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Coming Back: Conversations on life after loss

Coming Back: Conversations on life after loss

Shelby Forsythia, Intuitive Grief Guide

What does life look like after the funeral? After the divorce is final? After the diagnosis? Whether your loss is a person, a relationship, a job, a pet, or a dream, loss shapes who you are and how you choose to live in the world. Join Shelby Forsythia, Intuitive Grief Guide as she explores the ideas, resources, and stories that help us "come back" to life after death, divorce, illness and more.
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Coming Back: Conversations on life after loss - E93: Motherless Daughters with Hope Edelman

E93: Motherless Daughters with Hope Edelman

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10/02/19 • 67 min

"Soldier on" was Hope Edelman's coping method for the sudden death of her mother until seven years later, a broken engagement brought her mother's death roaring to the surface. Hope started writing her New York Times Bestseller Motherless Daughters as a way to comprehend her loss and connect with other motherless daughters. Today we're talking about how death makes us crave truth and clarity, why it's so important to "add the middle" to our stories, and what other cultures have to teach us about grief and loss. Also this week, I'm reminding you that permission to grieve is a practice and reading an excerpt from my new book Permission to Grieve.

Hope Edelman's book, coaching, and Motherelss Daughter retreats: https://hopeedelman.com/

Purchase a copy of my latest book, Permission to Grieve! http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/permission-to-grieve

Become a part of my insiders community! Support Coming Back on Patreon to unlock weekly grief journaling prompts, LIVE grief guidance calls with me, and fun podcast swag: https://www.patreon.com/shelbyforsythia

Set sail on the 2020 Bereavement Cruise: http://comingbackcruise.com

Apply for private grief guidance with me: http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/grief-guidance

Subscribe to Coming Back:

Continue the conversation on grief and loss in my private Facebook group, The Grief Growers' Garden: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thegriefgrowersgarden/

To ask a question or leave a comment for a future show, email [email protected].

Because even through grief, we are growing. http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/

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Coming Back: Conversations on life after loss - E90: Parenting a Dead Child with Rachel Whalen

E90: Parenting a Dead Child with Rachel Whalen

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09/11/19 • 54 min

Writer and kindergarten teacher Rachel Whalen is a mother to many, but has just one living child. After two miscarriages and the unexpected stillbirth of her daughter, Dorothy, Rachel conceived and delivered her daughter Frances. Today, we're talking about the differences between parenting a dead child vs. a living one, what makes grieving parents want to try to conceive again after miscarriage and stillbirth, and the powerful message Rachel has for grieving parents who are pregnant. Also this week, I'm talking about the concept of life-rejection and sharing a passage from my new book Permission to Grieve.

Rachel Whalen's work: https://unexpectedfamilyouting.com/

Rachel's piece, "Dear Abby, You got it all wrong.": https://www.instagram.com/p/BybbtScn_S9/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Purchase a copy of my latest book, Permission to Grieve! http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/permission-to-grieve

Become a part of my insiders community! Support Coming Back on Patreon to unlock weekly grief journaling prompts, LIVE grief guidance calls with me, and fun podcast swag: https://www.patreon.com/shelbyforsythia

Set sail on the 2020 Bereavement Cruise: http://comingbackcruise.com

Apply for private grief guidance with me: http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/grief-guidance

Subscribe to Coming Back:

Continue the conversation on grief and loss in my private Facebook group, The Grief Growers' Garden: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thegriefgrowersgarden/

To ask a question or leave a comment for a future show, email [email protected].

Because even through grief, we are growing. http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/

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Coming Back: Conversations on life after loss - E113: Grief Day by Day with Jan Warner

E113: Grief Day by Day with Jan Warner

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05/06/20 • 45 min

Ten years ago, Jan Warner lost the “person who held her kite string”—her husband Artie. In the years after his death, Jan wrestled with suicidal thoughts and the urge to wallow. She began writing in an attempt to wear different “perspecticles” about her loss, and in 2018, she published a book called Grief Day by Day that speaks to grievers through a year’s worth of quotes and exercises. Today, we’re talking about the very real feeling of wanting to die after a loved one dies, changing how we measure effort and productivity after loss, and how to reframe “Is this normal?” into another, more important question.

Find Jan’s community and book Grief Day by Day here: www.Facebook.com/GriefSpeaksOut https://www.amazon.com/Grief-Day-Simple-Practices-Guidance/dp/1641521317

Get grief support for just $3/month! Support Coming Back on Patreon and receive weekly grief guidance prompts, LIVE grief support calls with me, and fun podcast swag: https://www.patreon.com/shelbyforsythia

Apply for one-on-one grief guidance with me: http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/grief-guidance

Subscribe to Coming Back:

Continue the conversation on grief and loss in my private Facebook group, The Grief Growers' Garden: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thegriefgrowersgarden/

To ask a question or leave a comment for a future show, email [email protected].

Because even through grief, we are growing. http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/

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Coming Back: Conversations on life after loss - E18: Why I Keep Doing This

E18: Why I Keep Doing This

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09/13/17 • 11 min

I've gotten some "haters" in the past few weeks and felt compelled to ask myself, "Why do I keep doing this?"

