
EPISODE #35 LGBTQ 101 & Words and Terminology You’ve Never Explored Part 1
06/14/24 • 23 min
From LGBTQIA to she/her/hers, the language, descriptions, and ideological frameworks are ever-evolving. Gender identity is separate from gender expression. And these categories are also separate from sexual orientation. I self-identify as a cisgender woman whose sexual orientation affirms my attraction to men. What does all this mean? And how do you use the word "they" when referencing a single person??
It's Pride Month, June 2024, and we will deep dive into the LGBTQ community using the words that matter most to them (plural!). Use the handy references below to further research topics that have systematically changed over the last 25 years.
Embark on a journey of self-discovery, where you can explore your own gender identity, gender expression, and sexual orientation. This exploration will equip you with the knowledge of your own pronouns, empowering you to confidently express your identity when asked. Remember, your journey is unique and valuable, and it's time to start embracing it.
As a diversity professional, I've had my own transformative journey of understanding and embracing LGBTQIA+ terminology. It's a process that requires a deep dive into upgrading your language and perspective. I urge you to embark on this journey of self-discovery, to truly 'know the self'. This self-awareness will help you understand your own place on the spectrum before engaging in meaningful conversations with others.
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LGBTQ TERMINOLOGY GUIDE BOOKS - FREE
MASS TRANSGENDER POLITICAL COALITION PRONOUNS GUIDE
https://www.masstpc.org/wp-content/uploads/MTPC-Prounouns-Guide.pdf
UN GUIDE/GLOSSARY (Comprehensive LGBTQ Terms)
https://www.iom.int/sites/g/files/tmzbdl486/files/documents/IOM-SOGIESC-Glossary-of-Terms.pdf
ACLU MISSISSIPPI
https://www.aclu-ms.org/sites/default/files/field_documents/e-book_defining_lgbtq.pdf
GENDERBREAD PERSON (Illustrates Identity, Expression, & Attraction)
https://www.itspronouncedmetrosexual.com/2015/03/the-genderbread-person-v3/
ASSOCIATIONS
Human Rights Campaign
Wikipedia List of US Based LGBT Organizations
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_LGBT_rights_organizations_in_the_United_States
The Trevor Project (Suicide Prevention)
https://www.thetrevorproject.org/
PFLAG (Supporting those in the LGBTQ Communities and their families)
Check with your state, federal, county, city or regional agency for additional resources and organizations.
From LGBTQIA to she/her/hers, the language, descriptions, and ideological frameworks are ever-evolving. Gender identity is separate from gender expression. And these categories are also separate from sexual orientation. I self-identify as a cisgender woman whose sexual orientation affirms my attraction to men. What does all this mean? And how do you use the word "they" when referencing a single person??
It's Pride Month, June 2024, and we will deep dive into the LGBTQ community using the words that matter most to them (plural!). Use the handy references below to further research topics that have systematically changed over the last 25 years.
Embark on a journey of self-discovery, where you can explore your own gender identity, gender expression, and sexual orientation. This exploration will equip you with the knowledge of your own pronouns, empowering you to confidently express your identity when asked. Remember, your journey is unique and valuable, and it's time to start embracing it.
As a diversity professional, I've had my own transformative journey of understanding and embracing LGBTQIA+ terminology. It's a process that requires a deep dive into upgrading your language and perspective. I urge you to embark on this journey of self-discovery, to truly 'know the self'. This self-awareness will help you understand your own place on the spectrum before engaging in meaningful conversations with others.
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LGBTQ TERMINOLOGY GUIDE BOOKS - FREE
MASS TRANSGENDER POLITICAL COALITION PRONOUNS GUIDE
https://www.masstpc.org/wp-content/uploads/MTPC-Prounouns-Guide.pdf
UN GUIDE/GLOSSARY (Comprehensive LGBTQ Terms)
https://www.iom.int/sites/g/files/tmzbdl486/files/documents/IOM-SOGIESC-Glossary-of-Terms.pdf
ACLU MISSISSIPPI
https://www.aclu-ms.org/sites/default/files/field_documents/e-book_defining_lgbtq.pdf
GENDERBREAD PERSON (Illustrates Identity, Expression, & Attraction)
https://www.itspronouncedmetrosexual.com/2015/03/the-genderbread-person-v3/
ASSOCIATIONS
Human Rights Campaign
Wikipedia List of US Based LGBT Organizations
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_LGBT_rights_organizations_in_the_United_States
The Trevor Project (Suicide Prevention)
https://www.thetrevorproject.org/
PFLAG (Supporting those in the LGBTQ Communities and their families)
Check with your state, federal, county, city or regional agency for additional resources and organizations.
