
018 | White Privilege and Responsibility
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06/06/20 • 49 min
We are in the midst of a civil rights movement that is spanning the globe sparked by the deaths of George Floyd, Breonna Taylor, Ahmaud Arbery and the long list of people of color who have been murdered and lynched for too many years to count.
It is imperative that we be in conversation and lean into any of the discomforts being felt. It is essential that we learn how to own our white privilege and use our voices to create a country where once and for all, every human is equal under the law. Leah and Jenn have a deep and heartfelt conversation about ending white silence, owning white privilege, and standing for black lives matter.
#endwhitesilence
#blacklivesmatter
#whitesilenceisviolence
#amplifymelanatedvoices
In this episode we discussed:
- Each person needs to start learning and contributing from wherever they are.
- The importance of not shaming one another.
- Learning the truth about black history and the black experience in America.
- Leaning into the difficult and uncomfortable conversations.
- Allowing the discomfort to guide you toward healing yourself.
- Talking to children about racism.
- Be vigilant in finding your own narrative.
Resources:
Watch:
13th (Netflix)
Resurrecting Black Wall Street
The Hate You Give
Malcolm X
Selma
Read:
Me and White Supremacy by Layla Saad
Just Mercy by Bryan Stevenson
How to Be an Anti-Racist by Ibram X. Kendi
White Fragility by Robin DiAngelo
The New Jim Crow by Michelle Alexander
Divided Sisters by Midge Wilson and Kathy Russell
Get Active:
Showing Up for Racial Justice (SURJ) - https://www.showingupforracialjustice.org/
8 Can’t Wait - https://8cantwait.org/
Black Lives Matter - https://blacklivesmatter.com/
Grassroots Law Project - https://www.grassrootslaw.org/
NAACP - https://www.naacp.org/
The Obama Foundation - https://www.obama.org/
American Civil Liberties Union - https://www.aclu.org/
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We are in the midst of a civil rights movement that is spanning the globe sparked by the deaths of George Floyd, Breonna Taylor, Ahmaud Arbery and the long list of people of color who have been murdered and lynched for too many years to count.
It is imperative that we be in conversation and lean into any of the discomforts being felt. It is essential that we learn how to own our white privilege and use our voices to create a country where once and for all, every human is equal under the law. Leah and Jenn have a deep and heartfelt conversation about ending white silence, owning white privilege, and standing for black lives matter.
#endwhitesilence
#blacklivesmatter
#whitesilenceisviolence
#amplifymelanatedvoices
In this episode we discussed:
- Each person needs to start learning and contributing from wherever they are.
- The importance of not shaming one another.
- Learning the truth about black history and the black experience in America.
- Leaning into the difficult and uncomfortable conversations.
- Allowing the discomfort to guide you toward healing yourself.
- Talking to children about racism.
- Be vigilant in finding your own narrative.
Resources:
Watch:
13th (Netflix)
Resurrecting Black Wall Street
The Hate You Give
Malcolm X
Selma
Read:
Me and White Supremacy by Layla Saad
Just Mercy by Bryan Stevenson
How to Be an Anti-Racist by Ibram X. Kendi
White Fragility by Robin DiAngelo
The New Jim Crow by Michelle Alexander
Divided Sisters by Midge Wilson and Kathy Russell
Get Active:
Showing Up for Racial Justice (SURJ) - https://www.showingupforracialjustice.org/
8 Can’t Wait - https://8cantwait.org/
Black Lives Matter - https://blacklivesmatter.com/
Grassroots Law Project - https://www.grassrootslaw.org/
NAACP - https://www.naacp.org/
The Obama Foundation - https://www.obama.org/
American Civil Liberties Union - https://www.aclu.org/
Follow:
Donate:
Stay in Touch with the Podcast
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In 2008, Lisa Baker Morgan, a thirty-eight-year-old, newly divorced mother, unexpectedly found herself staring down death in a Monaco hospital, nine time zones away from her two young daughters in Los Angeles. After facing mortality and surviving, her life took on a sense of urgency to experience and accomplish all of the things she had ever wanted for herself and her daughters. Top of her list: a life-long desire to live in Paris. The seemingly indulgent and even "crazy" aspiration was part of a journey that set her on the path of recovery of health and of spirit.
