818 When You Don't Know The Answer

02/09/18 • 18 min

Create Your Now Archive 3 with Kristianne Wargo

Everyone wants to be right. But when you don't know the answer, then what?

There is so much information out in the world, there's no way we can know it all.

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Often I'm challenged by my children. They ask some really tough questions. And even though I've homeschooled, I definitely do not have all the answers. In fact, my children are usually more spot on with facts verses experience.

History
Mathematics
Science

When you're not recalling the information frequently, you're gonna get a little rusty.

When I said the wrong answer, my son said, "You don't have to know it all. It's ok, Mom."

That doesn't make you less of a mom or a woman! We don't have to know all the answers.

Why is it that we feel like we do?

Disappointment
Rejection
Ashamed

The problem is, when you don't know the answer, you are putting not only yourself in a dangerous situation; but you are not teaching your children (or whomever you're speaking with), how to handle failure, lack of knowledge, and being wrong.

So what do you do when you don't know the answer?

The K.I.S.S. ~ Get the facts straight!

Don't cover up. Don't act like you know the answer.
Be honest and upfront about not knowing.
Go gain the knowledge.
Share your experience.
Be YOU!!!

Once you have decided and committed, then you can continue to plan, prep and finally take A.I.M.

Don't fall into the excuses of someone or something else.

REFLECTION: One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!

TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation

Live. Love. IMPACT!

"One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!"

Wanting help with goals, setting your schedule, or need someone to talk to (even if you don't know what you need)? It's time you TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation. This is FREE for you. Stop trying to do it by yourself. Put YOU first! Become your best selfie so you can live your life's purpose.

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Everyone wants to be right. But when you don't know the answer, then what?

There is so much information out in the world, there's no way we can know it all.

Desire to be supported and encourage by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. http://facebook.com/groups/thewomenofimpact

History
Mathematics
Science

When you're not recalling the information frequently, you're gonna get a little rusty.

When I said the wrong answer, my son said, "You don't have to know it all. It's ok, Mom."

That doesn't make you less of a mom or a woman! We don't have to know all the answers.

Why is it that we feel like we do?

Disappointment
Rejection
Ashamed

So what do you do when you don't know the answer?

The K.I.S.S. ~ Get the facts straight!

Don't cover up. Don't act like you know the answer.
Be honest and upfront about not knowing.
Go gain the knowledge.
Share your experience.
Be YOU!!!

Once you have decided and committed, then you can continue to plan, prep and finally take A.I.M.

Don't fall into the excuses of someone or something else.

REFLECTION: One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!

TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation

Live. Love. IMPACT!

"One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!"

Listen to Create Your Now on iHeart Radio. Click here.

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Contact me at [email protected]

Read more from Kristianne, a contributor to The Huffington Post, MindBodyGreen, Thrive Global, Addicted2Succes, and She Owns It.

https://addicted2success.com/success-advice/5-things-to-do-while-waiting-for-success-to-manifest-in-your-life/

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817 My Strength Is My Story with Kim Cash Tate, Cling

Kim Cash Tate talks about intimacy in her brand new book, Cling - Choosing a Lifestyle of Intimacy with God. This Bible study breaks down what it means to have a lifestyle, a relationship with God.

Be inspired and encouraged by making God a conscious part of your day.

Kim Cash Tate: A wife of 24 years, a mother of two children. Kim received her law degree from George Washington University. Upon leaving her law career, she focused on being a women's ministry speaker. Little did she know that God was opening a door for her to be an author. She has published 9 books to date. Her latest is Cling, Choosing a Lifestyle of Intimacy with God.

"Be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord." ~ 1 Corinthians 15:58

BOOK: Cling - Choosing a Lifestyle of Intimacy with God

Enjoy the multitude of topics discussed including writing a book, talking to God, and creating a lifestyle of intimacy! You'll discover many blessed nuggets and joy will fill your heart.

