What will you do with this one wild and precious life?

05/07/24 • 27 min

A Fiber Life | ordinary moments on the fiber farm

You know how frustrating it can be when you’re exhausted and you finally get to lay your head on the pillow at night and then that thought comes in, “I didn’t get anything done today.”? It’s an awful feeling. And then the next thought is, and “When I wake up, I’m going to have to repeat all those things again.” It’s not very satisfying and it can be totally overwhelming. Well, I’m going to tell you about how farm life inspired us to try a different way of approaching work. Greg and I will talk about our careers and how our relationship to professional work was so different from the relationship we have now with farm work. And I’m going to tell you about my grampa. He’s the one who showed me a different perspective on completing jobs and projects. It’s taken decades for me to realize he was onto something special, and I really want to share that with you. So, if you want to find a nicer alternative to the “to-do-list efficiency approach to work”, I’m so glad you are here. I hope you get inspired by our farm life lessons the way I was inspired by my grampa's life lessons.Important Links: Connect Lisa and Greg on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/afiberlifeCheck out our website: https://afiberlife.com/Shop their Fiber products: https://afiberlife.com/shop/

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When a couple discovers their third thing?

Every couple needs a "we" or a third thing—a focal point that exists not solely within one individual but rather something shared between them. Something cherished mutually, binding them together. There is an article by American poet Donald Hall, that left a lasting impression on me. The article is called “The Third Thing.” In it, Hall and his wife Jane Kenyon, also a poet, moved to a rustic farm in Vermont with a pond. The pond magnetized them and created a unit of belonging. It, and the poetry they wrote there, became their third thing. He described how, rather than staring into each other’s eyes, their gazes met and entwined as they looked at the water. Since reading that article, I have always held the idea that the third thing for a couple is essential. It is not an adornment, it is not icing on the cake, it is a central form of companionship. A practice of double attention. The third thing doesn’t have to be anything extraordinary, but it does need to be there. When a couple discovers their third thing, it's akin to finding a shared vision that will fortify their bond and endure over time.Important links:Article “The Third Thing” by Donald Hall Website: afiberlife.comInstagram: instagram.com/afiberlifeProduction Company: brightsighted.comWant to purchase an ad? Email us at: [email protected]

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Why is Life like a Tapestry?

Let's be real—do you struggle with making decisions? Do you agonize over the next step, spending so much time weighing risks and doing research that you end up stuck and wanting to quit? Since moving to the farm, we've had our fair share of flops—some of them quite funny. We're sharing a few of those stories with you. Plus, we'll talk about the forest thinning project that Greg and our neighbor Josh are working on. So, if you need a nudge to make your next decision or a reminder that failure is a consistent part of the journey to success, this episode is for you. Let's dive in and explore how embracing those ordinary moments and decisions can lead to extraordinary outcomes.Important Links: Connect Lisa and Greg on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/afiberlifeCheck out our website: https://afiberlife.com/Shop their Fiber products: https://afiberlife.com/shop/