3 Secret Tools to Discover Your Turn Ons

04/03/25 • 19 min

In this episode, Brandon the Dom delves into the importance of understanding one's own desires and turn-ons. He introduces three tools to explore the erotic mind: an erotic journal, erotic quizzes, and a sexual disclosure with a trusted partner. Brandon covers the significance of Jack Morin's concept of the core erotic theme and explains how to use these tools to gain a deeper understanding of your turn-ons, which in turn allows better communication with your partner.

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(00:00) - Introduction: Discovering Your Desires
(00:22) - The Importance of Understanding Your Turn-Ons
(01:04) - Exploring the Erotic Mind
(02:54) - Tool 1: Keeping an Erotic Journal
(09:12) - Tool 2: Taking Erotic Quizzes
(14:39) - Tool 3: Sexual Disclosure
(18:49) - Conclusion and Next Steps

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(00:00) - Introduction: Discovering Your Desires
(00:22) - The Importance of Understanding Your Turn-Ons
(01:04) - Exploring the Erotic Mind
(02:54) - Tool 1: Keeping an Erotic Journal
(09:12) - Tool 2: Taking Erotic Quizzes
(14:39) - Tool 3: Sexual Disclosure
(18:49) - Conclusion and Next Steps

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Previous Episode

Quick Guide to Becoming a Sexually Dominant Man

In this episode, Brandon the Dom provides a comprehensive roadmap to developing sexual dominance in the bedroom. He explains why your partner may desire dominance and outlines specific acts you can perform, from low to extreme dominance, ensuring healthy communication and consent. Brandon covers how to start with basic acts like kissing and dirty talk, progressing to more skill-intensive acts, and the importance of sequencing, maintaining tension, and building confidence. Learn how to make your partner feel desired, safe, and loved while mastering the art of dominance.

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(00:00) - Introduction to Sexual Dominance
(00:23) - Understanding Her Desires
(03:12) - Developing Your Sexual Dominance
(04:32) - Universal Acts of Dominance
(06:44) - Low Dominance Techniques
(09:05) - Medium Dominance Techniques
(10:59) - High Dominance Techniques
(12:16) - Extreme Dominance Techniques
(13:30) - Principles of Effective Dominance
(14:18) - Building Confidence and Competence
(17:01) - Sequencing
(20:12) - Tension Management
(23:03) - Conclusion and Further Guidance

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5 Tools to Communicate Your Fantasies and Turn Ons with Your Partner

In this video, Brandon the Dom addresses the common fears of sharing intimate fantasies and desires with a partner, fearing judgment or rejection. He offers five practical tools to effectively communicate these turn-ons in a non-judgmental and open environment. These tools include desire statements, pillow talk, sexual bucket lists, sex menus, and sexual disclosure, each designed to foster trust, understanding, and vulnerability in the relationship. Brandon also emphasizes the importance of practicing these methods to build a strong, accepting container where both partners can openly share and explore their desires.

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