Lessons in Success and Failure - Ep. 3

01/14/22 • 22 min

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In this episode, Anthony and Brian discuss letting go of the stigma associated with failure, why it’s important to separate failures from your identity, and how to create a personal society with the people who share your values. Learn how to find silver linings in every challenge and the benefits of having an accountability buddy!
Timestamps
(00:35) - Breaking the stigma associated with failure

(2:25) - How society plays a role in what we consider failure

(4:38) - Why failing doesn’t make you a failure

(5:58) - Is it ok to feel “bad”?

(9:29) - Are we hard-wired to seek success?

(11:28) - Who controls your society?

(13:55) - Using accountability to find success

(17:50) - Why failing in public is different than failing in private

(20:50) - Two powerful tools for overcoming failure

(2:25) - How society plays a role in what we consider failure

(4:38) - Why failing doesn’t make you a failure

(5:58) - Is it ok to feel “bad”?

(9:29) - Are we hard-wired to seek success?

(11:28) - Who controls your society?

(13:55) - Using accountability to find success

(17:50) - Why failing in public is different than failing in private

(20:50) - Two powerful tools for overcoming failure

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https://www.egolab.us/podcast/show-notes-e4-what-makes-us-human-use-hope-to-build-a-fulfilling-lifeEpisode Summary:
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(0:00) Intro

(0:42) Hope and Finding Your Why

(3:43) The Placebo Effect and Hope

(6:30) Hope and Communities, Fighting Cancer, Finding The Will to Live, Friendship, and Impermanence

(16:33) How to Use Positivity to Cultivate Hope

(20:48) Creating a community of Hope within yourself

(25:02) Tools for developing Hope, Gratitude, and Optimism

(27:30) Is Being Optimistic an Inherent Trait or Can We Develop it?

(31:37) Ikigai and Hope - Do Optimistic People Live Longer?

(34:13) What If I don’t Want To Be Hopeful?