How to Align Your Decisions and Behaviors With Your Values

09/28/22 • 33 min

Our values reflect what we find meaningful in life.
They are what you care about, deep down, and what you consider to be important. Everybody’s values are different, and they can change over time. They reflect how we want to engage with the world, with the people around us, and with ourselves.

In today's episode I will focus on several goals:

Strategies on how to make "A Valued Based Decision."
Awareness on whether your decisions are" Emotional vs. Value Based Decisions"
Quick Tip to Problem Solving with Your Values

If you are still struggling on saying "NO" and quickly tend to react to saying yes often then listen to this episode to help you out:

Stop Saying YES so much and Start Saying NO with Ease and Confidence

I will go over the common symptoms on living life with lack of values and clarity such as:

Inaction
Procrastination
Not doing enough of what matters most to you

Lack of Values and correlated behaviors describe how problems can stem from.
I will offer you a quick tip on:
Problem Solving with your Values
If you have not been able to identify what your top values are; listen to the previous episode Just click on the link below to find out:

How to know your Values

You will be able to identify an association between different activities and your emotions with behaviors are inclusive to your Values.

Obtaining value Based Behaviors have resulted in positive rewards such as:

Having positive relationships with other people that make us feel connected and valued.
Connecting with the present moment and being authentic within ourselves.
It will bring about a chance to grow and develop an increase sense of achievement within ourselves.

Want to start learning on how to make a value based decision.
Below I will give you the workbook on this episode and link to discover the steps in learning on how to begin making those important decisions based on your values.
Free Workbook to align your decisions and behaviors with your values!

Leave a Comment on what Decisions you made based on your Values.
Quote of the Day:
"It's not hard to make decisions when you know what your values are."
--Roy Disney--

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In today's episode I will focus on several goals:

Strategies on how to make "A Valued Based Decision."
Awareness on whether your decisions are" Emotional vs. Value Based Decisions"
Quick Tip to Problem Solving with Your Values

If you are still struggling on saying "NO" and quickly tend to react to saying yes often then listen to this episode to help you out:

Stop Saying YES so much and Start Saying NO with Ease and Confidence

I will go over the common symptoms on living life with lack of values and clarity such as:

Inaction
Procrastination
Not doing enough of what matters most to you

How to know your Values

You will be able to identify an association between different activities and your emotions with behaviors are inclusive to your Values.

Obtaining value Based Behaviors have resulted in positive rewards such as:

Having positive relationships with other people that make us feel connected and valued.
Connecting with the present moment and being authentic within ourselves.
It will bring about a chance to grow and develop an increase sense of achievement within ourselves.

Leave a Comment on what Decisions you made based on your Values.
Quote of the Day:
"It's not hard to make decisions when you know what your values are."
--Roy Disney--

Previous Episode

How to Know Your Values

The one life lesson that changed my life was....
Being aware of my values, to make value based decisions and be aligned with who I am.
Clarifying my values as a top priority shifted many things in my life.
Individuals experience greater fulfillment when they live by their values.
If we don’t honor our values, our mental, emotional, and physical state suffers.
Knowing Your Values Changes Your Behavior
In this episode I will go over the characteristics on living life with lack of values
such as:

Strong feelings of panic, fear, and helplessness when faced with being alone when voicing your own opinion or belief.

The goal in this episode is to help you:

Identify your own emotional and social needs and ways to fulfill them without feeling selfish.

I will go over the Steps so you can identify your values:
Sneak Preview: On minute 18, I will go over
Step 5: What are you top 5 values and rank them from 1-5 in priority

I will also give you a quick tip in the beginning of the episode on 3 questions you can ask yourself to immediately become aware of your values.
Don't want to wait until you hear the whole episode, that's ok,
Below I will give you the cheat sheet on the steps and quick tip on figuring out your values.
Step by Step Process on how to know your values

Leave a Comment on what Values are most important to you.
Quote of the Day:
"Value's are like fingerprints.
Nobody's are the same, but you leave 'em all over everything you do."
--Elvis Presley--

Next Episode

Overcoming the Fear of Rejection and Pain of Abandonment

Overcoming the Fear of Rejection and Pain of Abandonment

What fuels the fear of rejection and pain of abandonment?
What are the habits that keep the fear of rejection and abandonment present?

This episode is the first part of a series that will discuss the concepts, techniques and strategies for Fear of Rejection and the pain of abandonment that happens within human society.
The challenging part is that no one really talks about it, so I decided to incorporate this episode on the in’s and out of what encompasses the fear of rejection, pain of abandonment and on how you can begin to get out of that mindset into a healthier one of being accepted and feelings that you belong and are lovable.
In today's episode I will focus on several goals:

Awareness on how unrewarding it is to be constantly hyper vigilant toward rejection and the pain of abandonment.
Several techniques in self regulating with that part of you that is hypersensitive to rejection and abandonment
You will be able to identify an association with your emotions & body sensations that are sensitive to rejection and abandonment.

If you are still struggling on tolerating the ability to walk into the sensation of being rejected and not take it personally, then listen to this episode to help you out:

How to Know your Values

I will go over the common symptoms on living life with fear of rejection and pain of abandonment:

General anxiousness in social settings
Focusing only on the area that looks like rejections and filter out all the other positive messaging and examples to the contrary within the same experienced event.

Some correlated unhelpful thoughts that stem from rejection and abandonment are:

What is wrong with me?
What did I do wrong?

I will offer you a quick tip on:
Taking the Panic of the unhealthy sensations and emotions out of your body and offer something reassuring to say to yourself about this symptom that would make you feel better.
If you have not been able to identify how to set loving limits and boundaries listen to the previous episode Just click on the link below to find out:

How to set Loving Limits and Boundaries

Want to start learning on how to take the negative sensations from rejection and abandonment from your body : Below I will give you the cheat sheet on how to do just that: Body Scan To Regulate the Nervous System
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