Episode 7-- From Inner Bullying to Inner Support: Transforming Self-Talk
08/09/23 • 42 min
In this insightful episode, Tara delves into the intricacies of our inner dialogue, shedding light on how familial, community, and societal influences shape the internal monologue that either criticizes or supports us. She emphasizes the pivotal role of awareness, urging listeners to recognize their automated inner critic and to challenge it.
Tara highlights the significant differences in how individuals process criticism and support. While some people may find a "What were you thinking?" remark motivating, other people, including Tara, would likely perceive it as shaming. The core takeaway is the importance of understanding one's unique internal system and nervous responses to tailor their self-talk appropriately.
The episode brilliantly captures the complex relationship between our nervous system, self-perception, and the frameworks we've been given by the world around us. Tara refrains from providing a one-size-fits-all solution, instead underscoring the need for individual introspection, personalized strategies, and understanding what truly "works" for one's psyche.
By the end, listeners are encouraged not just to consume advice but to actively engage with it, ensuring it aligns with their inner system and resonates with their authentic voice. Tara's genuine passion for the topic shines brightly throughout, making for an engaging and enlightening discussion.
Be sure to join us for more insightful episodes on self-awareness, growth, and positive transformation!
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In this insightful episode, Tara delves into the intricacies of our inner dialogue, shedding light on how familial, community, and societal influences shape the internal monologue that either criticizes or supports us. She emphasizes the pivotal role of awareness, urging listeners to recognize their automated inner critic and to challenge it.
Tara highlights the significant differences in how individuals process criticism and support. While some people may find a "What were you thinking?" remark motivating, other people, including Tara, would likely perceive it as shaming. The core takeaway is the importance of understanding one's unique internal system and nervous responses to tailor their self-talk appropriately.
The episode brilliantly captures the complex relationship between our nervous system, self-perception, and the frameworks we've been given by the world around us. Tara refrains from providing a one-size-fits-all solution, instead underscoring the need for individual introspection, personalized strategies, and understanding what truly "works" for one's psyche.
By the end, listeners are encouraged not just to consume advice but to actively engage with it, ensuring it aligns with their inner system and resonates with their authentic voice. Tara's genuine passion for the topic shines brightly throughout, making for an engaging and enlightening discussion.
Be sure to join us for more insightful episodes on self-awareness, growth, and positive transformation!
https://www.facebook.com/MyBigCalm
https://www.instagram.com/mybigcalm/
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Episode 6-- Layers of Self: Navigating the Evolving 'Who Am I' Question
In this riveting episode of the Big Calm Podcast, psychotherapist and Big Calm founder Tara Palmer walks listeners through the ever-evolving question that has perplexed humanity for ages: "Who am I?". Tara examines the interplay between the stages of human development and this existential question, highlighting how our quest for identity might resurface at various life junctures, from teenage angst to midlife transitions.
A significant emphasis is placed on the role of the nervous system. Tara underscores how external pressures, societal expectations, and life's survival requirements can put our nervous system in a state of distress, making it challenging to maintain an authentic connection with oneself. This tension can make it particularly difficult for individuals to find answers to deeper existential questions, especially if they are not in a physically safe or mentally peaceful context.
Tara paints a vivid picture of the human experience, emphasizing that while the quest for self-understanding is universal, our individual journeys are uniquely tailored by our circumstances, experiences, and the environments we navigate. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking a deeper understanding of themselves amidst the challenges and transitions of life.
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