and some may be distressing to listeners: discussion of sexual trauma and assualt.
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Want more sweary goodness? There's now the availability of Premium Subscription for $3 a month! Click the "Support The Show" link and find out more info.
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F*ck The Rules Podcast is produced by Evil Bambina Productions, LLC.
You can find our podcast on Amazon Music/Podcasts, Apple Podcasts, Spotify and many more!
***
Social media/podcast episodes are not intended to replace therapy with a qualified mental health professional. All posts/episodes are for educational purposes only.
*****
Susan Roggendorf is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in Illinois and a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Iowa. In addition to hosting and producing her podcast, she's a volunteer mentor and a supervisor to new therapists, as well as running a private practice as an independent provider full-time. A National Certified Counselor through the NBCC as well as an Emergency Responder & Public Safety Certified Clinician through NERPSC. Main populations Susan works with are folx living with anxiety and trauma experiences in the LGBTQIA community as well as First Responders, Law Enforcement, hospital staff, urgent care and Emergency Department personnel. When she's not busy with all those things, as a GenX elder, she's usually busy annoying her adult children with 70's and 80's pop culture references and music or she's busy in her garden.
12/31/24 • 37 min
Hiatus Replay - Therapy Info Series
Fuck The Rules Podcast
Orginally aired: 12/05/2023
When you think about a sex therapist, do y'all bring to mind multiple films or shows that have the therapist sleeping with their clients? That's not a certified sex therapist. It's a work of storytelling that's not true to that specific therapy.
I'm grateful to Michele that she gave me some of her free time to discuss what her experiences have been in the journey to being a certified sex therapist, work with clients and what she feels how this type of therapy helps clients.
PLEASE NOTE: there are multiple topics discussed including frank sexual discussion.
For more info on Michele:
Michele LaReau-Alves is an LMHC, and AASECT certified sex therapist, working in private practice with couples and sexual issues. She worked in community mental health for 20 years where she started out addressing the complex struggles of children and families in the social services system. This led to a passion for working with the core unit of the family system, couples, and parents, who are instrumental in breaking the cycles of intergenerational trauma. Over the years she has cultivated an approach that reinforces the need for joy, pleasure, and a sense of wellbeing in life; and where mindfulness and wellness are foundational. Her work as a relationship and sex therapist invites the many expressions of relationship, identity, and sexuality into the process of finding healing and reconnection, while also identifying and shifting the cycles and narratives that keep us stuck and hurting.
You can find her on Psychology Today:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/michele-lareau-alves-holliston-ma/323511
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Resources
Emily Nagoski , author:
Come as You Are
https://a.co/d/8kPJwFY
Burnout
https://a.co/d/1YqIOOT
Laurie Mintz, author
Becoming Cliterate
https://a.co/d/2TqGT0m
Lori Brotto, author
Better Sex Through Mindfulness
https://a.co/d/fKel7EU
Jessica Fern, author
PolySecure
https://a.co/d/iOoXG6R
David Schnarch
Passionate Marriage
https://a.co/d/8gx3PqT
Dr. Ruth Westheimer
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ruth_Wes
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F*ck The Rules Podcast is produced by Evil Bambina Productions, LLC.
You can find our podcast on Amazon Music/Podcasts, Apple Podcasts, Spotify and many more!
***
Social media/podcast episodes are not intended to replace therapy with a qualified mental health professional. All posts/episodes are for educational purposes only.
*****
Susan Roggendorf is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in Illinois and a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Iowa. In addition to hosting and producing her podcast, she's a volunteer mentor and a supervisor to new therapists, as well as running a private practice as an independent provider full-time. A National Certified Counselor through the NBCC as well as an Emergency Responder & Public Safety Certified Clinician through NERPSC. Main populations Susan works with are folx living with anxiety and trauma experiences in the LGBTQIA community as well as First Responders, Law Enforcement, hospital staff, urgent care and Emergency Department personnel. When she's not busy with all those things, as a GenX elder, she's usually busy annoying her adult children with 70's and 80's pop culture references and music or she's busy in her garden.
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How many episodes does F*ck The Rules have?
F*ck The Rules currently has 109 episodes available.
What topics does F*ck The Rules cover?
The podcast is about Health & Fitness, Crisis, Lgbtq, Mental Health, Podcasts, Education, Science and Therapist.
What is the most popular episode on F*ck The Rules?
The episode title 'Law Enforcement and Veterans: Taking Time To Listen' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on F*ck The Rules?
The average episode length on F*ck The Rules is 36 minutes.
How often are episodes of F*ck The Rules released?
Episodes of F*ck The Rules are typically released every 7 days.
When was the first episode of F*ck The Rules?
The first episode of F*ck The Rules was released on Jan 28, 2022.
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