Shifting from Control to Closeness
04/18/25 • 15 min
In this episode of the Dadhood podcast, Thomas McMinn discusses the critical difference between parenting for control and parenting for closeness. He shares personal experiences and insights on how the desire for control can hinder authentic relationships with children. Thomas emphasizes the importance of emotional intelligence, trust, and vulnerability in fostering deeper connections with kids. He encourages parents to allow their children the space to grow and express themselves, rather than trying to mold them into a specific image. Through anecdotes and reflections, he highlights the journey of personal growth in parenting and the significance of building lasting relationships based on understanding and acceptance.
In this episode of the Dadhood podcast, Thomas McMinn discusses the critical difference between parenting for control and parenting for closeness. He shares personal experiences and insights on how the desire for control can hinder authentic relationships with children. Thomas emphasizes the importance of emotional intelligence, trust, and vulnerability in fostering deeper connections with kids. He encourages parents to allow their children the space to grow and express themselves, rather than trying to mold them into a specific image. Through anecdotes and reflections, he highlights the journey of personal growth in parenting and the significance of building lasting relationships based on understanding and acceptance.
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