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Fake Love and Flying Monkeys - Is the Narcissist the same as a Cult Leader?

Is the Narcissist the same as a Cult Leader?

10/13/24 • 33 min

Fake Love and Flying Monkeys

Narcissists thrive on power, control and manipulation, and when you try to explain your feelings, they often turn the situation around, making you feel guilty, ashamed, or even questioning your own reality In this episode we take a deep dive into the striking parallels between narcissists and cult leaders. Narcissists, much like cult leaders, create an environment where they exert extreme control, manipulating their victims into loyalty and compliance. We’ll explore how narcissists use charm, fear, and manipulation to isolate their targets, breaking down their sense of self-worth to gain complete control. We also discuss how narcissists slowly build a “following,” surrounding themselves with enablers and flying monkeys to maintain their power.
By examining these similarities, we’ll uncover why narcissists thrive in these power dynamics, using psychological manipulation to draw people in and keep them under their influence.

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Narcissists thrive on power, control and manipulation, and when you try to explain your feelings, they often turn the situation around, making you feel guilty, ashamed, or even questioning your own reality In this episode we take a deep dive into the striking parallels between narcissists and cult leaders. Narcissists, much like cult leaders, create an environment where they exert extreme control, manipulating their victims into loyalty and compliance. We’ll explore how narcissists use charm, fear, and manipulation to isolate their targets, breaking down their sense of self-worth to gain complete control. We also discuss how narcissists slowly build a “following,” surrounding themselves with enablers and flying monkeys to maintain their power.
By examining these similarities, we’ll uncover why narcissists thrive in these power dynamics, using psychological manipulation to draw people in and keep them under their influence.

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If Fake Love has helped you, using this Apple Podcasts link is a simple way to support the show! 🙏
Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.

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Please remember the information you hear in this episode is not intended to substitute for therapy, is general, and strictly the opinions of the host.

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Need Support? Book a Telehealth Online Zoom Counseling session with me here
You can order a copy of my book ‘Fake Love – Understanding and Healing from Narcissistic Abuse’ here

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Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.

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Please remember the information you hear in this episode is not intended to substitute for therapy, is general, and strictly the opinions of the host.

You can leave a Rating and a Review here

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Need Support? Book a Telehealth Online Zoom Counseling session with me here
You can order a copy of my book ‘Fake Love – Understanding and Healing from Narcissistic Abuse’ here

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Fake Love and Flying Monkeys - Is the Narcissist the same as a Cult Leader?

Transcript

The Cult-Like Grip of Narcissistic Relationships: Why It’s So Hard to Walk Away

If you've ever been in a relationship with a narcissist or know someone who has, you’ve probably heard the painful question, "Why didn’t you just leave?" It’s a question that stings because it assumes leaving should be easy. But the truth is, walking away from a narcissist is far from simple. Their hold is deep and can feel very much like being trapped in a cult. In this blog, we'll d

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