Episode 29: Divorce: The TRUTH They Don't Tell You Pt. 2

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04/15/25 • 30 min

Brandon reflects on the lessons he's learned from his divorces, exploring how good communication and understanding are essential for lasting relationships.
• Communication is absolutely critical - especially about your feelings and mental state
• Nobody is perfect, so allowing grace for mistakes is essential for both partners
• Discussing finances openly before marriage can prevent major conflicts later
• People change over time, and relationships need constant nurturing to stay strong
• It's never too late to start over - people fall in love with you, not your statistics
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Episode 27: Air Force vs. Army: My Experience and Comparison

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Brandon Held shares his unique perspective on the differences between the Air Force and Army based on his personal experience serving in both branches. Drawing from his time as an Air Force security policeman at 17 and later joining the Army at 29, he offers candid insights into the contrasting cultures, benefits, and challenges each branch presents.

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• Air Force boot camp (6 weeks) focuses on mental discipline and meticulous attention to detail
• Army boot camp (10 weeks) emphasizes physical endurance with extensive running and field exercises
• Air Force offers better quality of life with superior housing, food, and base amenities
• Army has more base locations but typically less comfortable facilities
• Air Force features more technical careers that transfer well to civilian life
• Army provides 100% tuition assistance compared to Air Force's 75% coverage
• Entry into the Air Force is more competitive with higher ASVAB score requirements
• Air Force culture is more relaxed regarding military customs and courtesies
• Army environment tends to be more traditionally military with stricter hierarchical interactions
• Personal bonds and friendships may vary based on individual experiences rather than branch

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Episode 30: Is Finding Love Abroad Worth the Price?

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Brandon Held shares his personal journey of finding love internationally and marrying a woman from Brazil, discussing the realities that dating shows like 90 Day Fiancé don't fully capture. He explores the challenges and rewards of cross-cultural relationships with honesty and vulnerability based on his own experience.
• Dating internationally completely reverses American dating dynamics - men receive abundant messages instead of competing for attention
• Video calls are essential to weed out scammers who use attractive photos and eventually ask for money
• Language barriers create misunderstandings even when both people speak the same language due to cultural connotations
• Cultural differences regarding family relationships, financial support, and lifestyle expectations require significant adaptation
• Immigration processes are brutal. Fairly expensive, time-consuming, and stressful with little transparency about timelines
• Finding your perfect match internationally can be worth every obstacle if you're prepared for the challenges

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