807 Going Against the Grain
01/29/18 • 18 min
As much as you want something, going against the grain can seem impossible. The weariness of change, the evolution of normalcy may be too much to handle.
But going against the grain just might be what the doctor ordered. A prescription to get you focused in the right direction.
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What controls your words, thoughts, and actions? It's your brain, your control panel.
Your brain is your computer.
Let's keep diving deeper. When looking at the mindset, you are combining your feelings with how your computer has been programmed.
Your feelings match what's programmed and you are in your comfort zone. WOOHOO! This is the right way. You've been affirmed.
However, when going against the grain, you're met with resistance, questions; you're unsure. There's no guarantee. You feel uneasy. There's very little confidence because you've never tried it this way. Now you are out of your comfort zone.
"Going against the brain is a way to rewire your brain."
You want change. You want a different mindset. You need to .....
The K.I.S.S. ~ Rewire Your Brain!
You must have a shift in your mindsets.
- PERFECTIONISM - You want it perfect; absolutely NO flaws.
- Take a leap, a giant step.
- COMPARISON - You always look at yourself to someone else's reflection.
- Track the comparisons and change the reflection to you. (REdirect)
- PEOPLE PLEASING - You want others approval.
- Please you first.
One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!
TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation
Live. Love. IMPACT!"One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!"
Wanting help with goals, setting your schedule, or need someone to talk to (even if you don't know what you need)? It's time you TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation. This is FREE for you. Stop trying to do it by yourself. Put YOU first! Become your best selfie so you can live your life's purpose.
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As much as you want something, going against the grain can seem impossible. The weariness of change, the evolution of normalcy may be too much to handle.
But going against the grain just might be what the doctor ordered. A prescription to get you focused in the right direction.
Desire to be supported and encourage by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. http://facebook.com/groups/thewomenofimpact
What controls your words, thoughts, and actions? It's your brain, your control panel.
Your brain is your computer.
Let's keep diving deeper. When looking at the mindset, you are combining your feelings with how your computer has been programmed.
Your feelings match what's programmed and you are in your comfort zone. WOOHOO! This is the right way. You've been affirmed.
However, when going against the grain, you're met with resistance, questions; you're unsure. There's no guarantee. You feel uneasy. There's very little confidence because you've never tried it this way. Now you are out of your comfort zone.
"Going against the brain is a way to rewire your brain."
You want change. You want a different mindset. You need to .....
The K.I.S.S. ~ Rewire Your Brain!
You must have a shift in your mindsets.
- PERFECTIONISM - You want it perfect; absolutely NO flaws.
- Take a leap, a giant step.
- COMPARISON - You always look at yourself to someone else's reflection.
- Track the comparisons and change the reflection to you. (REdirect)
- PEOPLE PLEASING - You want others approval.
- Please you first.
One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!
TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation
Live. Love. IMPACT!"One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!"
Wanting help with goals, setting your schedule, or need someone to talk to (even if you don't know what you need)? It's time you TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation. This is FREE for you. Stop trying to do it by yourself. Put YOU first! Become your best selfie so you can live your life's purpose.
ANNOUNCEMENT: Ready to shine your light and tell your story. Please click on MY STRENGTH IS MY STORY. Here you can submit yourself to appear on the podcast or make recommendations as who you would like to hear. This is going to be a beautiful series!
Listen to Create Your Now on iHeart Radio. Click here.
Create Your Now YouTube Channel
The Create Your Now Archives are LIVE!! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive2
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Contact me at [email protected]
Read more from Kristianne, a contributor to The Huffington Post, MindBodyGreen, Thrive Global, Addicted2Succes, and She Owns It.
https://addicted2success.com/success-advice/5-things-to-do-while-waiting-for-success-to-manifest-in-your-life/
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806 You Are Able!
Are you trying to do life alone, from your own strength? You are able only when you allow Christ to partner in your life.
But how many times have you tackled life or a situation with you own accord?
