
What discipline is really and wins and lessons #10 Be the Dad
11/25/18 • 20 min
What does discipline mean? In just one word: ‘training’. No. 10 is all about training. How to train your children to be in charge of their actions, character and emotions. Its learning the difference between punishment and consequences. To help out I’ve got some really great practical tools to help you in your training:
- Three step guide to training the right behaviour,
- 8 Great tools to change and train good behaviour,
- 10 ways to administer consequences well
What is the goal?
The goal is to produce a child who is self governing and has self control. About knowing which action will bring the best result for them and for those around them Training your child, who even though they are tempted to do the the wrong thing, will dig deep and have the inner strength and resolve to do the right thing.
What does discipline mean? In just one word: ‘training’. No. 10 is all about training. How to train your children to be in charge of their actions, character and emotions. Its learning the difference between punishment and consequences. To help out I’ve got some really great practical tools to help you in your training:
- Three step guide to training the right behaviour,
- 8 Great tools to change and train good behaviour,
- 10 ways to administer consequences well
What is the goal?
The goal is to produce a child who is self governing and has self control. About knowing which action will bring the best result for them and for those around them Training your child, who even though they are tempted to do the the wrong thing, will dig deep and have the inner strength and resolve to do the right thing.
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