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Better Off Said

Nikki Butler and Becca Booker

Bloggers and self-starters, Nikki Butler and Becca Booker, are both 20-somethings, but in completely different stages of life. On this podcast, they'll offer their different perspectives on all topics they are obsessing over or experiencing at the moment, with insightful interviews from experts, entrepreneurs and even just the girl next door. Better Off Said brings together women in all stages of life, exploring topics from business, wellness, friendship, motherhood and yes, all the online social media shit we are obsessed with. Why “Better Off Said”? We’re having conversations that don’t tip-toe around the “lines”. We’re all thinking it. So don’t you think it’s just better off said? Join the conversation every Wednesday and don’t be afraid to get real and actually learn something. Oh, and our mission? To educate, inspire and entertain the millennial woman to find her voice and take her next step whether it be in business, a relationship or even just getting a foot out the door to happy hour. Get instant updates by following us on Instagram @betteroffpod.
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07/22/20 • 48 min

21: It's the first solo episode we have done and Nikki is taking it away with her recap of her most popular blog post, Essentials for Baby's First Year. This podcast has the top products that changed Nikki and Thor's lives with Cannon in the categories of sleep, bath time, active time, changing, nursing, eating and travel. Nikki orders the products from 0-3 month, 3-6 month and 6-12 months so you know exactly what products you need ASAP versus later in the first year. Hope this helps you soon-to-be mamas!

Becca's Product of the Week:

Tie Dye Lounge Set

Nikki's Baby Essentials:

For the full list and tips on how to put together your baby registry, visit my blog post.

SLEEP
  1. Bassinet
  2. Dockatot
  3. Crib
  4. Baby monitor
  5. Swaddle
  6. Sleep sack
AWAKE & TUMMY TIME
  1. Loveevery baby play mat and gym
  2. Boppy pillow
  3. Bouncer
  4. Pack n play
NURSING
  1. Medela Sonata Breast Pump
  2. Haakaa Hand Pump
  3. Medela Harmony Manual Pump
FEEDING
  1. Comotomo baby bottles
  2. High chair
  3. Snack catcher
  4. Sippy cup
BATH TIME
  1. Body wash / shampoo and lotion
  2. Erbaviva oil and butter
CHANGING
  1. Changing pad
  2. Diapers
  3. Diaper pail
HEALTH & SAFETY
  1. Fridababy Nail Clipper and File
  2. Fridababy Windi
  3. Fridababy NoseFrida
  4. Baby's first toothbrush
TRAVEL
  1. Solly baby wrap
  2. Stroller with bassinet
  3. Car seat
  4. Car headrest mirror
  5. Portable sound machine
  6. Baby carrier
  7. Shopping cart cover
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07/22/20 • 48 min

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20: Nikki and Becca are talking personal skincare today! Hear about their morning routines and night routines, plus their favorite tools, tips and tricks. They also discuss how they're treating specific issues they each suffer from and products they buy to accomodate their skin types. Below, we've linked everything we mentioned in this episode! Happy shopping and WASH YOUR FACE!

Cookbook Nikki Mentioned: NOURISH Cookbook by Lorna Jane

Nikki's {current} Skincare Routine:

  1. Morning
    1. Cleanser: Dermalogica Gel Cleanser or Youth To The People
    2. Toner: Ole Henriksen Dark Spot Toner
      1. Elemis Superfood Facial Oil
      2. Drunk Elephant Vitamin C Oil
    3. Face Oil
      1. Dr. Dennis Gross Ferulic Acid and Retinol Brightening Solution
    4. Mild retinol
    5. Jade Roller
      1. GlamGlow Illuminating Moisturizer
    6. Moisturizer
      1. Glossier Invisible Shield
      2. Shiseido Oil-Free SPF
      3. Supergoop Translucent Powder with SPF
    7. Sunscreen
    8. Lip Moisturizer: Laneige Lip Mask
  2. Night
    1. Cleanser: Dermalogica Gel Cleanser or Youth To The People
      1. Kate Somerville Exfoli-Kate
      2. Elemis Resurfacing Facial Pads twice a week
    2. Exfoliate twice a week*
    3. Toner: Ole Henriksen Dark Spot Toner
      1. Elemis Reviving Eye Mask
    4. Eye Cream
      1. Drunk Elephant Glycolic Resurfacing Night Serum
    5. Night Serum
      1. Ole henriksen Retin-Alt Sleeping Cream
      2. Elemis Pro Collagen Marine Cream
    6. Moisturizer
    7. Lip Moisturizer: Laneige Lip Mask
    8. Gua Sha
    9. Jade Roller
    10. Self-tanner: Lux Unfiltered
    11. Masks: Summer Fridays Jet Lag, Elemis Pro Collagen Cleansing Balm and Peter Thomas Roth 24k Gold
    12. Acne spot treatment: PCA Skincare Pigment Gel
  3. Favorite Tools

