450 The Blame Game

04/04/16 • 27 min

How is your favorite game treating you, The Blame Game? Are you releasing your anger and frustration, blaming the other person, but not changing the outcome? The Blame Game can be devastating.

Relationships can be destroyed or broken. Lives can be turned upside down. The hurt can be so great to overcome, that it's easier to stay in the victim mentality than to push through to victory.

Today the discussion is led by a 5th grader, Graysen, who takes time to reflect on how blame really can hurt your life. Crush your spirit. And injure those around you.

The Blame Game is not to be taken lightly, yet we use it everyday. Throwing our anger around so we don't have to take responsibility for what happened.

How are you using The Blame Game in your life?

Are you one of the snowball fighters who doesn't want to admit to what happened for fear of being blamed or owning it?

You can escape The Blame Game.

The K.I.S.S. ~ Let go of the blame to understand the lesson!

Forgiveness
Accountability
Change your vocabulary
Take AIM

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Music by Mandisa - Overcomer

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Cover Art by Jenny Hamson

How is your favorite game treating you, The Blame Game? Are you releasing your anger and frustration, blaming the other person, but not changing the outcome? The Blame Game can be devastating.

Relationships can be destroyed or broken. Lives can be turned upside down. The hurt can be so great to overcome, that it's easier to stay in the victim mentality than to push through to victory.

Today the discussion is led by a 5th grader, Graysen, who takes time to reflect on how blame really can hurt your life. Crush your spirit. And injure those around you.

The Blame Game is not to be taken lightly, yet we use it everyday. Throwing our anger around so we don't have to take responsibility for what happened.

How are you using The Blame Game in your life?

Are you one of the snowball fighters who doesn't want to admit to what happened for fear of being blamed or owning it?

You can escape The Blame Game.

The K.I.S.S. ~ Let go of the blame to understand the lesson!

Forgiveness
Accountability
Change your vocabulary
Take AIM

Would love to hear what you are working on.

Send your challenges and celebrations to [email protected]

The Create Your Now Archive is LIVE!! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1

PERISCOPE USERS!!!

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Twitter@KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow

Facebookwww.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow

Contact me at [email protected]

Read more from Kristianne, a contributor of The Huffington Post

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kristianne-wargo/

DOMESTIC BEAUTIES (Announcements)

1. Create Your Now Archive 1 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1

2. NEW Website! Go check it out and tell me what you think. http://www.createyournow.com

Music by Mandisa - Overcomer

http://www.mandisaofficial.com

Cover Art by Jenny Hamson

Previous Episode

449 How to Celebrate Your Greatness

Do you even realize how great you are? Or are you spending too much time obsessing over everyone else? How to celebrate your greatness is essential to loving who you are and creating your now.

Do you participate in social media - Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, Snapchat, Pinterest, Periscope and more. Following your friends, family, people you look up to or find interesting. Maybe people you aspire to become because they inspire you.

When you connect, you begin to focus on their highlight reel, their movie trailer. By doing this, you are only seeing the exciting, amazing, incredible snapshots of their life.

How long is it going to take for you to stop burying yourself in someone else's successes and greatness and recognize your own?

You need to turn your focus onto YOUR journey. Stop chasing so many other people. Create YOUR now. Your highlight reel.

"We don't see the little changes in our life that add up to the greatness, because we aren't looking for them." ~ Kristianne Wargo

Your spirit is refueled and rejuvenated when you take time to see your growth, the changes, the transformations, the storms you've overcome.

The K.I.S.S. ~ Pause and REflect on your greatness!

Look at YOUR photos.
Create YOUR highlight reel.
Embrace YOUR growth of IMPACT.

Would love to hear what you are working on.

Send your challenges and celebrations to [email protected]

The Create Your Now Archive is LIVE!! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1

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Twitter@KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow

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Contact me at [email protected]

Read more from Kristianne, a contributor of The Huffington Post

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kristianne-wargo/

DOMESTIC BEAUTIES (Announcements)

1. Create Your Now Archive 1 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1

2. NEW Website! Go check it out and tell me what you think. http://www.createyournow.com

Music by Mandisa - Overcomer

http://www.mandisaofficial.com

Cover Art by Jenny Hamson

Next Episode

451 Ignite!!!

How do you keep going--Reaching for your dreams, your passions, and just getting through life? You learn to ignite! Ignite from the inside out.

Don't think about what you haven't done. Celebrate what you have!

Throw away the guilt and embrace flexibility. Deadlines are important in some circumstances, but not all. Learn to understand that a To Do List is not an ultimatum.

In order to ignite your dreams, your passions, your spark, your fire...

The K.I.S.S. ~ Hold on to the smallest pebble as if it's the biggest boulder!

We think we have to have the biggest boulder in order to ignite. Nope!!!

It's all backwards. That's earthly logic. Instead think with Heavenly logic -- You have exactly what you need. The smallest to the biggest gifts; God's blessings.

"Hold onto the smallest pebble as if it's the biggest boulder." ~ Kristianne Wargo

Ignite your today!

Would love to hear what you are working on.

Send your challenges and celebrations to [email protected]

The Create Your Now Archive is LIVE!! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1

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Contact me at [email protected]