
Building Together
04/26/23 • 3 min
[00:00:00] Dr. Stacey Gonzales: Welcome to today's Build in Public podcast. I am Stacy Gonzalez, the hostess of this amazing podcast, and I'm doing something a little differently today because I'm trying to also cook dinner at the end of a very long day. And what I'm finding for myself is that when I create content like this podcast, I do a little Facebook Live.
When I go for a walk with the dog in the morning, it feels great to be doing an activity that brings me grounding, that brings me joy. And so cooking dinner, or me and my husband didn't always bring me joy. Actually. It felt icky. I didn't like to cook dinner. I did not like to prepare meals. I felt like a task and a chore and really exhausting hard work, especially after a long day.
And so part of my decision to leave education and become an entrepreneur was so that I could have multi aspects to my life and all of those aspects. Could work together in a harmonious way. And I feel like the work I'm doing now and the way I'm approaching the work is feeling like it's in better harmony as I build out my ideal day, my ideal morning.
And so that's really to me what my growth path and my journey and. , this sole growth journey that I've been on, knowing that growth doesn't come in learning modules like we think in education, but they come when individuals make a commitment to each other, but more importantly to themselves. And I couldn't be more proud of who I am becoming.
On my entrepreneur journey and finding ways to balance my life better that works for me, such as recording a podcast while cooking, starting to to make dinner. And so with that, today's podcast is gonna be short. In order to build in public the life that is of your dreams than that you love, um, you have to do it differently.
And so I think my. building public journey is about me doing things differently and I'm appreciating the space to do that, to try things, to build my confidence and competence in public ways that feel open and safe, like this building public podcast. So if, if, if you are new, if you are just joining, welcome
My name is Stacy Gonzalez and. I just appreciate you being on this journey with me as I am becoming this calm, confident creator who is doing some pretty amazing things and, and at the end of the day, am really thankful for a space to, to share those things and keep a record. Um, because at the end of the day, that is what we have, right?
Um, so thank you for joining me on this journey and, um, I hope, I hope you will tune in as we continue to build together.
[00:00:00] Dr. Stacey Gonzales: Welcome to today's Build in Public podcast. I am Stacy Gonzalez, the hostess of this amazing podcast, and I'm doing something a little differently today because I'm trying to also cook dinner at the end of a very long day. And what I'm finding for myself is that when I create content like this podcast, I do a little Facebook Live.
When I go for a walk with the dog in the morning, it feels great to be doing an activity that brings me grounding, that brings me joy. And so cooking dinner, or me and my husband didn't always bring me joy. Actually. It felt icky. I didn't like to cook dinner. I did not like to prepare meals. I felt like a task and a chore and really exhausting hard work, especially after a long day.
And so part of my decision to leave education and become an entrepreneur was so that I could have multi aspects to my life and all of those aspects. Could work together in a harmonious way. And I feel like the work I'm doing now and the way I'm approaching the work is feeling like it's in better harmony as I build out my ideal day, my ideal morning.
And so that's really to me what my growth path and my journey and. , this sole growth journey that I've been on, knowing that growth doesn't come in learning modules like we think in education, but they come when individuals make a commitment to each other, but more importantly to themselves. And I couldn't be more proud of who I am becoming.
On my entrepreneur journey and finding ways to balance my life better that works for me, such as recording a podcast while cooking, starting to to make dinner. And so with that, today's podcast is gonna be short. In order to build in public the life that is of your dreams than that you love, um, you have to do it differently.
And so I think my. building public journey is about me doing things differently and I'm appreciating the space to do that, to try things, to build my confidence and competence in public ways that feel open and safe, like this building public podcast. So if, if, if you are new, if you are just joining, welcome
My name is Stacy Gonzalez and. I just appreciate you being on this journey with me as I am becoming this calm, confident creator who is doing some pretty amazing things and, and at the end of the day, am really thankful for a space to, to share those things and keep a record. Um, because at the end of the day, that is what we have, right?
Um, so thank you for joining me on this journey and, um, I hope, I hope you will tune in as we continue to build together.
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Learning today is a gift
[00:00:00] Dr. Stacey Gonzales: Welcome to today's Build and Public podcast. If you are joining for the first time, I just wanna welcome you. I'm Stacy Gonzalez and I'm building two companies, one for women and another for educators. . And really at the end of the day, they're both focused on the same thing, which is learning and growing.