Becca's Skincare Routine

  1. The little book of korean skincare https://bit.ly/2G0DYcu
    1. Cleanser
      1. Kate Somerville anti bac https://bit.ly/2FZ9Yh6
    2. ice
      1. Revision skincare https://bit.ly/3gWAjw4
      2. Apply without a cotton ball
    3. Toner
      1. Cosrx https://bit.ly/2YFGRGQ
    4. Essence
      1. Kate somerville anti bac https://bit.ly/2YJMbsS
    5. Acne cream
      1. Julep vitamin c https://bit.ly/3epQksV
    6. Oil
      1. Revision skincare https://bit.ly/34JPgNf
      2. Colorscience powder sunscreen for reapplication https://bit.ly/2G0FT0G
    7. Sunscreen
  2. Morning
    1. PreCleanse
      1. Dermalogica pre cleanse https://bit.ly/2YGIEeP
      2. Kate somerville anti bac https://bit.ly/2FZ9Yh6
    2. Cleanser
      1. Dermalogica microfoliant https://bit.ly/2R9weZS
    3. Exfoliate
      1. Revision skincare https://bit.ly/3gWAjw4
      2. Apply without a cotton ball
    4. Toner
      1. Cosrx https://bit.ly/2YFGRGQ
    5. Essence
      1. Skincueticals 0.5% https://bit.ly/2Lbncdb
    6. Retinol
      1. Sente
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07/15/20 • 59 min

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19: This week, Becca asks Nikki more about who she was before they met. From her painful experience going through a family break up, how her college experience molded her into who she is today, pivoting in your business and more!

Nikki's product mentions:

Wine Away

Couch

Bedroom rug

Becca's product mentions:

Daily Harvest

Use code BBOOKS for $25 off!

To ask us a question, suggest a topic or just say hi, DM us @betteroffpod or email betteroffpod@gmail.com.

Feel free to creep on your hosts a little further, too @thenikkibutler & @bbooks. Thank you for your attention and support!

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07/09/20 • 53 min

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#18: It's time to get to know more about Becca Booker. On today's episode, Nikki asks Becca questions that she didn't even know the answer to. We talk about the high school and college years that made Becca who she is today, what she did to save up to buy her first home, her perspective on marriage, kids, religion and more!

Becca's Product Rec: Korean Italy Towels

  • Good for beach day/ 4th of July tan
  • Exfoliation
  • Removes tanner too

Nikki's Product Rec: SMEG Water Kettle

  • Great for instant coffee
  • Great for warming water for formula bottles

To ask us a question, suggest a topic or just say hi, DM us @betteroffpod or email betteroffpod@gmail.com.

Feel free to creep on your hosts a little further, too @thenikkibutler & @bbooks. Thank you for your attention and support!

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07/01/20 • 68 min

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17: It's not very often that a one-night college fling turns into a 2-1/2 year marriage and 9 years of dating. According to "He's Just Not That Into You", it sounds like Nikki and her husband, Thor, are the exception, not the rule. Get to know the dynamic between Nikki and Thor's relationship in this episode as Nikki tries to extract all the feelings that go through a guy's head when deciding they want to date someone and eventually propose to them. Plus, what guys think during the emotional rollercoaster called pregnancy.

