Your Soulmate Won't Pressure You Into Sex

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03/15/24 • 37 min

EP83: At the start of this year, my goal was to slow down and focus on self-care. But, in Koko fashion, I found chasing perfection and loading up on tasks left and right. Life, however, had different plans, and things quickly spiraled into complete chaos... Do you ever feel like you're running on a never-ending hamster wheel?

In today's SOLO, we are celebrating Women's Month and Endometriosis Awareness Month, by diving into the topics of intimacy, red flags in sex, and of course, ways to spice up your sex life.

We're diving into your most pressing questions because, ladies, you deserve love and respect in every aspect of your life – including romantic relationships and friendships. Stay tuned for more updates and juicy AF discussions. XOXO

P.S. Remember that epic Ibiza and Mallorca trip last year? Well, get ready because we're going even bigger! Prepare for a Boujee Besties Miami escape from May 22nd to May 26th. Spots will be limited for a more intimate experience, so keep your eyes peeled for the official announcement!

Episode Highlights:

Boujee Besties trip
Love is Blind
Celebrating Women
Endometriosis Month
Sexual pressures
Finding your soulmate (who respects you)
Red flags in sex
How to spice up your sex life
Taking control of your own life
Female friendships

Timestamps:

0:00- 3:30 | Introduction

3:30- 12:00 | Boujee Besties Trip and Celebrating Women

12:00- 16:20 | Endometriosis and women’s health

16:20- 24:30 | Feeling pressured to do things you may not want to do

24:30- 28:30 | Taking control of your life

28:30- 32:20 | Finding your soulmate

32:20- 34:20 | How to spice up your sex life

34-20- 37:04 | Female friendships

Happy V: Doctor Formulated Vaginal Probiotics for Women

Your 'Type' is Holding You Back from Finding True Love- On Happiness, Soulmates, and Surrender ft. Kute Blackson

CONNECT WITH KOKO

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⁠⁠https://m.youtube.com/@KokoBeaute

In today's SOLO, we are celebrating Women's Month and Endometriosis Awareness Month, by diving into the topics of intimacy, red flags in sex, and of course, ways to spice up your sex life.

Episode Highlights:

Boujee Besties trip
Love is Blind
Celebrating Women
Endometriosis Month
Sexual pressures
Finding your soulmate (who respects you)
Red flags in sex
How to spice up your sex life
Taking control of your own life
Female friendships

Timestamps:

0:00- 3:30 | Introduction

3:30- 12:00 | Boujee Besties Trip and Celebrating Women

12:00- 16:20 | Endometriosis and women’s health

16:20- 24:30 | Feeling pressured to do things you may not want to do

24:30- 28:30 | Taking control of your life

28:30- 32:20 | Finding your soulmate

32:20- 34:20 | How to spice up your sex life

34-20- 37:04 | Female friendships

Happy V: Doctor Formulated Vaginal Probiotics for Women

Your 'Type' is Holding You Back from Finding True Love- On Happiness, Soulmates, and Surrender ft. Kute Blackson

CONNECT WITH KOKO

⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kokobeaute/⁠⁠

⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@kokobeaute⁠⁠

⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/boujeebestfriend⁠⁠

⁠⁠https://boujeebestie.com⁠⁠

⁠⁠https://m.youtube.com/@KokoBeaute

Previous Episode

Break Up With Bad Friends: 22 Girl Code Rules

EP82: This week, we're diving deep into the world of female friendships, but we're taking it a step further than just "Girl Code." We're exploring the importance of respecting yourself and your relationships. I personally believe in holding myself and those around me to a very high standard. I would rather have very close friendships or none at all. I mean, what's the point of giving so much of yourself to others if you're not getting anything in return? Ladies, it is time we stop wasting our energy on less than relationships. This episode is all about respecting yourself, setting high standards, and building connections that enrich your life. So, grab your pen and paper as I share 22 girl code rules to live by. Oh, and if you only leave this episode with one piece of advice... PLEASE don’t be the friend that “ex-hops.” It’s not cute. XOXO let’s go :) Episode highlights: NEVER sleep with your best friend’s ex Going out rules in girlhood Never leave a girl behind at the bar Successful people don’t go out past 3 am Be a better plus one at events Tell your girlfriends if they have a wardrobe malfunction How to post photos of your friends CARE if your friend lives or dies Hype up your friends at all times Timestamps: 0:00- 2:20 | Intro 2:20- 4:00 | #1 rule of girlhood 4:00- 12:45 | Going out rules in girlhood 12:45- 16:30 | How to appropriately interact with others 16:30- 20:50 | Hyping up your friends and putting them first 20:50- 22:05 | Sneak peek into my exciting new business ⁠Alo Moves: ⁠Use code KOKO30 for 30 Day Free Trial and 20% Annual Membership CONNECT WITH KOKO ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kokobeaute/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@kokobeaute⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/boujeebestfriend⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://boujeebestie.com⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://m.youtube.com/@KokoBeaute Girl Code Pt. 1 Girl Code Pt. 2

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Blunt Commentary: Love Is Blind S6 ft. Lisa Gilmore

EP84: Like most BFFs right now, my friend Lisa and are getting down and dirty discussing the most recent season of Love is Blind. We're sipping wine to get the convo flowing, and we're ready to unpack all the unhinged behavior from this season. Let me give you a sneak peek of our unfiltered opinions: Trevor is just seeking fame and attention, Chelsea is not exactly a Megan Fox lookalike (no offense), Johnny seems to be clueless about protection (but we hope he figures it out for Amy's sake), Sarah Ann and Jeremy are the worst, and someone needs to check on Matthew (although AD might be doing that post-show). As for Clay, he's either a weak man or a work in progress (but he needs to step it up). We have a lot more to say and trust me, you don't want to miss it. Our final question is for all of you: Is love blind? Grab a drink, sit back, and join us as we laugh, vent, and spill all the tea on Love is Blind. It's a wild ride, and we're here for it. Episode highlights... Would you do reality TV just to get famous? Jimmy’s disappointment with Chelsea Breaking down Jimmy’s lack of contraceptive knowledge Why we are huge fans of Jessica Sarah Ann’s and her problematic behavior Brittany and Kenneth are boring Unpacking Matthew AD dating Matthew after the show Weak men and men in progress (We are talking about you, Clay) Is love really blind? Timestamps 0:00- 2:00 | Intro 2:00- 10:10 | Going on Reality TV to get famous 10:10- 21:20 | Hot takes with Jimmy and Chelsea 21:20- 24:20 | Amy and Johnny 24:20-31:20 | Jessica is going to THRIVE 31:20- 39:00 | Laura and Jeremy (and Sarah Ann...) 39:00- 42:00 | Brittany and Kenneth have no sparks 42:00- 44:15 | Unpacking Matthew 44:15- 52:50 | Clay and AD- Clay is a weak man 52:50- 56:39 | Our final thoughts on Love is Blind ⁠Spokeo - People Search Website⁠ CONNECT WITH KOKO ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kokobeaute/⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@kokobeaute⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/boujeebestfriend⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://boujeebestie.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://m.youtube.com/@KokoBeaute CONNECT WITH LISA ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisaxgilmore/⁠⁠⁠ https://www.instagram.com/unwinedingpod/ https://www.instagram.com/emmeclub/ https://emmeclub.com/⁠