
Embracing Your Unique Journey: Beyond Society's Checklists
04/23/24 • 42 min
Ever felt like you're in a race against invisible finish lines, ticking off life's milestones as if they're items on a grocery list? Have you ever caught yourself justifying your life choices to a chorus of well-meaning, yet intrusive, family and friends? You're not alone. Our latest episode delves into the weight of expectations heaped onto women's shoulders, from the societal "must-dos" of marriage and motherhood to the quest for that picturesque home with the white picket fence. We share our own battles with these norms and the quiet rebellions of choosing paths less traveled. With raw honesty, we peel back the layers of upbringing and external judgment that often lead us to question our own definitions of success and happiness. The episode is a celebration of the myriad ways to lead a fulfilling life, and a reminder that respect for individual journeys should trump our ingrained expectations. Take comfort in knowing that whatever your choices may be, they're valid, they're valued, and they're entirely yours to make.
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Ever felt like you're in a race against invisible finish lines, ticking off life's milestones as if they're items on a grocery list? Have you ever caught yourself justifying your life choices to a chorus of well-meaning, yet intrusive, family and friends? You're not alone. Our latest episode delves into the weight of expectations heaped onto women's shoulders, from the societal "must-dos" of marriage and motherhood to the quest for that picturesque home with the white picket fence. We share our own battles with these norms and the quiet rebellions of choosing paths less traveled. With raw honesty, we peel back the layers of upbringing and external judgment that often lead us to question our own definitions of success and happiness. The episode is a celebration of the myriad ways to lead a fulfilling life, and a reminder that respect for individual journeys should trump our ingrained expectations. Take comfort in knowing that whatever your choices may be, they're valid, they're valued, and they're entirely yours to make.
https://www.betterhelp.com
https://www.talkspace.com
https://growtherapy.com
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Blessed 2 Be A Mess Podcast - Embracing Your Unique Journey: Beyond Society's Checklists
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