And that's the reason why I do this daily Build and public podcast is because every day we have an opportunity to learn something new. And every day we have an opportunity to take what we learn and integrate it into our lives in tangible ways, in practical ways. And so that's really what this podcast.
Is becoming, it is my learning journey, my documentation of being a founder and what it feels like to choose yourself, to choose business that serves you. First versus you trying to fit your life into your business. And so I'm really figuring out how to have my business fit my life, and it's been a really amazing and beautiful thing.
And so today, uh, I had the opportunity to, uh, have a meeting and I turned off. My email off my phone and I really stayed offline, um, over the weekend. And what happened is some of my team members actually sent some emails for today's meeting and I didn't look at my email. I, I wanted to do some meditation and I wanted to take my time this morning.
To be fully present in the moment, in the best way I know how, and so for me, that requires time and energy. I did a meditation. I went for a walk. I cleaned my house. I did some breath work. I took a cold shower, and so I put all my practices in place and I just gave myself space to prepare for this important business meeting that I had today.
And even despite all that preparation and even despite having the agenda ready and having multiple emails going, I was nervous and I was scared and I didn't know if I would successfully be able to navigate the meeting cuz it's new. And my team members and I were learning together. We're learning each other, we're learning about each other, we're learning to trust each other and all that to say it was an amazing meaning.
And it's so rewarding and and such a privilege to be able to see myself take these steps of courage and nobody knows. I feel it on the inside. Nobody knows what it's really like. I know what it's like. Take these steps of courage and trusting myself that I can. Be this person that I believe I am this business owner who is building amazing solutions that help people's lives change.
Providing space for people to be for love and following our hearts to grow and flourish. Cause that's, that's really what I'm doing. It's no different from when I was a teacher. Frankly, bringing people together around a shared vision. It's Cotter's work, right? If you know of John Cotter's work, the Eight Steps to Transformative Change as you get people invested in the Y and you build a guiding coalition.
Those are steps one and two, and we've got a strong why and we're building a guiding coalition, and people continually step up, come to the table. And make themselves available to support the vision, and it's so incredible and so humbling at the same time. So if you are on any sort of trust journey to yourself, if you are looking to breakthrough, tap into that little place.
Of courage within you overcome that little space of fear. If I can do it , if I can do it after 20 years in a completely different industry, not having any clue what I'm doing, you can do it too. Certainly. Certainly. I'm Stacy Gonzalez. Thank you for joining me on my building public learning journey.
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Build Along the Way
[00:00:00] Dr. Stacey Gonzales: Welcome to today's Build and Public podcast. You're joining me for the first time. I'd like to welcome you. This podcast is a place where we experiment, where we try new things, where we see who we are in between the spaces and so. , I invite you to enter into this space on this podcast tonight. It's called Build in Public because I'm literally feeling like I'm building my myself publicly through sharing and recording.
Daily, and it's interesting because when I talked to my podcast producer about this show and what it meant to build publicly, he mentioned that it takes a lot of courage and. I didn't really feel that way when I said yes, I want to build a daily podcast. I just knew that I had something inside of me that I needed to share or wanted to share in a way that would be authentic and relatable.
I didn't know it would challenge me to grow in such profound ways, because showing up for yourself consistently every day, trying to have something new or have a reflection. that is insightful, that other people might wanna listen to instead of asking myself the question as I sit here in my, in my room alone, recording a podcast to myself of what do I need to remember today?
And so I invite you. to ask yourself that question because what I am learning for myself is that what I need is a space and a place where I can be completely safe in my bedroom by myself recording this podcast.
And I can have a place and a space where my voice is heard and will be potentially heard again by someone else,
and learning to use my voice has been a really huge learning growth for me. . Hmm. Learning to use my voice, learning to trust my voice,
learning to embrace my voice, all of it from that part of my heart and soul that is the most genuine
inviting you to yours. that space and place inside of you, where you are just you. And so I realize tonight's podcast was a bit of a departure.
I brought a different perspective, a different focus to try something in a way that might work for me better. I don't know. But this podcast, this space, this moment is about creating and learning to create. That is what I am building. Whether I'm talking about building a business or I'm talking about building myself, I'm building, and so
I'm letting go and I'm inviting you to bring your journey, your growth next to mine, and together, together we'll learn. A thing or two along the way. I'm Stacy Gonzalez. This is my Build in Public podcast. Thank you.
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