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Connect with Lisa
IG: @chefmorgan
Lisa's book Paris, Part Time
About Lisa
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Stay in Touch
Instagram: @deepchatspodcast
Watch our interviews recorded live on YouTube
About Leah & Jenn
Leah Morris is a Life & Relationship Transition Coach, founder of Life Remade, published writer, and motivational speaker... She helps people to authentically process their feelings, thoughts, and emotions in order to give them a deeper understanding of themselves and others.
Using a range of modalities including art, coaching, guided visualization, and even her own story and experience of marriage, divorce, and finding herself again - Leah specializes in helping you gain a solid sense of Self Worth, develop unshakable Confidence, and heal after emotional Heartbreak. The biggest lesson she's learned in life thus far is that "there is no greater place to begin putting your life together than when it's been broken apart.
Connect with Leah at www.LifeRemade.com or on Instagram @leahemorris
Jennifer Butler is a Love and Transformation Coach who is dedicated to helping women fall deeply in love with themselves and awaken to their own internal power to create joy, love, and freedom in their lives. Working with women in three areas: Conscious Uncoupling, Calling in “The One,” & Self-Discovery, Jennifer teaches clients to identify and transform internal obstacles and expand their capacity to love and be loved.
Jennifer received her Masters in Clinical Social Work from New York University in 2002. After working as a trauma social worker in the hospital system, she took time off to become a mom and write a book. Jennifer authored Excerpts from the Heart of a Mom, inviting readers into her personal life and parenting journey, and sharing fundamental insights to a conscious approach to parenting. She also began “Live Through the Heart,” a blog that inspires readers to live more consciously in their da...
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We are extremely inspired by the deep chat we had on this episode with Nikki DeBartolo. She and her ex-husband have cultivated the type of post-divorce family that many people do not believe to be possible. Although it hasn’t been easy, Nikki very honestly shares about the journey that she’s been on and how the life she has now is one that she wouldn’t trade for the world.
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Book: Our Happy Divorce: How Ending our Divorce Brought Us Together
Instagram: @ourhappydivorce
Stay in Touch:
Instagram: @deepchatspodcast
Watch our interviews recorded live on YouTube
About Leah & Jenn
Leah Morris is a Life & Relationship Transition Coach, founder of Life Remade, published writer, and motivational speaker... She helps people to authentically process their feelings, thoughts, and emotions in order to give them a deeper understanding of themselves and others.
Using a range of modalities including art, coaching, guided visualization, and even her own story and experience of marriage, divorce, and finding herself again - Leah specializes in helping you gain a solid sense of Self Worth, develop unshakable Confidence, and heal after emotional Heartbreak. The biggest lesson she's learned in life thus far is that "there is no greater place to begin putting your life together than when it's been broken apart.
Connect with Leah at www.LifeRemade.com or on Instagram @leahemorris
Jennifer Butler is a Love and Transformation Coach who is dedicated to helping women fall deeply in love with themselves and awaken to their own internal power to create joy, love, and freedom in their lives. Working with women in three areas: Conscious Uncoupling, Calling in “The One,” & Self-Discovery, Jennifer teaches clients to identify and transform internal obstacles and expand their capacity to love and be loved.
Jennifer received her Masters in Clinical Social Work from New York University in 2002. After working as a trauma social worker in the hospital system, she took time off to become a mom and write a book. Jennifer authored Excerpts from the Heart of a Mom, inviting readers into her personal life and parenting journey, and sharing fundamental insights to a conscious approach to parenting. She also began “Live Through the Heart,” a blog that inspires readers to live more consciously in their daily lives.
Connect with Jennifer at www.jennjoycoaching.com or on Instagram @jennjoycoaching
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