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Become More Compelling - Ep 13 Get The Friends You Want with Paul Sanders

Ep 13 Get The Friends You Want with Paul Sanders

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08/16/18 • 56 min

Become More Compelling

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On this episode of BMC Radio, the podcast where I help you supercharge your charisma and people skills I have my friend Paul Sanders (@PaulSandersSCP) from Get The Friends You Want. Paul Sanders is a friendship & social skills coach, and author of the "Get The Friends You Want" book. He helps people overcome social hesitation, master conversation and social skills, make friends and build a social circle. In an age where connection seems to be tipping more thumb than face, I think honing your friendship skills is only getting more important, especially if you're working remote, or starting a business and don't have the traditional 9-5 office culture to fall back on. In this conversation, we talk about how to build a friendship circle, how to easily connect and build rapport with many different types of people, books on social dynamics, and much more.

Free gift for BMC listeners:

7 Most Common Mistakes Peoples People Make When They Try To Improve Their Social Life (And How To Avoid Them)

Highlights:

-11:45 - Paul’s advice for building a friendship circle.

-25:00 - The compound effect of stacking different people skills.

-28:09 - Acquire new knowledge and culture so that you’ll be able to connect with many different types of people As always, show notes are available on the blog. ---

NEXT STEP:

QUIZ - Do you know what your communication style is? Take this quiz and get a custom report based on your results.

AUDIO GUIDE - Grab my free audio guide on group conversations here (Includes word-for-word scripts)

PRIVATE COACHING

Become more socially confident in 12 weeks with private coaching.

MY ONLINE VIDEO COURSE:

Breakthrough Charisma - Become more charismatic in everyday situations.

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Want more awesome stuff (podcasts, Q&A videos, articles and more) to supercharge your people skills? Click here!

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On this episode of BMC Radio, the podcast where I help you supercharge your charisma and people skills I have my friend Paul Sanders (@PaulSandersSCP) from Get The Friends You Want. Paul Sanders is a friendship & social skills coach, and author of the "Get The Friends You Want" book. He helps people overcome social hesitation, master conversation and social skills, make friends and build a social circle. In an age where connection seems to be tipping more thumb than face, I think honing your friendship skills is only getting more important, especially if you're working remote, or starting a business and don't have the traditional 9-5 office culture to fall back on. In this conversation, we talk about how to build a friendship circle, how to easily connect and build rapport with many different types of people, books on social dynamics, and much more.

Free gift for BMC listeners:

7 Most Common Mistakes Peoples People Make When They Try To Improve Their Social Life (And How To Avoid Them)

Highlights:

-11:45 - Paul’s advice for building a friendship circle.

-25:00 - The compound effect of stacking different people skills.

-28:09 - Acquire new knowledge and culture so that you’ll be able to connect with many different types of people As always, show notes are available on the blog. ---

NEXT STEP:

QUIZ - Do you know what your communication style is? Take this quiz and get a custom report based on your results.

AUDIO GUIDE - Grab my free audio guide on group conversations here (Includes word-for-word scripts)

PRIVATE COACHING

Become more socially confident in 12 weeks with private coaching.

MY ONLINE VIDEO COURSE:

Breakthrough Charisma - Become more charismatic in everyday situations.

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undefined - Ep 12 How To Make Friends With Rob Riker

Ep 12 How To Make Friends With Rob Riker

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On this episode of Become More Compelling Radio, I'd like to introduce you to my friend Rob Riker (@robertgriker) from The Social Winner. Over the last few months, I've seen a lot of questions about making friends... This podcast will answer all these questions and more. If you've every wanted a solid strategy around making new friends and connections, this podcast episode is for you. After listening, you'll be able to make new friends on command. Rob has been featured in Business Insider, Lifehack, The Friend Formula, and Tiny Buddha.

--- Free gift for BMC readers:

Get Rob's free 8 lesson course on how to make new friends this month here.

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Highlights:

19:56 - How to bridge the gap between acquaintances and meeting up a second time 26:15 - The crucial time to swap contact info 34:29 - Should you initiate plans with friends or wait for them to initiate plans?

NEXT STEP:

QUIZ - Do you know what your communication style is? Take this quiz and get a custom report based on your results.

AUDIO GUIDE - Grab my free audio guide on group conversations here (Includes word-for-word scripts)

PRIVATE COACHING

Become more socially confident in 12 weeks with private coaching.

MY ONLINE VIDEO COURSE:

Breakthrough Charisma - Become more charismatic in everyday situations.

Next Episode

undefined - Ep 14 Media Training 101 With Nicole Schwegman

Ep 14 Media Training 101 With Nicole Schwegman

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A message that says everything we need to say in a neat package?

A message that can inspire everyone from your small team at work, to tens of thousands when you're behind the camera or mic?

On this episode of Become More Compelling Radio, my friend Nicole Schwegman (@bffwiththechef on IG) is going to walk us through crafting a powerful, clear message.

Think of this episode as media training 101.

"But Jeff, I'm not media facing in my company, should I listen to this episode?"

YES!

Many of Nicole's tips will absolutely help if you're sitting down with media. (TV, Radio, Podcasts, etc.) But the lessons here are 100% applicable to you if you've ever:

-Sat down for a job interview.

-Had to answer tough questions asked by a boss.

-Lead a team of any size.

More about Nicole:

Nicole Schwegman is a public affairs officer in the U.S. military. She’s served in the Navy for nearly 16 years where she’s had the opportunity to help media train some of American’s most senior military leaders.

She is also a home chef, food enthusiast and the host of BFF with the Chef, the podcast that aims to make home cooks better in the kitchen by sharing cheffy insights from each week's culinary guest.

Disclaimer for this show: Nicole's opinions expressed in this episode are her own, they do not reflect the views or opinions of the U.S. military.

Check out Nicole's podcast BFF with the Chef here Full show notes and links are here

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