Episode 10 - Assume Positive Intent and Quit Taking It Personally
06/24/23 • 21 min
In this podcast episode, Cierra shares about different skills from Conscious Discipline to help ease the power struggle and emotional disturbance that can come from our children's behaviors that we view as wrong, negative, annoying, or bad.
She talks about the power of positive intent and how to quit taking it personally (Q.T.I.P.) when interacting with our children and littles in their times of reactivity and action.
Email Cierra: [email protected]
Cierra’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cierradae/
Cierra’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/cierradaeconsciouscreations
Cierra’s Youtube:https://www.youtube.com/@cierradae
Explore Dr. Becky Bailey's Conscious Discipline Course: https://consciousdiscipline.com/e-learning/10-session-online-course/
Back to Heart is a podcast full of open dialogue conversations of and from the heart with Cierra Dae, to learn how to relate with more intention and love within our relationships and parenting. Combining spirituality, psychology, and real life experience to help lead you back in the direction of heart to unravel the karmic patterns of our lives. We learn tools of emotional intelligence, mindfulness, and expression to deepen relationships and heal wounds from generations of disconnect. Coming back to heart to live rich lives we crave and deserve.
In this podcast episode, Cierra shares about different skills from Conscious Discipline to help ease the power struggle and emotional disturbance that can come from our children's behaviors that we view as wrong, negative, annoying, or bad.
She talks about the power of positive intent and how to quit taking it personally (Q.T.I.P.) when interacting with our children and littles in their times of reactivity and action.
Email Cierra: [email protected]
Cierra’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cierradae/
Cierra’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/cierradaeconsciouscreations
Cierra’s Youtube:https://www.youtube.com/@cierradae
Explore Dr. Becky Bailey's Conscious Discipline Course: https://consciousdiscipline.com/e-learning/10-session-online-course/
Back to Heart is a podcast full of open dialogue conversations of and from the heart with Cierra Dae, to learn how to relate with more intention and love within our relationships and parenting. Combining spirituality, psychology, and real life experience to help lead you back in the direction of heart to unravel the karmic patterns of our lives. We learn tools of emotional intelligence, mindfulness, and expression to deepen relationships and heal wounds from generations of disconnect. Coming back to heart to live rich lives we crave and deserve.
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Episode 9 : Slowing Our Systems and Trusting in Being Provided For
In this episode, Cierra talks about the dangers and disconnect that can come with hustle culture and why it's so uncomfortable for us to slow down and be still. She reflects on the difference of yin and yang energy and how slowness and gentleness are just as important as movement and action. Cierra shares personal stories and experiences about her struggles with meditation and regulation, along with her chase for freedom from fear.
On Being Podcast: https://onbeing.org/series/podcast/
00:00:00 - 00:03:55 Chasing connection with Spirit
00:03:55 - 00:07:53 Hustle culture and trying to create safety by doing more
00:07:53 - 00:11:40 A state of slowness and emotional system activation
00:11:40 - 00:16:09 Allowing slowness is uncomfortable and our aversion to slowing down our systems
00:16:09 - 00:22:00 Navigating and directing the energy of movement
00:22:00 - 00:00:00 Resting in trust and faith
Email Cierra: [email protected]
Cierra’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cierradae/
Cierra’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/cierradaeconsciouscreations
Cierra’s Youtube:https://www.youtube.com/@cierradae
Explore Dr. Becky Bailey's Conscious Discipline Course: https://consciousdiscipline.com/e-learning/10-session-online-course/
Back to Heart is a podcast full of open dialogue conversations of and from the heart with Cierra Dae, to learn how to relate with more intention and love within our relationships and parenting. Combining spirituality, psychology, and real life experience to help lead you back in the direction of heart to unravel the karmic patterns of our lives. We learn tools of emotional intelligence, mindfulness, and expression to deepen relationships and heal wounds from generations of disconnect. Coming back to heart to live rich lives we crave and deserve.
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Episode 11 - Forgiveness as Adults
In this episode, Cierra shares about the many layers in the reality of forgiveness and what the path may look like when on a journey of healing and forgiving, or being forgiven as a parent of an adult child, or as an adult child in a wounded relationship with parents.
She talks about the importance of feeling the emotions underneath the desire for forgiveness, how to explore those emotions, and being a student on the walk of life.
00:00:00 The layered process of forgiveness
00:04:35 Feeling the emotions under the desire to forgive or be forgiven
00:08:44 Acknowledgment, acceptance and accountability
00:14:47 Being a student to life and modalities of embracing and expressing feeling in order to embrace forgiveness
A meditation to help ease feelings of guilt, shame, or resentment: https://youtu.be/w9QGCNWZIhw
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Email Cierra: [email protected]
Cierra’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cierradae/
Cierra’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/cierradaeconsciouscreations
Cierra’s Youtube:https://www.youtube.com/@cierradae
Explore Dr. Becky Bailey's Conscious Discipline Course: https://consciousdiscipline.com/e-learning/10-session-online-course/
Back to Heart is a podcast full of open dialogue conversations of and from the heart with Cierra Dae, to learn how to relate with more intention and love within our relationships and parenting. Combining spirituality, psychology, and real life experience to help lead you back in the direction of heart to unravel the karmic patterns of our lives. We learn tools of emotional intelligence, mindfulness, and expression to deepen relationships and heal wounds from generations of disconnect. Coming back to heart to live rich lives we crave and deserve.
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