124 {Jamie Pultz} Exposing the truth of a domestic violence murder
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07/28/24 • 54 min
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Trigger warning: Domestic Violence
Imagine joining the police force to save lives and make a difference, only to get so bogged down in bureaucracy and rules that you are unable to do anything when called out to a suspected domestic violence incident.
Now imagine that the woman who called you out is found dead 6 months later.
That’s the experience of Jamie Pultz, who left the police force not long afterwards and went on to launch the podcast Beenham Valley Road to investigate the death of Kirra McLoughlin.
In this episode Jamie shares:
- How he got into the police
- The hardest parts about being in the police
- The time he was called out to Kirra’s home
- How it felt after he was unable to do anything
- How he got into starting the podcast
- Why it’s so hard to prove psychological and other damage in suspected domestic abuse situations
- One of the positives that is helping with domestic violence
- The challenges he had in doing the podcast
- The challenge of pushing for a coronial inquest
- How his life has changed with podcasting
- What we should be doing to combat domestic violence
- The anxious thoughts he had about the whole podcast
- How he managed his self doubt
Key Quotes
“My mentor shouldn’t have been a mentor.”
“Legally we did the right thing, but morally you feel like, if we could turn back the clock what could we have done?”
“I've seen the system work and I've seen the system fail and in my short time in the police there was a lot of arse covering going on.”
More about Jamie
You can follow Jamie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pultzy/
You can find all his creative projects here: https://www.six10mediagroup.com/
And you can listen to the podcast about Kirra here: https://www.six10mediagroup.com/beenhamvalleyroad
You can get involved with the podcast online
On facebook in our community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/challengesthatchangeus
Or on Instagram: @challengesthatchangeus
If you want to contact the podcast, email us here: [email protected]
Or check out our website: www.Challengesthatchangeus.com
If you want to find out more about what Ali does, check out her business via the website:http://www.trialtitudeperformance.com.au
For her other business you can find it through the websites:www.altitudefitnessarmidale.com.au
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Do you love High performance then check out our 3 day summit in October this year, only 30 places: https://events.highperformanceleadershipsummit.com.au/october-summit-2024
Trigger warning: Domestic Violence
Imagine joining the police force to save lives and make a difference, only to get so bogged down in bureaucracy and rules that you are unable to do anything when called out to a suspected domestic violence incident.
Now imagine that the woman who called you out is found dead 6 months later.
That’s the experience of Jamie Pultz, who left the police force not long afterwards and went on to launch the podcast Beenham Valley Road to investigate the death of Kirra McLoughlin.
In this episode Jamie shares:
- How he got into the police
- The hardest parts about being in the police
- The time he was called out to Kirra’s home
- How it felt after he was unable to do anything
- How he got into starting the podcast
- Why it’s so hard to prove psychological and other damage in suspected domestic abuse situations
- One of the positives that is helping with domestic violence
- The challenges he had in doing the podcast
- The challenge of pushing for a coronial inquest
- How his life has changed with podcasting
- What we should be doing to combat domestic violence
- The anxious thoughts he had about the whole podcast
- How he managed his self doubt
Key Quotes
“My mentor shouldn’t have been a mentor.”
“Legally we did the right thing, but morally you feel like, if we could turn back the clock what could we have done?”
“I've seen the system work and I've seen the system fail and in my short time in the police there was a lot of arse covering going on.”
More about Jamie
You can follow Jamie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pultzy/
You can find all his creative projects here: https://www.six10mediagroup.com/
And you can listen to the podcast about Kirra here: https://www.six10mediagroup.com/beenhamvalleyroad
You can get involved with the podcast online
On facebook in our community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/challengesthatchangeus
Or on Instagram: @challengesthatchangeus
If you want to contact the podcast, email us here: [email protected]
Or check out our website: www.Challengesthatchangeus.com
If you want to find out more about what Ali does, check out her business via the website:http://www.trialtitudeperformance.com.au
For her other business you can find it through the websites:www.altitudefitnessarmidale.com.au
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Trigger warning: miscarriage
Grief is a nuanced and varied thing can hits everyone differently and often in unexpected ways. One person who knows about this is Katie Rössler. In late 2018, her life came to a halt. Her mother died unexpectedly, and the following year, she experienced two miscarriages while trying for a third child. This led to burnout, and relationship struggles as she work through parts of her life not turning out the way she’d hoped. Now, after 15 years as a licensed therapist working with individuals, couples, and families, she felt a deeper calling to help high achievers become more confident in creating their dream relationships.
In this episode Katie shares:
- The moment she found out about her mother’s death when she lived overseas
- The pregnancy losses she experienced in the year after her mums death
- Her realisation about grief after her experiences
- The different kinds of grief
- How journaling helped her through her grief
- What can happen when you hold grief in
- Tools for grounding yourself from your grief when you are not in a safe space
- How different people will and wont be able to help us with our grief
- What she suggests to do to get back to friends and people after you have retreated into your grief
- How she suggests you can get people to accept their grief and take support
- Her advice for how people can take the first steps to embracing and working with their grief
Key Quotes
“There's just this mental game that starts to get played of, I must be being punished, there must be something I've done.”
“Really the definition of grief is letting go of the way we thought life would or should go.”
More about Katie
The link to her relationship assessment is here: www.katierossler.com/relationship-assessment
Her book, The New Face of Grief: www.thenewfaceofgrief.com
Website: https://katierossler.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/katie.rossler/?hl=en
You can get involved with the podcast online
On facebook in our community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/challengesthatchangeus
Or on Instagram: @challengesthatchangeus
If you want to contact the podcast, email us here: [email protected]
Or check out our website: www.Challengesthatchangeus.com
If you want to find out more about what Ali does, check out her business via the website:http://www.trialtitudeperformance.com.au
For her other business you can find it through the websites:www.altitudefitnessarmidale.com.au
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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