The Scandoval of it all... Vanderupump Rules, Cheating, and Narcissism

03/16/23 • 38 min

As a true bravoholic and reality tv junky, I couldn't NOT talk about this situation. I mean even as a women who has been cheated on and survived toxic, abusive relationships, I had too many thoughts not to get them off my chest. If you aren't in the loop on all the Vanderpump Rules cheating drama that's okay I promise. At about 13:04 I share my thoughts on narcissistic abuse and how it hides in plain sight far more often than people realize.

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Working moms are superhuman

Being a mom is a super power in itself. Being a working mother, whether you work outside of the home or from home, that takes things to a whole other level! Finding the balance between the two can sometimes seem impossible. Why is it that as moms we judge ourselves so harshly if we aren't making HUGE strides in our careers? If we aren't climbing the ladder and crushing our goals at lighting speed, we convince ourselves that we are somehow falling behind. That ends now. Juggling mom life, home life, work life, and trying to find time for ourselves in between it all actually makes us even more qualified. It's high time we give ourselves the credit we deserve and learn to trust the process.

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Finding love after an abusive, toxic, unhealthy relationship

I know its totally cringe and annoying to say, but I get this question a lot! "Jess, how did you find real love after your abusive marriage? Do you have any advice"? Ok, I am not love expert but I do have advice that I feel can absolutely help guide you to finding real, genuine, love again and not repeat that cycle of abuse. Spoiler alert... you have to do some work... annnnd it will most likely take more time than you want it to. Im a firm believer that love is out there for anyone who really wants it. Call me a hopeless romantic or delusional I don't care, you're not changing my mind. I believe it because I've experienced it first hand.
Did I make mistakes along the way? Yes. Did I have to kiss a few frogs to find my "prince charming"? Sure did. If you want love, you CAN and will find it. Just give yourself some grace along the way.