Ep. 82 - EXPLAINED Love & Partnership

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02/14/20 • 76 min

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“At the end of the day, in order to attract the partnership you want, it’s about doing the work and making the space to get there.” - Lacy

“You’re not doing the work just to secure your partner more intensely. You’re doing it to secure your own worth so you can have these other aspects of your life sort of come in and fulfill so that the reliance on that partner is not as strong.” - Jessica

“It’s fascinating how much you can change your outer reality when you change your inner reality.” - Lacy

We couldn’t think of a more fitting day to dive into the topic of Love & Partnership — Valentine’s Day! In this episode, Lacy & Jessica talk about how to unblock around partnership & love, how to spot tests when calling in your partner, what it means to be trauma bonded, how triggers and doing this work affects every area of your life, & more! This episode will be expansive for people in any stage of a relationship, whether you’re looking for a partner, in a partnership, or need to exit a relationship. Happy manifesting!

In This Episode We Talk About:

How partnership really comes back to ourselves and self-improvement
rather than the outside experience
The definition of the authentic self
How it feels to be tapped into your authentic self
The correlation between connecting with the authentic self and the
quality of partnership
Unblocking in partnership
What we imprint from our caretakers of what the dynamic of love is
and what it means to us
Trauma bonding, and what things to watch out for versus what can be
worked through together
How we mirror back to each other what we need to work on and unblock
The commonalities between all relationships
The different stages of partnership
The distinction between a mirror and a lesson
Some red flags for when a situation may be toxic or you may need to
get out of it
Lacy’s three non-negotiables
What happens if you don’t pass a test and the energetic lessons
around that
Being sexually empowered versus using sexuality to feel love
The differences between ego wants and our true core wants
How love is a big component attached to other needs we have in
society
Grief as a lens for growth
Doing your own work first, then inviting your partner to work
together
What to look at if you’re feeling perpetually single
Tests within relationship/partnership
How healthy arguments can be beneficial
Working through codependency
Energetics around exiting a relationship
How everything really comes down to us and doing our own work to find
flow in relationship
How the more enough you are, the more you are going to attract in
what you really want
How we are our own creators; we don’t need to wait on anyone else

Resources:

To Be Magnetic
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The Pathway 2.0 use code EXPANDED for $20 off your first month of the
Pathway 2.0 or $20 off any 2.0 ala carte courses!
A la Carte Workshops
The Forest Retreat
Book Your Stay
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Newsletter
The Free Expander Mini Workshop

Lacy’s Intro

New Unblocked Love Workshop $40 off with CODE: MANIFESTLOVE until end
of Feb 2020
The Motivation
DRE New Journal Prompts

In The Episode

“At the end of the day, in order to attract the partnership you want, it’s about doing the work and making the space to get there.” - Lacy

“It’s fascinating how much you can change your outer reality when you change your inner reality.” - Lacy

In This Episode We Talk About:

How partnership really comes back to ourselves and self-improvement
rather than the outside experience
The definition of the authentic self
How it feels to be tapped into your authentic self
The correlation between connecting with the authentic self and the
quality of partnership
Unblocking in partnership
What we imprint from our caretakers of what the dynamic of love is
and what it means to us
Trauma bonding, and what things to watch out for versus what can be
worked through together
How we mirror back to each other what we need to work on and unblock
The commonalities between all relationships
The different stages of partnership
The distinction between a mirror and a lesson
Some red flags for when a situation may be toxic or you may need to
get out of it
Lacy’s three non-negotiables
What happens if you don’t pass a test and the energetic lessons
around that
Being sexually empowered versus using sexuality to feel love
The differences between ego wants and our true core wants
How love is a big component attached to other needs we have in
society
Grief as a lens for growth
Doing your own work first, then inviting your partner to work
together
What to look at if you’re feeling perpetually single
Tests within relationship/partnership
How healthy arguments can be beneficial
Working through codependency
Energetics around exiting a relationship
How everything really comes down to us and doing our own work to find
flow in relationship
How the more enough you are, the more you are going to attract in
what you really want
How we are our own creators; we don’t need to wait on anyone else

Resources:

To Be Magnetic
Instagram: @tobemagnetic
The Pathway 2.0 use code EXPANDED for $20 off your first month of the
Pathway 2.0 or $20 off any 2.0 ala carte courses!
A la Carte Workshops
The Forest Retreat
Book Your Stay
Instagram: @theforestretreathouse
Newsletter
The Free Expander Mini Workshop

Lacy’s Intro

New Unblocked Love Workshop $40 off with CODE: MANIFESTLOVE until end
of Feb 2020
The Motivation
DRE New Journal Prompts

In The Episode

Previous Episode

Ep. 81 - Shifting out of Lack Mentality & Into Deservingness - The Process with Heather Whitaker

*Trigger Warning as this episode contains a conversation around an incident of assault, violence, and abuse. If you would like to avoid this section of the conversation, skip over minutes 11:40 - 14:00*

“I was in this very dark place, and I had to make a choice. Was I going to stay in that darkness, or was I going to try to find light, and that there was a reason for this in some way?” - Heather

