
2. Taking on the Judge and Using the Sage Muscle to Transform Your Relationships
04/23/23 • 13 min
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When you possess Positive Intelligence®, or PQ®, you have a foundation for success. Personal relationships flourish when you assume accountability for your actions, build up the people around you, and empathize with them. You can turn a "bad" situation into a positive one by exercising your Sage muscle not only with others but also with yourself! Listen in as I explain how the the Judge and Accomplices work hard to sabotage us and lead us down a path of misery, and how, when we draw on our Sage muscle, we move in a completely new and better direction. I offer an anecdote so you can see the Sage in action and conclude with a short story about a good and a bad wolf.
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When you possess Positive Intelligence®, or PQ®, you have a foundation for success. Personal relationships flourish when you assume accountability for your actions, build up the people around you, and empathize with them. You can turn a "bad" situation into a positive one by exercising your Sage muscle not only with others but also with yourself! Listen in as I explain how the the Judge and Accomplices work hard to sabotage us and lead us down a path of misery, and how, when we draw on our Sage muscle, we move in a completely new and better direction. I offer an anecdote so you can see the Sage in action and conclude with a short story about a good and a bad wolf.
Positive Intelligence and PQ are trademarks of Positive Intelligence, LLC
Want to learn how to build your PQ®? Let's meet to see if working with me is good fit.
--> Calendar: https://calendly.com/jami-carlacio/personal-meeting
--> Email: [email protected]
--> Website: https://jamicarlacio.com
--> LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jami-carlacio/
--> FaceBook: https://www.facebook.com/jcarlacio
--> Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamicarlacio1/
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1. Positive Intelligence® and Taking Action
In this inaugural episode of Positive Intelligence®: Your Greatest Asset and Key to Success, Jami explains that PQ® combines emotional intelligence, or EQ, with positive mindset strategies that help you to see problems as opportunities for growth. PQ is a mental gym, and by doing daily PQ® reps, you become stronger and more resilient and can face life and work challenges with poise and confidence. To build your mental muscle, you need to be aware of the self-sabotaging Judge inside your head that breeds negative thoughts that lead to negative behaviors. One you are aware, you learn to accept what's going on, and finally, you take the right action to stop listening to the judge and move in a positive direction. This move comes from your "inner sage," which is to say your true self and your inner wisdom.
Want to learn how to build your PQ®? Let's meet to see if working together is good fit.
--> Calendar: https://calendly.com/jami-carlacio/personal-meeting
--> Email: [email protected]
--> Website: https://jamicarlacio.com
--> LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jami-carlacio/
--> FaceBook: https://www.facebook.com/jcarlacio
--> Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamicarlacio1/
Positive Intelligence and PQ are trademarks of Positive Intelligence, LLC
Want to learn how to build your PQ®? Let's meet to see if working with me is good fit.
--> Calendar: https://calendly.com/jami-carlacio/personal-meeting
--> Email: [email protected]
--> Website: https://jamicarlacio.com
--> LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jami-carlacio/
--> FaceBook: https://www.facebook.com/jcarlacio
--> Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamicarlacio1/
Next Episode

1. Understanding Positive Intelligence® and Taking Action
In this inaugural episode of Emotional Intelligence: Your Greatest Asset and Key to Success, Jami explains what Positive Intelligence® (©PQ) is: a combination of emotional intelligence, or EQ, and mental fitness that help you to see problems as situations that are opportunities for growth. ©PQ is a mental gym, and by doing daily ©PQ reps, you become stronger and more resilient and can face life and work challenges with poise and confidence. To build your ©PQ, you need to be aware of the self-sabotaging Judge and its nine accomplices inside your head that breed negative thoughts that lead to negative behaviors. One you are aware, you learn to accept what's going on, and finally, you take the right action of listening to your "inner sage," which is to say your true self and your inner wisdom.
Want to learn how to build your EQ? Let's meet to see if working together is good fit.
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* Email: [email protected] (mailto:%[email protected])
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