We also talk about:

  • The details of our first encounter and how we met
  • Our opinions on dating apps and how we have never used them
  • Moving in together before marriage
  • What it's like being parents

Nikki's Product Rec:

My pantry storage containers that are thee SHIT

OXO Good Grips

Becca's Product Rec:

Electric Standing Desk

To ask us a question, suggest a topic or just say hi, DM us @betteroffpod or email betteroffpod@gmail.com.

Feel free to creep on your hosts a little further, too @thenikkibutler & @bbooks. Thank you for your attention and support!

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06/24/20 • 72 min

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#16: When we started this podcast, we leveraged the angle of both being 20-somethings but in two different stages of life and offering those two perspectives. We laughed when only a couple of episodes in, Becca had matched with a guy on Hinge, and she was smitten. Enter, her now boyfriend, Parker! Parker joins Becca today to uncover the details of what it's like dating through an app and how it was successful for them! They go into their first date and the special surprise Jojo left for them, meeting each other's families and friends and... wait for it... MOVING IN TOGETHER! That's right, Parker moves in this weekend and they'll go into their feelings like Drake.

Nikki's Products:

Children's Books with Black Protagonists

"Snowy Day"

"A Is For Activism"

Becca's Product:

Bougainvillea from The Home Depot - only $15 each!

To ask us a question, suggest a topic or just say hi, visit @betteroffpod or email betteroffpod@gmail.com.

Feel free to creep on your hosts a little further, too @thenikkibutler & @bbooks. Thank you for your attention and support!

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06/17/20 • 56 min

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#15: It's been two weeks since we've last come through to your AirPods, and we couldn't be happier to be back. It's been a heavy week for all of us. Coronavirus is still here, numbers are actually rising in Arizona, but there's an even more important movement happening, #BlackLivesMatter, where we are fighting for justice of police brutality toward the black community. We go through some of our learnings, realizations, how we're progressing forward, creating a new normal and resources you can look to to educate yourself and others.

We also recap an controversial racist comment from a prominent Arizona magazine that circulated the internet and created a shitstorm (for lack of a better word) on their Instagram.

Here are some of the resources we mentioned in this episode:

Video On Argument About Black-On-Black Crime

Books:

  1. The New Jim Crow by Michelle Alexander
  2. Between the World and Me by Ta-Nehisi Coates
  3. A People’s History of the United States by Howard Zinn
  4. Caught by Marie Gottschalk
  5. White Fragility by
  6. So You Want To Talk About Race by Ijeoma Oluo
  7. The Color of Law by Richard Rothstein
  8. Raising White Kids by Jennifer Harvey
  9. How to Be an Antiracist by Ibram X. Kendi

Movies:

  1. 13th
  2. The House I Live In
  3. Roots
  4. 12 Years A Slave
  5. Selma
  6. The Hate U Give

Podcasts About Anti-Racism:

  1. NPR Interview with Former Chief of Police in Camden, New Jersey
  2. Code Switch
  3. Still Processing
  4. Come Through with Rebecca Carroll
  5. Pod Save the People

Children's Books:

  1. Parker Looks Up: An Extraordinary Moment by Parker Curry
  2. A is for Activist by Innosanto Nagara
  3. I Am Enough by Grace Byers
  4. Amazing Grace
  5. The Skin I’m In: A First Look at Racism by Pat Thomas
  6. Sulwe by Lupita Nyong'o
  7. The Day You Begin by Jacqueline Woodson
  8. Let’s Talk About Race by Julius Lester

Organizations to Support:

  1. Your local Black Lives Matter Chapter
  2. The ACLU
  3. Color Of Change
  4. The Innocence Project
  5. Cure Violence
  6. NAACP

To ask us a question, suggest a guest or just say hi, visit @betteroffpod or email betteroffpod@gmail.com.

Feel free to creep on your hosts a little further, too @thenikkibutler & @bbooks. Thank you for your attention and support!

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06/10/20 • 40 min

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#14: Karie Johnson is the owner of barre3 Scottsdale and Paradise Valley, two fitness studios here in the Greater Phoenix Area. Karie takes us through what it's actually like investing in a franchise, telling us the actual number and more importantly, telling us her success story. To start the interview, Karie walks Becca and Nikki through a much needed 3-minute breath exercise before diving into Karie's story, barre3 and what she eats in a day to look and feel great!