Call or write in with your thoughts on the next "Fun One" episode—E20: Grief and The Five Love Languages! How have gifts, physical touch, words of affirmation, acts of service, or quality time shown up in your grief story? Leave a voicemail or text 312.725.3043 or email [email protected], subject line, "Love Languages."

Join me LIVE on Facebook this Thursday 9/14 at 1:00 Central.

Support Coming Back on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/shelbyforsythia

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Continue the conversation on grief and loss in my private Facebook group, The Grief Growers' Garden: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thegriefgrowersgarden/

To ask a question or leave a comment for a future show, leave a voicemail at 312.725.3043 or email [email protected], subject line, "Podcast."

Because even through grief, we are growing. http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/

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Coming Back: Conversations on life after loss - E17: 30 Days of Epic Wallowing with Tracey Lewis Stoeckel

E17: 30 Days of Epic Wallowing with Tracey Lewis Stoeckel

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09/06/17 • 54 min

Tracey Lewis-Stoeckel's life was upended when her husband surprised her with divorce. She and her kids were forced out of their home one week before Christmas and Tracey was shortly faced with leaving a job that she loved to take care of them. We're talking about the habits, mantras, and music that helps us rebuild. Also on the show, I answer a listener question about the illusion of closure. And I call out friends and family who are intellectualizing your grief.

Tracey Lewis Stoeckel's work: http://findingyourbestself.com/

Call or write in with your thoughts on the next "Fun One" episode—E20: Grief and The Five Love Languages! How have gifts, physical touch, words of affirmation, acts of service, or quality time shown up in your grief story? Leave a voicemail or text 312.725.3043 or email [email protected], subject line, "Love Languages."

Check out my interview with Holly Worton on Business Mindset Podcast: http://www.hollyworton.com/214-2/

Read "Stop Telling Me I Dodged A Bullet": http://bit.ly/2CMEOsG

Join me LIVE on Facebook this Thursday 9/7 at 1:00 Central.

Support Coming Back on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/shelbyforsythia

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Continue the conversation on grief and loss in my private Facebook group, The Grief Growers' Garden: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thegriefgrowersgarden/

To ask a question or leave a comment for a future show, leave a voicemail at 312.725.3043 or email [email protected], subject line, "Podcast."

Because even through grief, we are growing. http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/

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Coming Back: Conversations on life after loss - E22: This Moment Is My Destiny with Catherine Rains ("The Hotel Artist")
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10/12/17 • 54 min

"The Hotel Artist" Catherine Rains faced a triple-whammy of devastation—breast cancer, a divorce, and being pulled away from her beloved art. We're talking about the mindsets she used to come back from her losses and the inspiration she draws from life's happenings to create beautiful Instagram-famous collage art! Also on the show, I talk about the popular question of dealing with aging parents. And I address the invisible pressure of learning something from your grief.

What Aging Parents Really Want From Their Kids: http://theatln.tc/2rdzc2G

Catherine Rains's work: http://www.catherinerains.com/

Something incredible is about to happen: http://bit.ly/2F5sqSV

Join me LIVE on Facebook this Thursday 10/12 at 1:00 Central.

Support Coming Back on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/shelbyforsythia

Subscribe:

Continue the conversation on grief and loss in my private Facebook group, The Grief Growers' Garden: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thegriefgrowersgarden/

To ask a question or leave a comment for a future show, leave a voicemail at 312.725.3043 or email [email protected], subject line, "Podcast."

Because even through grief, we are growing. http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/

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Coming Back: Conversations on life after loss - E80: Living WITH Fear Not IN Fear with Susan Angel Miller

E80: Living WITH Fear Not IN Fear with Susan Angel Miller

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05/22/19 • 71 min

Susan Angel Miller's daughter died suddenly after being diagnosed with a rare form of childhood brain cancer. Not four years later, Susan was diagnosed with a brain tumor and underwent surgery—and the parallels to her daughter's experience are incredible. Susan's book Permission to Thrive recounts the experience of her oldest daughter's death, Susan's experience of having a brain tumor, and the concept of post-traumatic growth, which she is actively harnessing in her process of "coming back." Today, we're talking about how grief is AWKWARD, why Susan never stopped speaking her daughter's name, and how the miracle of organ donation introduced them to a woman named Trish. Also this week, the weird phenomenon of "temporarily unable to see rainbows" that grievers often face.

Susan Angel Miller's work and book: https://susanangelmiller.com/

More on "temporarily unable to see rainbows" from What's Your Grief: https://whatsyourgrief.com/grief-makes-you-crazy2/

Become a part of my insiders community! Support Coming Back on Patreon to unlock weekly grief journaling prompts, podcast swag, and LIVE grief hangouts from me: https://www.patreon.com/shelbyforsythia

Set sail on the 2020 Bereavement Cruise: http://comingbackcruise.com

Apply for private grief coaching with me: http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/grief-coaching/

Subscribe to Coming Back:

Continue the conversation on grief and loss in my private Facebook group, The Grief Growers' Garden: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thegriefgrowersgarden/

To ask a question or leave a comment for a future show, leave a voicemail or text 312.725.3043 or email [email protected].