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Sitting here watching the early Spring rain fall, it makes it easy for my mind to wonder to self defeat. I think about all the things I should have completed for the week. Only to lead me to the things I need to get done next week.
I feel like a failure and huddle in my own warm blanket with the skies grayed out and the cold gracing my nose, only to hope, I am able.
"I am the vine, you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing." ~ John 15:5
Are you tackling your life with the strength of a 2x4? Eventually, as life continues to bear down on you, that 2x4 strength is snapped in half like toothpicks.
There's nothing left to protect you, to shelter you, to support you. You can choose to climb out of the rubble scattered about or you can begin to understand that this season needs God's strength, His wisdom and His presence.
The K.I.S.S. ~ You are able!
So what does your life look like now? Are you in a season that is fun and exciting? Then be grateful!
But don't get comfortable. "There is a season for everything." (Ecclesiastes 3:1)
What if you are struggling?
You are able when you rely and reconnect with who you are created from --- God.
You are able when you let Him use His wisdom in your situation. You are able when you open the door for conversation. You are able when you listen in His presence. You are able when His strength sustains you. You are able.
As you begin a new season, take time today to reflect on your blessings and your challenges. Open your heart and mind to allowing God to be the vine, the source and the sustenance of life.
Pray and let God mend the broken fences. You are able!
TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation
Live. Love. IMPACT!"One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!"
Wanting help with goals, setting your schedule, or need someone to talk to (even if you don't know what you need)? It's time you TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation. This is FREE for you. Stop trying to do it by yourself. Put YOU first! Become your best selfie so you can live your life's purpose.
ANNOUNCEMENT: Ready to shine your light and tell your story. Please click on MY STRENGTH IS MY STORY. Here you can submit yourself to appear on the podcast or make recommendations as who you would like to hear. This is going to be a beautiful series!
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808 Find What Speaks To You
What lifts you up? What encourages you? What makes you smile? Find what speaks to you today and do something to you.
You matter!!!
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Every day you give to so many, putting yourself on the back burner.
Today, I'm encouraging you to do something for you specific to your desires.
Maybe it's cooking your favorite meal. That might mean a quick trip to the grocery store, but you're worth it.
Maybe it's reading a few pages of this book that's been staring at you for the last 6 months.
Maybe it's taking time to organize your closet. Stop cleaning everyone else's messes and organize your area.
When you find what speaks to you, you gain a smile. You walk with a bounce in your step. The day seems brighter even when it's dreary outside. Your hope account increases.
You are always giving and serving. It's a great day to find what speaks to you. Be your greatest cheerleader.
The K.I.S.S. ~ Find what speaks to you!
Remember how you felt when you were able to do one thing for you. This is not being selfish. You are taking time for you to rejuvenate and rebuild your hope.
You are loved. You are worthy.
Inspire yourself from the inside out when you find what speaks to you and do it.
Expand your heart to caring for not only your family and community, but loving you. You gotta rekindle your inspiration.
Choose not to be guilty by putting yourself last. Put yourself first and find what speaks to you.
Live life with passion. Love life with vigor. Impact life with you!
Go and inspire yourself today!
TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation
Live. Love. IMPACT!"One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!"
Wanting help with goals, setting your schedule, or need someone to talk to (even if you don't know what you need)? It's time you TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation. This is FREE for you. Stop trying to do it by yourself. Put YOU first! Become your best selfie so you can live your life's purpose.
ANNOUNCEMENT: Ready to shine your light and tell your story. Please click on MY STRENGTH IS MY STORY. Here you can submit yourself to appear on the podcast or make recommendations as who you would like to hear. This is going to be a beautiful series!
Listen to Create Your Now on iHeart Radio. Click here.
Create Your Now YouTube Channel
The Create Your Now Archives are LIVE!! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive2
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Contact me at [email protected]
Read more from Kristianne, a contributor to The Huffington Post, MindBodyGreen, Thrive Global, Addicted2Succes, and She Owns It.
https://addicted2success.com/success-advice/5-things-to-do-while-waiting-for-success-to-manifest-in-your-life/
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