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EPISODE #34 Celebrating Asian American Native Hawaiian Pacific Islander Heritage Month with Mai Du
May is Asian American Native Hawaiian Pacific Islander Heritage Month, and we end this month with the second of two terrific guests from the Asian American community. Today's guest is Mai Du (pronounced My-Dew) who entered the United States as a Vietnamese (and ethnic Chinese) refugee and has become one of the leading social justice advocates in Metro Boston. She owns the Way Lum Kung Fu & Tai Chi Academy, which has two locations in Metro Boston. She is also passionate about the Asian American community and has collaborated with others to receive $1 million in seed funding from Congress (Rep. Katherine Clark), which will kick off a capital campaign to create Malden (Mass) 's first Asian American Community Center.
Mai is an inspiration and an example of why AANHPI is such a special month for many in the Asian American community and beyond
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ABOUT MAI DU
Mai Du, named as one of Get Konnected! Boston's 50 Most Influential Asian-American Pacific Islanders in January 2023, has been a community advocate and activist since the early 1990s. As a youth leader, Mai took part in co-founding the Coalition for Asian Pacific American Youth (CAPAY), which engaged AAPI youth across Massachusetts to give voice and visibility to the Asian Pacific American youth experiences and to work towards positive social change.
Throughout her undergraduate and graduate studies at Tufts University, where she earned a Masters in Education focusing on Racial Ethnic Studies and School and Community Collaborations, Mai continued to commit to community organizing and grassroots advocacy throughout the Greater Boston area. Formerly serving as the Director of Volunteer Resources, Youth Programs, and International Social Services for the American Red Cross of Massachusetts Bay, and a Kumon Math and Reading Instructor and Franchisee, Mai founded Wah Lum Kung Fu & Tai Chi Academy in 2006, now with a strong presence in Malden and Quincy. In March 2024, Wah Lum Malden and Quincy were recognized as one of Boston's Most Influential Community Organizations by Get Connected (www.wahlumacademy.com).
Mai Du is the co-founder and board member of the Greater Malden Asian American Community Coalition (GMAACC) and the United States Dragon and Lion Dance Federation, board member of the South Cove Community Health Center, and the Asian Community Development Corporation (ACDC). In 2020, Mai co-founded the Coalition for Anti-Racism and Equity (CARE). She currently serves as its founding president and continues to champion the statewide effort to advance MA legislation to promote racially inclusive curriculum for K-12 public education. Mai also serves on the GBH Community Advisory Board.
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Here's a recent Boston Globe article about GMAACC and their work in Malden:
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6/24/2024 EPISODE #36 LGBTQ PRIDE MONTH Religion, Resistance, Relationships
From LGBTQIA to she/her/hers, the language, descriptions, and ideological frameworks are ever-evolving. Gender identity is separate from gender expression. And these categories are also separate from sexual orientation. I self-identify as a cisgender woman whose sexual orientation affirms my attraction to men. What does all this mean? And how do you use the word "they" when referencing a single person??
It's Pride Month, June 2024, and we will deep dive into the LGBTQ community to understand how Religion, Resistance, and Relationships have defined the strength and resilience of this group despite the attacks aimed at curtailing and destroying their very existence.
Be sure to listen to Episode #35 where I present the foundational platform for the LGBTQ community.
I urge you to embark on this journey of self-discovery, to truly 'know the self'. This self-awareness will help you understand your own place on the spectrum before engaging in meaningful conversations with others.
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LGBTQ RESOURCES
STONEWALL RIOTS 1969
https://www.history.com/topics/gay-rights/the-stonewall-riots
REV. DR. JENNIFER LEATH
From Black, Quare and There to Where," Part 1
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2BA_JpHkb3Q
HUMAN RIGHTS CAMPAIGN
What Does the Bible Say About Homosexuality?
https://www.hrc.org/resources/what-does-the-bible-say-about-homosexuality
FOUR THINGS YOU DIDN’T KNOW ABOUT GOD AND SAME-SEX MARRIAGE
https://www.americanprogress.org/article/four-things-you-didnt-know-about-god-and-same-sex-marriage/
MASS TRANSGENDER POLITICAL COALITION PRONOUNS GUIDE
https://www.masstpc.org/wp-content/uploads/MTPC-Prounouns-Guide.pdf
UN GUIDE/GLOSSARY (Comprehensive LGBTQ Terms)
https://www.iom.int/sites/g/files/tmzbdl486/files/documents/IOM-SOGIESC-Glossary-of-Terms.pdf
ACLU MISSISSIPPI
https://www.aclu-ms.org/sites/default/files/field_documents/e-book_defining_lgbtq.pdf
GENDERBREAD PERSON (Illustrates Identity, Expression, & Attraction)
https://www.itspronouncedmetrosexual.com/2015/03/the-genderbread-person-v3/
ASSOCIATIONS
Human Rights Campaign
Wikipedia List of US Based LGBT Organizations
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_LGBT_rights_organizations_in_the_United_States
The Trevor Project (Suicide Prevention)
https://www.thetrevorproject.org/
PFLAG (Supporting those in the LGBTQ Communities and their families)
Check with your state, federal, county, city or regional agency for additional resources and organizations.
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