“When I did Reparent, I realized that so much of my actions were coming from a lack mentality and low self-worth. I actually had to shift out of the lack mentality before I could even shift out of the low self-worth because that’s how embedded I was.” - Heather

“I think that’s the biggest thing with all of this. Yes, I’ve been able to manifest tangible things, but this is less about manifesting things, and more about the fact that I had been keeping myself small for so long. With Lacy’s work, I’ve been able to increase my self-worth and my deservingness.” - Heather

Pathway member, Heather Whitaker, joins us for a Process episode today. Heather was chosen to share her manifestation journey on stage at the speaking tour event in LA. After detailing her all of the actions she took to shift her worth, and sharing her long list of manifestations that have come through including her job, relationship, wedding ring, dress, venue, and house — Heather noted the most important change she experienced from this work was getting out of lack mentality and into total deservingness. This episode is filled with incredible insight for manifestors at any level. Also, enjoy listening in on some clips from the LA leg of the Manifestation Speaking tour!

In This Episode We Talk About:

Some updates on Lacy’s journey with IVF
Heather’s unique experience at the speaking tour
The traumatic experience that led Heather to seek out Lacy’s work
Her early manifestation work, and her own switch from the positivity
rhetoric to Lacy’s grounded method
Some of the blocks that came up for Heather while she was working
through Unblocked Inner Child and enmeshment, and how this affected
her relationship with her mom
How Heather crafted her first lists, by starting small and then
growing more specific not only about what she wanted but how she
wanted to feel
How she navigated some of these courses and the freedom that the
Pathway allows for members to personalize the work for what they need
How this work helped repair the relationship with her and her
now-husband
Heather’s mantras for people-pleasing and saying no
Some of Heather’s big expanders and their common characteristics
The evolving nature of expanders, and serving as our own expanders
Heather’s own process and awareness around passing tests
The importance of having community around this work to help reinforce
magnetism
Allowing yourself to take an energetic break from doing the work
How every person has an individual process for this work but allowing
yourself grace throughout the process
Looking ahead to 2020 and trusting herself without question
The infinite nature of this manifestation work
Heather’s advice for people that are new to the process and things
she wishes she had known before starting

Resources:

To Be Magnetic
Instagram: @tobemagnetic
The Pathway 2.0 use code EXPANDED for $20 off your first month of the
Pathway 2.0 or $20 off any 2.0 ala carte courses!
A la Carte Workshops
The Forest Retreat
Book Your Stay
Instagram: @theforestretreathouse
Newsletter
The Free Expander Mini Workshop
The Motivation

Lacy’s Intro

PJs
Moon Juice on Rose Ave
Mary Magdalene Movie
Lacy Phillips Live: The Manifestation Tour (use code MEMBER for $15
off if you are a member of The Pathway)

Next Episode

Ep. 83 - Magic Beans: Transformational Healing from Autoimmune Disease with Unique Hammond

“Having that upbringing became the foundation of my ability to do what I did. It was 100% my upbringing and what my parents gave me at a young age that became the tools that I would use for my own healing.” - Unique Hammond

“I was pretty bummed, and also at the same time I felt free because suddenly I realized that I was dealing with a hypothesis, not a life sentence.” - Unique Hammond

“The results of doing this very simple, very unintuitive diet has been profound. I’ve seen it so many times around me, it’s been phenomenal, to be honest.” - Unique Hammond

“It wasn’t so much that I was like ‘Oh I want to be sick’ it was more, ‘I don’t know how to be well”. - Unique Hammond

Today we have on Lacy’s Bean Protocol Coach, and Author of “Your Tastebuds Are A**holes”, Unique Hammond, NC. Unique shares her outstanding journey of suffering from a severe case of Crohn’s to full remission thanks to the bean protocol from Karen Hurd. She talks about the success stories of the clients she now coaches and how healing internally can correlate with manifestation.

In This Episode We Talk About:

Unique’s cultural upbringing and background, specifically when it
comes to health and wellness
The polarity of her parents’ relationship
The irony of her first jobs and first relationship in LA
Some of the lessons Unique learned from observing her parents and how
they went against the grain
Unique’s personal experience with Karen Hurd’s work
The variables in some of the other work that has already been done
around similar protocols
Being “healthy” based on how you feel versus how you look
Some of the initial help she received for her stomach issues
How to be a custodian of our own health
Unique’s greatest fears during this time of seeking treatment
The anxiety and relief around her diagnosis
Her decision to focus on diet and lifestyle rather than the medical
aspect
The symptoms during the worst of her time of sickness
The importance of understanding what real health is versus vanity
How her family supported her during this time
What our bodies really need, and how everything else is extra
The results Unique saw once she started this protocol
Her little victories while on this protocol
When external progress started to reflect internal progress
Adopting this protocol as a lifestyle change, rather than a diet
The amazing fact that the body heals on a cellular level
Some of the success stories Unique has seen while coaching others
Why the beans are so important
The genius of soluble fibers
Unique’s book and other learning resources she has for other people
The correlation between being unblocked in your gut and unblocked in
manifestation