DFTW 33 - Take Ya-But Out AND Watch How Your Communication Changes
10/26/21 • 10 min
So much stress can come from simply not actively listening to others, because we are thinking of our Ya-But response instead of listening. In this episode Michael discusses how we can eliminate the idea of control by simply listening instead of adding your ideas to every conversation.
“Yes but” suggests there is a different fact to consider. The words can discount everything that led up to it and can lead to a debate. “Those flowers are beautiful.” “Yes, but they only last two weeks.”
“Yes and” shows you agree with what someone has said, but rather than presenting a different fact you build on the words that led up to it. “Those flowers are beautiful.” “Yes, and they do best when they get plenty of water.”
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So much stress can come from simply not actively listening to others, because we are thinking of our Ya-But response instead of listening. In this episode Michael discusses how we can eliminate the idea of control by simply listening instead of adding your ideas to every conversation.
“Yes but” suggests there is a different fact to consider. The words can discount everything that led up to it and can lead to a debate. “Those flowers are beautiful.” “Yes, but they only last two weeks.”
“Yes and” shows you agree with what someone has said, but rather than presenting a different fact you build on the words that led up to it. “Those flowers are beautiful.” “Yes, and they do best when they get plenty of water.”
Connect
Take the healing path quiz here to see where you or a loved one is on there trauma recovery
Subscribe to my YouTube Channel for the video portion of this episode.
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🟢 NextStepCoach
Previous Episode
DFTW 32 - You are not the issue, your mind might be.
We can all do hard things, it just take a renewed mind to be able to do it!
What are you doing to renew your mind daily. In this episode Michael Head talks about ways that you can have a renewed mind and be able to really push through life at a great pace!
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Next Episode
DFTW 34 - Cancel Culture Cant Cancel YOUR Voice
No more hiding and no more being silent, no more feeling guilty because you don’t have it all together, time to stop pushing and covering up your pain with things that are only making it worse.
There are so many different “silent” diseases today — everything from thyroid disease, kidney and liver dysfunction, Celiac disease, hypertension, diabetes and Heart disease.
The truth is one of the most silent killers of people is ‘silence’ itself.
It is time to speak up and not be silent!
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