
Threats to Modern Day Fatherhood, Building Mentorship Networks, & More with Matt Barnes - Bear Crawl with Dads - 18
05/18/23 • 77 min
In this episode, Matt Barnes, husband, father of 3, joins Bear Crawls with Dads to discuss parental influence in education, building mentorship networks, threats to modern day fatherhood and more! You do not want to miss this conversation as Matt is passionate about replacing parental anxiety with Hope and a Plan. “Education is 90% Parent Behavior | Learning is 100% Child Desire” – Matt Barnes
IN TODAY’S EPISODE WE DISCUSS:
[00:02:30] Teaching self-leadership to toddlers.
[00:03:49] Parenting disagreements and agreements.
[00:07:46] Parental Influence in Education
[00:11:43] Legacy of education.
[00:15:35] Being vulnerable with children.
[00:19:40] Authority transition for children.
[00:22:29] Coming of age traditions.
[00:26:35] Rites of passage for young men.
[00:29:58] Human decency in media.
[00:33:35] Building relationships with children.
[00:37:03] Building mentorship networks.
[00:41:06] Importance of reading with children.
[00:45:30] Self-leadership and parenting.
[00:50:58] Traditional education critique.
[00:53:03] Education's focus on entrance exams.
[00:55:42] Skills for effective living.
[01:00:43] Alternative paths to education.
[01:03:06] Education and self-governance.
[01:06:34] Honoring and empowering students.
[01:10:13] Greatest challenge as a dad.
[01:15:53] Parenting advice for new fathers.
[01:18:13] Threats to modern fatherhood.
[01:22:23] Desire to learn is scarce.
[01:25:59] Meeting for barbecue or coffee.
[01:25:00] Leading by example as fathers.
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Follow Matt Barnes on LinkedIn
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In this episode, Matt Barnes, husband, father of 3, joins Bear Crawls with Dads to discuss parental influence in education, building mentorship networks, threats to modern day fatherhood and more! You do not want to miss this conversation as Matt is passionate about replacing parental anxiety with Hope and a Plan. “Education is 90% Parent Behavior | Learning is 100% Child Desire” – Matt Barnes
IN TODAY’S EPISODE WE DISCUSS:
[00:02:30] Teaching self-leadership to toddlers.
[00:03:49] Parenting disagreements and agreements.
[00:07:46] Parental Influence in Education
[00:11:43] Legacy of education.
[00:15:35] Being vulnerable with children.
[00:19:40] Authority transition for children.
[00:22:29] Coming of age traditions.
[00:26:35] Rites of passage for young men.
[00:29:58] Human decency in media.
[00:33:35] Building relationships with children.
[00:37:03] Building mentorship networks.
[00:41:06] Importance of reading with children.
[00:45:30] Self-leadership and parenting.
[00:50:58] Traditional education critique.
[00:53:03] Education's focus on entrance exams.
[00:55:42] Skills for effective living.
[01:00:43] Alternative paths to education.
[01:03:06] Education and self-governance.
[01:06:34] Honoring and empowering students.
[01:10:13] Greatest challenge as a dad.
[01:15:53] Parenting advice for new fathers.
[01:18:13] Threats to modern fatherhood.
[01:22:23] Desire to learn is scarce.
[01:25:59] Meeting for barbecue or coffee.
[01:25:00] Leading by example as fathers.
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Follow Matt Barnes on LinkedIn
WHERE WE CAN CONNECT:
Follow Bear Crawl with Dads on Instagram
Follow Bear Crawl with Dads on Twitter
Follow Bear Crawl with Dads on Facebook
FOLLOW & REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS
Are you following the podcast? If you are not, I want to encourage you to follow today so you don’t miss any future episodes! I have so many amazing guests and topics lined up; I would hate for you to miss a single one! Click here to follow on Apple Podcasts.
Could I ask a big favor? If you are loving the show, I would LOVE it if you would leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. I read each and every one!
Wondering how to leave a review? Click here to review, then select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review”. So easy and so appreciated!
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IN TODAY’S EPISODE WE DISCUSS:
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[00:04:50] Coping with stress and diet.
[00:08:37] Sacrifices for success.
[00:12:35] Skateboarding and identity.
[00:16:25] Self-discovery and growth.
[00:23:14] Superhuman Fathers Movement.
[00:25:15] Overcoming lack of consistency.
[00:29:00] Overcoming personal obstacles.
[00:32:38] Finding strength in resistance.
[00:37:00] Quitting bad habits.
[00:41:56] Overcoming criticism and hate.
[00:44:42] Building a successful coaching business.
[00:48:05] Building yourself to serve.
[00:53:14] Finding faith through discipline.
[00:57:02] Obsession and balance.
[01:02:20] Choosing to believe.
[01:06:10] Rites of passage for men.
[01:08:54] Family bonding through challenges.
[01:13:25] Raising self-sufficient young men.
[01:16:44] Epic Fatherhood.
[01:21:14] Community over fitness.
[01:25:00] Leading by example as fathers.
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Follow Superhuman Fathers on Instagram
Follow Superhuman Fathers on Facebook
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WHERE WE CAN CONNECT:
FOLLOW & REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS
Are you following the podcast? If you are not, I want to encourage you to follow today so you don’t miss any future episodes! I have so many amazing guests and topics lined up; I would hate for you to miss a single one! Click here to follow on Apple Podcasts.
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Episode 19 of the Bear Crawl with Dads podcast features Dr. Colin Harris, retired professor from Mercer University, husband, father, grandfather, who hails from the great state of Georgia. Dr. Harris shares his parents surviving the great depression,
the importance of relationships in creating a healthier society, Krispy Kreme, challenges facing fathers today, and more!
IN TODAY’S EPISODE WE DISCUSS:
[00:03:31] Importance of good conversation.
[00:07:57] Great Depression and Adulthood.
[00:08:29] College education and sacrifices.
[00:13:55] Relationship with father.
[00:17:24] Woodworking as a bonding activity.
[00:22:57] Fathers as role models.
[00:28:03] Time with children.
[00:33:55] Lines of communication with children.
[00:36:24] Effective communication with children.
[00:43:26] Challenges facing dads today.
[00:45:44] Rethinking fatherhood as an attitude.
[00:53:58] Encouragement for parenting.
[00:56:00] Nurturing community for survival.
[01:02:57] Fatherhood as a "young man's sport".
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
WHERE WE CAN CONNECT:
Follow Bear Crawl with Dads on Instagram
Follow Bear Crawl with Dads on Twitter
Connect with Bear Crawl with Dads on Facebook
FOLLOW & REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS
Are you following the podcast? If you are not, I want to encourage you to follow today so you don’t miss any future episodes! I have so many amazing guests and topics lined up; I would hate for you to miss a single one! Click here to follow on Apple Podcasts.
Could I ask a big favor? If you are loving the show, I would LOVE it if you would leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. I read each and every one!
Wondering how to leave a review? Click here to review, then select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review”. So easy and so appreciated!
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