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Doing It Together: Making Sense of Low Libido, Sex, and Intimacy in Marriage. - Feeling Broken and Alone While Searching for Answers About Low Libido - with Kate | Ep. 132

Feeling Broken and Alone While Searching for Answers About Low Libido - with Kate | Ep. 132

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02/04/25 • 58 min

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Doing It Together: Making Sense of Low Libido, Sex, and Intimacy in Marriage.

Kate and her husband started out having what she describes as a great sex life. It felt exciting, easy and fun and her pleasure was easily accessible. As the years passed and life got more stressful and overwhelming, her desire plummeted. She couldn’t understand what happened. She started keeping a calendar to track how often they had sex and if too much time went by she would shame herself into doing it. Even though sex felt fine in the moment, she had no desire and felt broken and very alone.

Desperate for help, she searched for ‘low libido’ in her podcast browser and discovered Janna’s podcast. She listened to the first episode on the way to the grocery store and exclaimed, “That’s me, that’s me, that’s me!” Hearing her story for the first time prompted her to listen and learn further, and finally take the program with her husband. Listen as Kate describes what was really going on, what she and her husband learned, and how their communication and sexual relationship has dramatically improved.

Janna's free classes for women and men are happening May 12 & 13.

Register for the women's free class, Wanting It More 101: https://jannadentonhowes.com/freeclass

Register for the men's free class, Getting It More 101: http://jannadentonhowes.com/free-class-men

The next round of Doing It Together is open for registration! Get $300 off for this round only! Register now!

Learn about the Doing It Together program details, schedules, testimonials, and Q&A.

Janna's new Wanting It More Foundations self-paced course for women is open for registration.

Leave a podcast review: We'd so appreciate your ​rating and review​ to help the podcast reach more couples.

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Kate and her husband started out having what she describes as a great sex life. It felt exciting, easy and fun and her pleasure was easily accessible. As the years passed and life got more stressful and overwhelming, her desire plummeted. She couldn’t understand what happened. She started keeping a calendar to track how often they had sex and if too much time went by she would shame herself into doing it. Even though sex felt fine in the moment, she had no desire and felt broken and very alone.

Desperate for help, she searched for ‘low libido’ in her podcast browser and discovered Janna’s podcast. She listened to the first episode on the way to the grocery store and exclaimed, “That’s me, that’s me, that’s me!” Hearing her story for the first time prompted her to listen and learn further, and finally take the program with her husband. Listen as Kate describes what was really going on, what she and her husband learned, and how their communication and sexual relationship has dramatically improved.

Janna's free classes for women and men are happening May 12 & 13.

Register for the women's free class, Wanting It More 101: https://jannadentonhowes.com/freeclass

Register for the men's free class, Getting It More 101: http://jannadentonhowes.com/free-class-men

The next round of Doing It Together is open for registration! Get $300 off for this round only! Register now!

Learn about the Doing It Together program details, schedules, testimonials, and Q&A.

Janna's new Wanting It More Foundations self-paced course for women is open for registration.

Leave a podcast review: We'd so appreciate your ​rating and review​ to help the podcast reach more couples.

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undefined - Couples Share How Their Relationship Thrived by Doing It Together | Ep. 131

Couples Share How Their Relationship Thrived by Doing It Together | Ep. 131

On the final day of the last round of Doing It Together, Janna and her team gathered all the husbands and wives for a farewell Zoom call. During this heartwarming session, she asked, "What’s been your most unexpected takeaway from this program?"

The couples’ honest responses were deeply moving. After just eight weeks on their journey, they had already made remarkable progress in rekindling their intimacy. Although the journey wasn’t without its challenges, witnessing their progress in real-time continually reinforced the mission of Doing It Together—to empower couples with the skills to create an intimate life that feels fulfilling for both partners.

Janna's free classes for women and men are happening May 12 & 13.

Register for the women's free class, Wanting It More 101: https://jannadentonhowes.com/freeclass

Register for the men's free class, Getting It More 101: http://jannadentonhowes.com/free-class-men

The next round of Doing It Together is open for registration! Get $300 off for this round only! Register now!

Learn about the Doing It Together program details, schedules, testimonials, and Q&A.

Janna's new Wanting It More Foundations self-paced course for women is open for registration.

Leave a podcast review: We'd so appreciate your ​rating and review​ to help the podcast reach more couples.

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undefined - Adventures in Online Dating, Faith, Betrayal & Low Desire - with Brandi | Ep. 133

Adventures in Online Dating, Faith, Betrayal & Low Desire - with Brandi | Ep. 133

In this enlightening episode, 40-year-old Brandi shares her inspiring journey of self-discovery and rekindled desire. Growing up in southern Utah within the Mormon faith, Brandi's sex education was rooted in the belief of abstinence until marriage. After her first marriage ended due to years of betrayal, she ventured into the eye-opening world of online dating before meeting her current husband.

In the beginning, their sex life was amazing, but after she became pregnant, her desire faded completely, and things became challenging. She and her husband found themselves stuck in endless arguments, and Brandi felt lost and broken, unsure of where to turn for help.

Everything changed when she discovered Janna’s Doing It Together program. Through the program, Brandi experienced many powerful “aha” moments and, together with her husband, learned how to reignite their connection. Now, with hope restored, Brandi shares the transformative lessons they’ve learned.

Janna's free classes for women and men are happening May 12 & 13.

Register for the women's free class, Wanting It More 101: https://jannadentonhowes.com/freeclass

Register for the men's free class, Getting It More 101: http://jannadentonhowes.com/free-class-men

The next round of Doing It Together is open for registration! Get $300 off for this round only! Register now!

Learn about the Doing It Together program details, schedules, testimonials, and Q&A.

Janna's new Wanting It More Foundations self-paced course for women is open for registration.

Leave a podcast review: We'd so appreciate your ​rating and review​ to help the podcast reach more couples.

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