Ep. 82 - EXPLAINED Love & Partnership

“At the end of the day, in order to attract the partnership you want, it’s about doing the work and making the space to get there.” - Lacy

“You’re not doing the work just to secure your partner more intensely. You’re doing it to secure your own worth so you can have these other aspects of your life sort of come in and fulfill so that the reliance on that partner is not as strong.” - Jessica

“It’s fascinating how much you can change your outer reality when you change your inner reality.” - Lacy

We couldn’t think of a more fitting day to dive into the topic of Love & Partnership — Valentine’s Day! In this episode, Lacy & Jessica talk about how to unblock around partnership & love, how to spot tests when calling in your partner, what it means to be trauma bonded, how triggers and doing this work affects every area of your life, & more! This episode will be expansive for people in any stage of a relationship, whether you’re looking for a partner, in a partnership, or need to exit a relationship. Happy manifesting!

In This Episode We Talk About:

• How partnership really comes back to ourselves and self-improvement
  rather than the outside experience
• The definition of the authentic self
• How it feels to be tapped into your authentic self
• The correlation between connecting with the authentic self and the
  quality of partnership
• Unblocking in partnership
• What we imprint from our caretakers of what the dynamic of love is
  and what it means to us
• Trauma bonding, and what things to watch out for versus what can be
  worked through together
• How we mirror back to each other what we need to work on and unblock
• The commonalities between all relationships
• The different stages of partnership
• The distinction between a mirror and a lesson
• Some red flags for when a situation may be toxic or you may need to
  get out of it
• Lacy’s three non-negotiables
• What happens if you don’t pass a test and the energetic lessons
  around that
• Being sexually empowered versus using sexuality to feel love
• The differences between ego wants and our true core wants
• How love is a big component attached to other needs we have in
  society
• Grief as a lens for growth
• Doing your own work first, then inviting your partner to work
  together
• What to look at if you’re feeling perpetually single
• Tests within relationship/partnership
• How healthy arguments can be beneficial
• Working through codependency
• Energetics around exiting a relationship
• How everything really comes down to us and doing our own work to find
  flow in relationship
• How the more enough you are, the more you are going to attract in
  what you really want
• How we are our own creators; we don’t need to wait on anyone else

Resources:

• To Be Magnetic
• Instagram: @tobemagnetic
• The Pathway 2.0 use code EXPANDED for $20 off your first month of the
  Pathway 2.0 or $20 off any 2.0 ala carte courses!
• A la Carte Workshops
• The Forest Retreat
• Book Your Stay
• Instagram: @theforestretreathouse
• Newsletter
• The Free Expander Mini Workshop

Lacy’s Intro

• New Unblocked Love Workshop $40 off with CODE: MANIFESTLOVE until end
  of Feb 2020
• The Motivation
• DRE New Journal Prompts

In The Episode

• Expanded x Ep. EXPLAINED Manifestation 101
• Expanded x Ep. 38 with Amanda Blair
• How To Spot a Test
• ...