
What We've Learned During #BlackLivesMatter And Recognizing Our Privilege
06/10/20 • 40 min
#15: It's been two weeks since we've last come through to your AirPods, and we couldn't be happier to be back. It's been a heavy week for all of us. Coronavirus is still here, numbers are actually rising in Arizona, but there's an even more important movement happening, #BlackLivesMatter, where we are fighting for justice of police brutality toward the black community. We go through some of our learnings, realizations, how we're progressing forward, creating a new normal and resources you can look to to educate yourself and others.
We also recap an controversial racist comment from a prominent Arizona magazine that circulated the internet and created a shitstorm (for lack of a better word) on their Instagram.
Here are some of the resources we mentioned in this episode:
Video On Argument About Black-On-Black Crime
Books:
- The New Jim Crow by Michelle Alexander
- Between the World and Me by Ta-Nehisi Coates
- A People’s History of the United States by Howard Zinn
- Caught by Marie Gottschalk
- White Fragility by
- So You Want To Talk About Race by Ijeoma Oluo
- The Color of Law by Richard Rothstein
- Raising White Kids by Jennifer Harvey
- How to Be an Antiracist by Ibram X. Kendi
Movies:
- 13th
- The House I Live In
- Roots
- 12 Years A Slave
- Selma
- The Hate U Give
Podcasts About Anti-Racism:
- NPR Interview with Former Chief of Police in Camden, New Jersey
- Code Switch
- Still Processing
- Come Through with Rebecca Carroll
- Pod Save the People
Children's Books:
- Parker Looks Up: An Extraordinary Moment by Parker Curry
- A is for Activist by Innosanto Nagara
- I Am Enough by Grace Byers
- Amazing Grace
- The Skin I’m In: A First Look at Racism by Pat Thomas
- Sulwe by Lupita Nyong'o
- The Day You Begin by Jacqueline Woodson
- Let’s Talk About Race by Julius Lester
Organizations to Support:
- Your local Black Lives Matter Chapter
- The ACLU
- Color Of Change
- The Innocence Project
- Cure Violence
- NAACP
To ask us a question, suggest a guest or just say hi, visit @betteroffpod or email [email protected].
Feel free to creep on your hosts a little further, too @thenikkibutler & @bbooks. Thank you for your attention and support!
#15: It's been two weeks since we've last come through to your AirPods, and we couldn't be happier to be back. It's been a heavy week for all of us. Coronavirus is still here, numbers are actually rising in Arizona, but there's an even more important movement happening, #BlackLivesMatter, where we are fighting for justice of police brutality toward the black community. We go through some of our learnings, realizations, how we're progressing forward, creating a new normal and resources you can look to to educate yourself and others.
We also recap an controversial racist comment from a prominent Arizona magazine that circulated the internet and created a shitstorm (for lack of a better word) on their Instagram.
Here are some of the resources we mentioned in this episode:
Video On Argument About Black-On-Black Crime
Books:
- The New Jim Crow by Michelle Alexander
- Between the World and Me by Ta-Nehisi Coates
- A People’s History of the United States by Howard Zinn
- Caught by Marie Gottschalk
- White Fragility by
- So You Want To Talk About Race by Ijeoma Oluo
- The Color of Law by Richard Rothstein
- Raising White Kids by Jennifer Harvey
- How to Be an Antiracist by Ibram X. Kendi
Movies:
- 13th
- The House I Live In
- Roots
- 12 Years A Slave
- Selma
- The Hate U Give
Podcasts About Anti-Racism:
- NPR Interview with Former Chief of Police in Camden, New Jersey
- Code Switch
- Still Processing
- Come Through with Rebecca Carroll
- Pod Save the People
Children's Books:
- Parker Looks Up: An Extraordinary Moment by Parker Curry
- A is for Activist by Innosanto Nagara
- I Am Enough by Grace Byers
- Amazing Grace
- The Skin I’m In: A First Look at Racism by Pat Thomas
- Sulwe by Lupita Nyong'o
- The Day You Begin by Jacqueline Woodson
- Let’s Talk About Race by Julius Lester
Organizations to Support:
- Your local Black Lives Matter Chapter
- The ACLU
- Color Of Change
- The Innocence Project
- Cure Violence
- NAACP
To ask us a question, suggest a guest or just say hi, visit @betteroffpod or email [email protected].
Feel free to creep on your hosts a little further, too @thenikkibutler & @bbooks. Thank you for your attention and support!
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#14: Karie Johnson is the owner of barre3 Scottsdale and Paradise Valley, two fitness studios here in the Greater Phoenix Area. Karie takes us through what it's actually like investing in a franchise, telling us the actual number and more importantly, telling us her success story. To start the interview, Karie walks Becca and Nikki through a much needed 3-minute breath exercise before diving into Karie's story, barre3 and what she eats in a day to look and feel great!
We also cover:
- How Karie pivoted from teaching to investing into barre3
- What it's actually like being a franchisee working with a franchisor
- How much the initial investment is to open a barre3 studio
- The barre3 workout and how it's different from others
- The four underdeveloped areas of our bodies in today society and how barre3 "reverses daily life"
- The five core values of barre3 and how they align with Karie's own values
- The importance of community involvement
- Adjusting during COVID-19 and where Karie, her studios and staff are now
- What Karie eats in a day
- Tips from Karie on balancing motherhood, marriage, business and a healthy lifestyle!
Karie is offering one free virtual class to Better Off Said listeners! Just email or DM @barre3scottsdalepv and mention Better Off Said.
You can also click HERE to see their schedule and book a class.
Nikki's Product Of The Week: PARACHUTE Linen Bedding
Becca's Product Of The Week: Ann Taylor Wide Leg Jeans
To connect with Karie, click here.
To follow barre3 Scottsdale and Paradise Valley, click here.
To ask us a question, suggest a guest or just say hi, visit @betteroffpod or email [email protected].
Feel free to creep on your hosts a little further, too @thenikkibutler & @bbooks. Thank you for your attention and support!
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Dating Apps And New Relationship Advice With Becca And Her Boyfriend Parker
#16: When we started this podcast, we leveraged the angle of both being 20-somethings but in two different stages of life and offering those two perspectives. We laughed when only a couple of episodes in, Becca had matched with a guy on Hinge, and she was smitten. Enter, her now boyfriend, Parker! Parker joins Becca today to uncover the details of what it's like dating through an app and how it was successful for them! They go into their first date and the special surprise Jojo left for them, meeting each other's families and friends and... wait for it... MOVING IN TOGETHER! That's right, Parker moves in this weekend and they'll go into their feelings like Drake.
Nikki's Products:
Children's Books with Black Protagonists
Becca's Product:
Bougainvillea from The Home Depot - only $15 each!
To ask us a question, suggest a topic or just say hi, visit @betteroffpod or email [email protected].
Feel free to creep on your hosts a little further, too @thenikkibutler & @bbooks. Thank you for your attention and support!
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