Writing interest
Practicing attorney
First book published
Personal Spiritual Journey
Fiction
Bible Study and DVD
Cling, the title
Inductive study
Deuteronomy 10:20 and 13:4
Meditation and Prayer
Relationship
What does cling look like?
Knowledge of His word
Talking to God
Memorize scripture
Challenge and hardships
In the beginning...
Chosen before the foundation
Intimacy with God
Recreated through Christ
Abide
Definition of intimacy
100 things to do
Overwhelm
Choice
The Promise Land
Little things
Conscious of God
Lead and guide
Living Words
God winks
Calendar
Productivity
Blessed as believers
One of the most challenging things with intimacy
Trials and tribulations
Prayer life
Go-to person
He is my friend
Comparison
Wedge of Disobedience
Big sins
Envy
Discontentment
Vertical and Horizontal relationships
Dreams, gifts, and calling
Seasons of Life

BOOK: Cling - Choosing a Lifestyle of Intimacy with God

WEBSITE: KimCashTate.com

"Clinging to God replenishes us and restores our soul."~ Kim Cash Tate

Quotes and statements within the interview:

"I had this stirring in my heart."

"My agent told me, 'You should think about writing fiction.'"

"It was never a dream."

"This story just came into my head about a woman."

"Lord, are you serious?"

"Keep His commandments, follow Him, serve Him, and cling to Him."

"It was so different than those other verbs."

"Cling had become apart of me."

"How do I write a whole book about cling?"

"I love the journey of writing with the Lord."

"This is an invitation from God to be glued to Him."

"I just love opening up the Bible and seeing what God has to say through His word."

"I'm just always talking to Him."

"He'll show you how to cling to Him."

"We were actually created to cling to God."

"It really blows your mind!"

"That's why He sent Jesus for relationship."

"I love that the word of God never gets old."

"Every day we have a choice of whether we're going to pursue that close relationship with the Lord."

"He becomes a conscious part of the day."

"No matter where you are, it should always start with talking to God."

"He will meet us as we are reading His word."

"He will order our lives so it's not so crazy all the time."

"He will bless you as you cling to Him. That's just the nature of God."

"God wants us to delight in Him."

"It's a trial for a reason."

"That's when that closeness is forged."

"God is literally my go-to."

"A wedge is anything that causes us to stray from God."

"Our esteem is tied to likes, followers; all of that."

"It always starts with the vertical, us and God. Then, it goes to the horizontal."

"We're clinging to that thing, bu...

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819 Are You Living or Existing?

Throughout your day, would you say you are living or existing?

Are you going through the motions on autopilot or being present in the moments?

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It's challenging to live on point every minute of your day. But when you let down your guard and revert back to "old habits die hard", what re you truly missing?

So let's get personal.

Are you living or existing in your marriage? What's the health of your relationship?

Do you have convenient intimacy or do you plan and enjoy each other's company the way God designed marriage to be?

Are you living or existing? Just going through the motions.

When you exist, you are putting little to no thought into your life. What really matters to you? And whom matters?

I understand that we can be in a season of life that these is barely enough time to breathe and tie our shoes.

But if you want to grow your marriage and create a deeper relationship, you must LIVE daily.

Live. Love. IMPACT!

There's no satisfaction in existing. You just want to get by and through you day. How's that working for you?

You are created for greatness. And that greatness is not in only raising your children, or your accomplishments in your career and community. But it's in your marriage!

Stop the excuses, whatever they are... I'm tired. I'm moody. I just don't feel like it.

The K.I.S.S. ~ Show & Tell

"Put your marriage first with purpose-driven action." ~ Kristianne Wargo

How does your spouse receive your love? [SHOW]
- Dinner
- Intimacy
- Clean house
- Time (watching a movie)
How does your spouse know your love? [TELL]
- Speaking words of love
- Writing words of love (letter, note, or a text)

Your marriage is worth living and committing to a purpose-driven action.

REFLECTION: Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!

TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation

Live. Love. IMPACT!

"One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!"

Listen to Create Your Now on iHeart Radio. Click here.

Create Your Now YouTube Channel

The Create Your Now Archives are LIVE!! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive2

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