We also cover:

  • How Karie pivoted from teaching to investing into barre3
  • What it's actually like being a franchisee working with a franchisor
  • How much the initial investment is to open a barre3 studio
  • The barre3 workout and how it's different from others
  • The four underdeveloped areas of our bodies in today society and how barre3 "reverses daily life"
  • The five core values of barre3 and how they align with Karie's own values
  • The importance of community involvement
  • Adjusting during COVID-19 and where Karie, her studios and staff are now
  • What Karie eats in a day
  • Tips from Karie on balancing motherhood, marriage, business and a healthy lifestyle!

Karie is offering one free virtual class to Better Off Said listeners! Just email or DM @barre3scottsdalepv and mention Better Off Said.

You can also click HERE to see their schedule and book a class.

Nikki's Product Of The Week: PARACHUTE Linen Bedding

Becca's Product Of The Week: Ann Taylor Wide Leg Jeans

To connect with Karie, click here.

To follow barre3 Scottsdale and Paradise Valley, click here.

To ask us a question, suggest a guest or just say hi, visit @betteroffpod or email betteroffpod@gmail.com.

Feel free to creep on your hosts a little further, too @thenikkibutler & @bbooks. Thank you for your attention and support!

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05/27/20 • 72 min

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#13: Public relations is a hot topic. It feels very foreign to most businesses in the sense that they just don't know how to go about it! Lucky for all of you, today we are talking to Nicole Myden, a 20-year PR veteran and owner of The PR Concierge. In this episode, Nicole walks us through the do's and don'ts when it comes to pitching media, how to create your own rolodex (or media list), what to expect from hiring a PR pro or agency, and so much more. This episode is FULL of useful insights and tips so we definitely recommending taking notes on this one!

Nikki Product Of The Week: GLAMGLOW Illuminating Eye Cream Becca Product Of The Week: Ultrasonic Cool Mist Humidifier

To connect with Nicole, click here.

To follow The PR Concierge, click here.

To ask us a question, suggest a guest or just say hi, visit @betteroffpod or email betteroffpod@gmail.com.

Feel free to creep on your hosts a little further, too @thenikkibutler & @bbooks. Thank you for your attention and support!

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05/20/20 • 66 min

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07/29/20 • 38 min

22: Becca has been enlightened with adding more sustainable practices into her life! So today, she is taking you through the NINE things she has incorporated into her daily life to help minimize her footprint on our gorgeous green Earth. Nikki also joins her in the beginning of the episode for their weekly moments that are better off said, life updates and products of the week.

Nikki's Product of the Week:

Master bedroom rug from McGee and Co

Mortgage refinancing:

  • Costco
  • Better.com

Becca's Amazon Favorites for Sustainability:

  1. Wool dryer balls
    1. https://bit.ly/30UxbL1
    2. https://bit.ly/2Djf4pF
  2. Glass Straws
    1. https://bit.ly/39BfFza
  3. Stashable bags
    1. https://bit.ly/307wu1C
  4. Net grocery + produce bags
    1. https://bit.ly/332GgE4
  5. Reusable napkins
    1. https://bit.ly/3084s61
  6. Silicon loofah
    1. https://bit.ly/2P4uC3j
  7. Reusable makeup wipes
    1. https://bit.ly/2X4977f
  8. ChomChom
    1. https://bit.ly/39zoxp7
  9. Drying rack for clothes
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07/29/20 • 38 min

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How many episodes does Better Off Said have?

Better Off Said currently has 28 episodes available.

What topics does Better Off Said cover?

The podcast is about Fashion, Society & Culture, Selfimprovement, Beauty, Interview, Lifestyle, Personal Journals, Podcast, Podcasts, Self-Improvement and Education.

What is the most popular episode on Better Off Said?

The episode title 'Baby Essentials For The First Year With Nikki' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on Better Off Said?

The average episode length on Better Off Said is 54 minutes.

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Episodes of Better Off Said are typically released every 7 days.

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The first episode of Better Off Said was released on Mar 1, 2020.

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