
E111: My Hope Is Still Healing with Frankie Orella
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03/11/20 • 43 min
When she was just 17 years old, Frankie Orella lost her mom to breast cancer. Her religious community was less than helpful and while she remained a part of the church, Frankie also looked to music and songwriting to “speak” to the pain of her loss. Her latest endeavor is a series of songs based on Elisabeth Kubler-Ross’s Five Stages of Grief. Today, we’re talking about becoming comfortable with the mystery of grief, why being in a safe or stable place is often a trigger for grief, and how after loss, hope needs time and space to heal.
Find Frankie’s music here: https://frankieorella.com/
Get grief support for just $3/month! Support Coming Back on Patreon and receive weekly grief journaling prompts, LIVE grief guidance calls with me, and fun podcast swag: https://www.patreon.com/shelbyforsythia
Have your friendships been impacted by grief? Share your story here: http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/friends
Apply for private grief guidance with me: http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/grief-guidance
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Continue the conversation on grief and loss in my private Facebook group, The Grief Growers' Garden: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thegriefgrowersgarden/
To ask a question or leave a comment for a future show, email [email protected].
Because even through grief, we are growing. http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/
When she was just 17 years old, Frankie Orella lost her mom to breast cancer. Her religious community was less than helpful and while she remained a part of the church, Frankie also looked to music and songwriting to “speak” to the pain of her loss. Her latest endeavor is a series of songs based on Elisabeth Kubler-Ross’s Five Stages of Grief. Today, we’re talking about becoming comfortable with the mystery of grief, why being in a safe or stable place is often a trigger for grief, and how after loss, hope needs time and space to heal.
Find Frankie’s music here: https://frankieorella.com/
Get grief support for just $3/month! Support Coming Back on Patreon and receive weekly grief journaling prompts, LIVE grief guidance calls with me, and fun podcast swag: https://www.patreon.com/shelbyforsythia
Have your friendships been impacted by grief? Share your story here: http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/friends
Apply for private grief guidance with me: http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/grief-guidance
Subscribe to Coming Back:
- Apple Podcasts https://apple.co/2CMqhhE
- Spotify http://spoti.fi/2CMr16k
- Stitcher http://bit.ly/2m08eJr
- YouTube http://bit.ly/2m1JWil
- Google Podcasts https://tinyurl.com/y8elxq9t
- TuneIn http://bit.ly/2F469Fl
Continue the conversation on grief and loss in my private Facebook group, The Grief Growers' Garden: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thegriefgrowersgarden/
To ask a question or leave a comment for a future show, email [email protected].
Because even through grief, we are growing. http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/
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Find Kim’s book Victorious Heart here: https://www.wildvictoriousheart.com/
Get grief support for just $3/month! Support Coming Back on Patreon and receive weekly grief journaling prompts, LIVE grief guidance calls with me, and fun podcast swag: https://www.patreon.com/shelbyforsythia
Have your friendships been impacted by grief? Share your story here: http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/friends
Apply for private grief guidance with me: http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/grief-guidance
Subscribe to Coming Back:
- Apple Podcasts https://apple.co/2CMqhhE
- Spotify http://spoti.fi/2CMr16k
- Stitcher http://bit.ly/2m08eJr
- YouTube http://bit.ly/2m1JWil
- Google Podcasts https://tinyurl.com/y8elxq9t
- TuneIn http://bit.ly/2F469Fl
Continue the conversation on grief and loss in my private Facebook group, The Grief Growers' Garden: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thegriefgrowersgarden/
To ask a question or leave a comment for a future show, email [email protected].
Because even through grief, we are growing. http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/
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E112: SEASON 8 FINALE: A Coronavirus Uncertainty Meditation
In the midst of coronavirus, life is anxious, overwhelming, and terribly uncertain. I’m sharing a quick mindfulness meditation you can use in the face of the unknown. Plus, I’m announcing the next session of my 12-week online course, Life After Loss Academy.
Join me May 4, 2020 for a 12-week online course that will help you feel safe in the world again, say goodbye to “the perfect griever,” and love the person loss has forced you to become. Enroll now: https://shelbyforsythia.thinkific.com/courses/life-after-loss-academy-may-2020
In the meantime...
- Get instant, powerful tools for coping with loss with my new 1-Hour Grief Relief Courses: http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/grief-relief-online-courses
- Join me for LIVE Grief Support on Patreon March 30 and April 27: https://www.patreon.com/shelbyforsythia
- Read my latest book Permission to Grieve: http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/permission-to-grieve
Subscribe to Coming Back:
- Apple Podcasts https://apple.co/2CMqhhE
- Spotify http://spoti.fi/2CMr16k
- Stitcher http://bit.ly/2m08eJr
- YouTube http://bit.ly/2m1JWil
- Google Podcasts https://tinyurl.com/y8elxq9t
- TuneIn http://bit.ly/2F469Fl
Continue the conversation on grief and loss in my private Facebook group, The Grief Growers' Garden: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thegriefgrowersgarden/
To ask a question or leave a comment for a future show, email [email protected].
Because even through grief, we are growing. http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/
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