Because even through grief, we are growing. http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/

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Coming Back: Conversations on life after loss - E112: SEASON 8 FINALE: A Coronavirus Uncertainty Meditation

E112: SEASON 8 FINALE: A Coronavirus Uncertainty Meditation

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03/18/20 • 21 min

In the midst of coronavirus, life is anxious, overwhelming, and terribly uncertain. I’m sharing a quick mindfulness meditation you can use in the face of the unknown. Plus, I’m announcing the next session of my 12-week online course, Life After Loss Academy.

Join me May 4, 2020 for a 12-week online course that will help you feel safe in the world again, say goodbye to “the perfect griever,” and love the person loss has forced you to become. Enroll now: https://shelbyforsythia.thinkific.com/courses/life-after-loss-academy-may-2020

In the meantime...

  1. Get instant, powerful tools for coping with loss with my new 1-Hour Grief Relief Courses: http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/grief-relief-online-courses
  2. Join me for LIVE Grief Support on Patreon March 30 and April 27: https://www.patreon.com/shelbyforsythia
  3. Read my latest book Permission to Grieve: http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/permission-to-grieve

Subscribe to Coming Back:

Continue the conversation on grief and loss in my private Facebook group, The Grief Growers' Garden: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thegriefgrowersgarden/

To ask a question or leave a comment for a future show, email [email protected].

Because even through grief, we are growing. http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/

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Coming Back: Conversations on life after loss - E111: My Hope Is Still Healing with Frankie Orella

E111: My Hope Is Still Healing with Frankie Orella

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03/11/20 • 43 min

When she was just 17 years old, Frankie Orella lost her mom to breast cancer. Her religious community was less than helpful and while she remained a part of the church, Frankie also looked to music and songwriting to “speak” to the pain of her loss. Her latest endeavor is a series of songs based on Elisabeth Kubler-Ross’s Five Stages of Grief. Today, we’re talking about becoming comfortable with the mystery of grief, why being in a safe or stable place is often a trigger for grief, and how after loss, hope needs time and space to heal.

Find Frankie’s music here: https://frankieorella.com/

Get grief support for just $3/month! Support Coming Back on Patreon and receive weekly grief journaling prompts, LIVE grief guidance calls with me, and fun podcast swag: https://www.patreon.com/shelbyforsythia

Have your friendships been impacted by grief? Share your story here: http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/friends

Apply for private grief guidance with me: http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/grief-guidance

Subscribe to Coming Back:

Continue the conversation on grief and loss in my private Facebook group, The Grief Growers' Garden: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thegriefgrowersgarden/

To ask a question or leave a comment for a future show, email [email protected].

Because even through grief, we are growing. http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/

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Coming Back: Conversations on life after loss - E128: Grief in the Language of the Heart with Cristina Chipriano

E128: Grief in the Language of the Heart with Cristina Chipriano

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09/24/20 • 55 min

Cristina Chipriano grew up knowing grief, losing her 5-year-old cousin, her aunt, and her godmother all before second grade. After becoming a social worker, she helped create grief support programs in Spanish at Bo’s Place in Houston, where much of the community is Latino. Today, Cristina and I are talking about how death can take families farther apart AND closer together, how the cultural value family pride prompts Latino grievers to get grief support, and why it’s so important for grievers to be able to express their grief in their first language, what Cristina calls the language of the heart.

Find out more about Spanish programming at Bo’s Place (in Spanish): https://www.bosplace.org/es/

Find out more about Spanish programming at Bo’s Place (in English): https://www.bosplace.org/en/

Pre-order my new book, Your Grief, Your Way here: https://www.shelbyforsythia.com/your-grief-your-way

Find 90-minute Zoom workshops here: https://www.shelbyforsythia.com/events

Register to vote or check your voter registration: https://www.vote.org/

Get grief support for just $3/month! Support Coming Back on Patreon and receive weekly grief guidance prompts, LIVE grief support calls with me, and fun podcast swag: https://www.patreon.com/shelbyforsythia

Apply for one-on-one grief guidance with me: http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/grief-guidance

Subscribe to Coming Back:

Continue the conversation on grief and loss in my private Facebook group, The Grief Growers' Garden: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thegriefgrowersgarden/

To ask a question or leave a comment for a future show, email [email protected].

Because even through grief, we are growing. http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/

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Coming Back: Conversations on life after loss currently has 168 episodes available.

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The podcast is about Health & Fitness, Spirituality, Resilience, Selfhelp, Grief, Divorce, Love, Mental Health, Podcasts, Inspiration, Loss, Relationships, Advice, Death and Life.

What is the most popular episode on Coming Back: Conversations on life after loss?

The episode title 'E93: Motherless Daughters with Hope Edelman' is the most popular.

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The average episode length on Coming Back: Conversations on life after loss is 43 minutes.

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Episodes of Coming Back: Conversations on life after loss are typically released every 7 days.

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The first episode of Coming Back: Conversations on life after loss was released on May 15, 2017.

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