
Ep#131 Childhood Conditioning
07/04/24 • 22 min
Childhood gave us rules for survival that worked well then, but can be counter-productive in adulthood. At work, our unresolved childhood fears pop up at random and trigger the amygdala, freezing our adult brain. We cannot (in the moment) solve a fear that happened decades ago.
However, coaching is particularly successful in unburdening us of the childhood fears of rejection, abandonment and disapproval. Then we can solve work problems using our adult brain.
When we do this, anxiety, stress, frustration, resentment and overwhelm reduce.
We can return smoothly to the helm of our professional life.
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Childhood gave us rules for survival that worked well then, but can be counter-productive in adulthood. At work, our unresolved childhood fears pop up at random and trigger the amygdala, freezing our adult brain. We cannot (in the moment) solve a fear that happened decades ago.
However, coaching is particularly successful in unburdening us of the childhood fears of rejection, abandonment and disapproval. Then we can solve work problems using our adult brain.
When we do this, anxiety, stress, frustration, resentment and overwhelm reduce.
We can return smoothly to the helm of our professional life.
----------------------------------- Burnout Resources:
Get 1-on-1 burnout recovery coaching at https:/mini.dexrandall.com
Burnout Recovery eCourse: https://go.dexrandall.com/beatburnout
For even more TIPS see
FACEBOOK: @coachdexrandall
INSTAGRAM: @coachdexrandall
LINKEDIN: @coachdexrandall
TWITTER: @coachdexrandall
or join the FACEBOOK group for burnout coaches only
https://www.facebook.com/groups/1030925731159138
See https://linktr.ee/coachdexrandall for all links
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Ep#130 The Myths of Burnout
If you don't know what burnout truly is, how can you tell if you're in it? Or what to do about it?
Let's explode a few myths you may have heard about burnout, so you can get a clear understanding and find a solution if you need one.
Seeking help early, and practising compassion for your battered self, will save you repeating painful patterns and help you take proactive steps to passion and fulfilment at work.
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Ep#1 Burnout 101: What exactly is burnout?
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Ep#132 Extreme Ownership
Let's explore how extreme ownership can help you bounce back from burnout and boost your leadership skills. It's so powerful to own your actions, performance and mistakes, instead of overcommitting or trying to please everyone, or passing the buck.
Understanding the pressures others face can really help with better communication and teamwork, creating a more supportive work environment. Hear insights from "Extreme Ownership" by Jocko Willink and Leif Babin, and "Essentialism" by Greg McKeown, who share tips on effective leadership and self-improvement. Where possible, I encourage you to take back control for both your personal and professional growth.
Also listen to Ep#36 Championing Yourself https://www.burnouttoleadership.com/1849743/10780250-ep-36-championing-yourself
----------------------------------- Burnout Resources:
Get 1-on-1 burnout recovery coaching at https:/mini.dexrandall.com
Burnout Recovery eCourse: https://go.dexrandall.com/beatburnout
For even more TIPS see
FACEBOOK: @coachdexrandall
INSTAGRAM: @coachdexrandall
LINKEDIN: @coachdexrandall
TWITTER: @coachdexrandall
or join the FACEBOOK group for burnout coaches only
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Burnout Recovery - Ep#131 Childhood Conditioning
Transcript
[00:00:00] Hi everyone, my name's Dex Randall, and this is the Burnout to Leadership podcast, where I teach professional men to recover from burnout and get back to passion and reward at work.
[00:00:22] Hello, my friends, this is Dex, and welcome to this week's episode on childhood conditioning. Sounds unpleasant? Don't want to think about it? Well, I think in burnout recovery, you might change your mind. And here's why. You've basically got childhood patterns of thinking and behavior that
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