The Science of Happily Ever After with Ty Tashiro

02/01/23 • 45 min

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NEW MONTH, NEW SERIES. This time we’re talking about relationships. Do you ever wonder what science has to say about maintaining a fulfilling long-term relationship? Today on the podcast, we interviewed acclaimed relationship scientist, Ty Tashiro. His book, The Science of Happily Ever After, shows how our decision-making abilities falter when choosing mates and how insights from social science can help us make smarter decisions. You don’t want to miss an episode of our dating and relationships series! We are going to speak to everyone from Tennesha Wood the founder of the first ever matchmaking firm dedicated to black professionals, to Logan Ury the author of How Not to Die Alone & director of relationship science at the dating app Hinge. And of course we can’t talk about relationships without talking about divorce, so we will interview Chaute Thompson, a counselor who helps couples and families grow healthier relationships. In This Episode We’ll Cover: What “happily ever after” really means Why we only get 3 wishes for an idea partner Why most people wish for the wrong things Why the seeds of marital conflict can be traced back to your first dates How to improve the quality of your existing relationship Why is it so hard to date these days? What is wrong with online dating? What is the best age to get married? What is the worst age to get married? How to swipe smarter on dating apps. What traits make a great life partner? What is the number 1 trait to have in a satisfying relationship? Is being “nice” a bad thing in relationships? What is a novelty seeker and why could that be a dealbreaking trait? 3 things to look for successful online dating (hint: it’s not compatible zodiac signs). Does wealth really matter in relationships? Are soulmates real? What does it take to make relationships work? Should you feel a spark when dating? 1 thing you can do NOW to improve your relationship. 3 Ways You Can Support This Podcast: Rate Review Support our sponsors using our unique ‘HOOKUP’ codes at https://foodheavenmadeeasy.com/hookup HOOKUP Code: For a limited time, you get 20% off the entire Inside Tracker store when you sign up at insidetracker.com/foodheaven For our resources and shownotes, visit foodheavenmadeeasy.com/podcast. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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